Hi, everyone, I’m Sicily.
"As a woman, what kind of multiple-choice questions have you done in life?"
When Sicily saw Dong Xuan's interview question and answer on this issue, and thought of her experience over the past few years, she couldn't help but feel distressed.
The life of a girl is really too difficult.
And the "time" when she made her choice should be 2011.
At that time, she was 33 years old and her career was in full swing. She found various scripts, most of which were female number one.
and her marriage partner Gao Yunxiang is still a little famous actor.
However, despite the opposition of people around her, she firmly chose to marry Gao Yunxiang.
She wants a happy family, a lovely child, and hopes that her life choices can make her parents rest assured.
If everything develops as usual, the future should be happy.
Until 2018, Gao Yunxiang was accused of sexual assault.
has gone through various changes in life, and she finally understands that she should live for herself.
"All kinds of yesterday, for example, died yesterday; all kinds of today, such as today are born."
An independent girl, no matter what happens, she can't stop her from shining.
If Gao Yunxiang did not make a mistake, maybe Dong Xuan would choose to continue to be a stable little woman.
still remember that she once said shyly and proudly:
"My greatest achievement is to find a good husband."
They were really sweet too.
He gave Dong Xuan the exclusive nickname "Fat Ball", and often shared photos of his wife’s life online;
carefully prepared every holiday gift, and because of his wife’s casual words, he went to Hengdian on a hot day to buy for her. Want to eat.
and Dong Xuan also focused on the family, after three years of marriage, she began to get pregnant.
During the three years of pregnancy, she basically did not make any film. During that time, many of the scenes that looked for her became popular, and the actors and friends around her became better and better.
She has an inferiority complex because of her career stagnation and soaring weight for pregnancy.
Bad emotions broke out when she was pregnant with her first child but suffered a miscarriage. At that time, she felt that the sky was about to fall.
Fortunately, her daughter's dimples came safely. When she saw her daughter's dependence and need on her instinct, she felt that everything was worth it.
paid a lot, but she got the happy family and happy life she wanted.
Who knows, the change in life comes from the seemingly honest "good husband". In 2018, Gao Yunxiang was arrested in Sydney on suspicion of sexual assault. The
case lasted for two years. Although Gao Yunxiang was eventually found not guilty, his derailment within the marriage is still an indisputable fact.
thisThe news was like a slap in the face, shattering Dong Xuan's dream of being a peaceful little woman.
may be out of the feeling of being needed, or it may be the affection for many years.
In those days when Gao Yunxiang was in jail, Dong Xuan chose to believe and rescue at the first time. After
paid tens of millions of bail, the freezing of all the assets in the family put the family into an unprecedented difficult situation.
In order to raise money to make up for the hole that her husband stabbed, she began to plan to come back.
WeChat business endorsements, Xianyu sells brand-name clothing, and even those who consume Gao Yunxiang's reality show, she chose to overdraw her fame crazy.
Unexpectedly, the mess was almost cleaned up, but she resolutely chose to divorce.
Just as we didn't understand Dong Xuan's "life-saving" to save her husband, we didn't understand her calmly letting go.
"Little Woman" Dong Xuan is a real "big woman".
After she has handled everything calmly and appropriately, she has time to think about love and hatred.
rescue Gao Yunxiang out of trouble, it is love.
left him because such a stain is not allowed in his relationship.
Now Dong Xuan is exposed to a new relationship, and her career is gradually rising.
But Gao Yunxiang expresses the prodigal in the circle of friends, regretting not the original regret. (The scumbag will kill himself if he is unrighteous!)
When the love on his shoulders fell, Dong Xuan finally chose to live for himself.
Pope once said:
"The happiness of love cannot end in a passionate embrace. Love must have the eternal characteristics, to love yourself and the other person."
looks quite similar to Dong Xuan. The situation is somewhat similar to Tong Liya , but also after experiencing emotional betrayal, finally understand this truth.
Zhihu has a question, "How about women who have not divorced after their husband cheated?"
The highest praise answer said that he would enter two different lives.
Sicily looked at the increasingly gentle and powerful Yaya, and had to guess that she chose the first one.
The unruly gifted Chen Sicheng and the beauty Tong Liya who is deeply influenced by the "three obedience and four virtues".
Their unequal marriage relationship laid a hidden danger at the beginning.
At that time, Liya Tong was beautiful and beautiful, her eyes wandering and weak.
But after Chen Sicheng fell into derailment scandals again and again, Tong Liya gradually changed.
She cut short hair, her eyes became firm, and she forged a strong aura in the constant polishing.
the same beauty, Blooming a different style.
not only went farther and farther on the road of actors, but also became the host across the border. Although the performance of
spring evening is slightly jerky, but fortunately dignified and generous.
Tong Liya finally lived out herself.
This is her way to "retaliate" Chen Sicheng, with the capital to be loved, and the ability to let go at any time.
There is a saying in "Memoirs of a Geisha": "The best way to attract a person is to be independent rather than deliberately flattering."
finds her Tong Liya, she is so beautiful.
Sicily knows that everyone has a different attitude towards love.
Some people are humble like dust in love, love to the point of losing themselves, obviously hurt, but still entangled and compromised.
But some people will separate decisively without any muddle.
such as Mao Xiaotong and Xu Jing.
I still remember that in the video where Chen Xiang was exposed to derailment, when Mao Xiaotong witnessed the cheating of the scumbag, he did not cry or make trouble, but moved overnight.
Regarding this matter, only the Weibo that she posted that night could snoop a trace.
Later, Chen Xiang preemptively cried in the variety show, delusional to use lies to erase his unfaithfulness in the world of love.
and Mao Xiaotong was abused for a long time, but she still reserved the most respect for the other party. When
was promoting the new drama " Thirty Only " this year, she was asked what she thought of cheating. She replied: "I have zero tolerance for cheating. Don't underestimate a woman's courage to deal with problems."
These words seem to be true In response to the previous breakup incident, it is no wonder that she would decisively leave when facing a scumbag and find herself after losing love.
Now she has obviously become the better self in her mouth.
and Chen He's ex-wife Xu Jing.
She has been with him all the time, from being unfamiliar to being famous overnight with "Zeng Xiaoxian" in "Love Apartment".
Later they held a wedding in Thailand, and Chen He promised to accompany her around the world at the wedding.
The vows are beautiful, but the reality is sobering.
The "good man" derailed, and during that time he was still using his love with his ex-wife to create affectionate personalities.
but Xu Jing was not entangled. When she turned around, she became the host of the hotel and formed a team.
traveled around and also met love.
And Chen He said he wanted to quit the running man, but he recorded it as usual a month later, and since then, it has been variety shows and film and television dramas one after another.
Recently, he became involved in controversy because of his participation in Long Jie Cheng Tuan Ye.
People are upset about why cheating men fight for the cake that belongs to the cruel camp of middle-aged actresses.
These scolding sounds may be backlash for what he did wrong.
And the girls leave the wrong love, turn around and become sonorous roses.
Mao Xiaotong is like this, and so is Ma Yili. After being hurt by love, he finally wakes up and has to rely on himself for everything in life.
You must know that love is not all of life.
Love yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Independent and beautiful girls will always grow up with their heads high.
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An adult, as long as she has a clear conscience and can bear all the consequences, then any choice she makes is blameless.
So in the face of women who have been cheated and choose to divorce/break up, you can praise them freely. If
is not so, it does not need to be said to be "forgive the leader."
Sicily will always praise those girls who dominate their lives.
In short, at the fork in your life, think twice before you act.
Live this life well, and there will always be someone with you in the future.
Although love is often painful, it is good to have love.
is like the song of the five people: "Although life is meaningless, but love does make life more beautiful."
May you be independent and strong, and get what you want.
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