Spending 15 million on bail for her husband for sexual assault, Dong Xuan set up her own business after divorce, she still has a pressing temperament at 40


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On February 21, Dong Xuan and his daughter Xiaodi took a big picture with a potato chip bag, which became popular on the Internet, and was imitated and forwarded by many netizens. The dimples and round eyes in the


photo, the baby's plump and round face, completely inherited the beauty of mother Dong Xuan, and people can't help but want to pinch her little face.


Although Dong Xuan is nearly forty, his temperament and beauty are still there. She is still the cold, arrogant and beautiful "Shangguan Yan" in the eyes of the audience.

was born in Dong Xuan in Mudanjiang City, Heilongjiang Province. She is an out-and-out Northeast girl. She graduated from the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy in 2000.


In 2003, Shangguan Yan from "Snow Goddess Dragon" was born.


The three-foot-footed silk flying in the wind, beautifully glamorous, arrogant, reluctant, and indifferent, the martial artist Shangguan Yan has met all the imagination of the glamorous woman.



Dong Xuan is also popular because of this TV series, and it is precisely to step into the show business circle. In the following years, she created many unique costume characters.


Li Yu, the concubine of beauty and wisdom coexisting in "The Great Case of the Song Dynasty"; the gentle and virtuous lady Shui Bingxin in "The Gentleman";


"The Eight Great Heroes" has learned from the past and the present, with a careful heart and gentle manner The goddess doctor Bian Su asked;


In "Detective Di Renjie Part III", there are two roles: the iron-handed Yun Gu and the kind-hearted Ge Yaqing;



Dong Xuan is not only in the field of costumes. Occupying a place, it also has a wonderful performance in modern dramas:


"Impossible Beauty Like Clouds" in the beautiful and arrogant, talented and arrogant workplace demon Ma Jiali;


"Struggle" movie has a very unique personality , Talented, crazy fashion designer Charlene;


urban commercial war drama "Impossible Master Like a Forest" low-key down-to-earth, talent and ability in a perfect rich girl Feng Lufei.



Whether it is a costume drama or a modern drama, whether it is a chivalrous chivalrous girl or an independent intellectual woman in a modern drama, Dong Xuan earnestly performs every role.


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In the contemporary era of material desire, Chinese married women are carrying more and more pressure and risks.


On the one hand, they have to face the work pressure caused by the increase of age; on the other hand, they also have to face the risk of work interruption and loss of themselves after getting married and having children. Once marriage problems occur, women are often the most vulnerable role.


, even actors and stars, are no exception.


As a public figure, once there is a crisis in private feelings and marriage, the impact on each other is even greater than ordinary people.


On August 21, 2011, Dong Xuan and Gao Yunxiang held their wedding in Beijing.


This pair of talented and beautiful ladies had a wonderful time after marriage.


From 2011 to 2012, Dong Xuan and Gao Yunxiang won the "BQ Reds List" Annual Fashion Sweet Couple Award and "Xinmin Weekly Witness Classic Witness Honor Culture List Award Ceremony" Annual Love Star Couple Award. To some extent, these two awards,


, have witnessed their love and dating years.


After marriage, Xuan Dong, in order to fully support her husband's career, began to slowly fade out of the show business. Although


has very few appointments and only guest roles, Dong Xuan's appearance is always a beautiful landscape.


In 2014, in the martial arts drama "The Legend of Condor Heroes", Lin Chaoying, the founder of the Tomb School, danced a sword in the snow in a red dress and once again surprised the audience.


and Gao Yunxiang, thanks to Dong Xuan, a good internal helper, has slowly improved his career.


In 2016 "Miyue Biography", Gao Yunxiang's passionate man, Yi Jun, officially became popular and became the lover of thousands of women.

Many women give encouragement and support when men need to fight for their careers; after marriage, they focus on men and children. And some men who are not careful, always betray the woman behind them easily after achieving small achievements. Bridges like


have existed since ancient times, and they are still being staged today.


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On March 26, 2018, Gao Yunxiang was in a hotel in Sydney, Australia, and news about the alleged sexual assault of an Australian Chinese woman was exploded across the Internet.


As a powerful actor Gao Yunxiang has gained many fans along the way. When the sexual assault scandal came out, many netizens couldn't believe it.


However, with the in-depth investigation of the case and the media's added oil and vinegar, Gao Yunxiang basically collapsed, and his image as a good husband and man was destroyed.


The outside world kept breaking news that Gao Yunxiang and Dong Xuan were divorced.


is replaced by another woman. If you hear that your husband has such a scandal, who is not crying crying or flashing away.


But what is shocking is that Dong Xuan, who seems gentle and quiet, forwarded Gao Yunxiang's studio for the first time, and said four words simply and clearly: "I believe him".



In "I believe him", there is no redundant explanation, no possibility of ambiguity, but a firmness, calmness and determination between the lines. After


, Dong Xuan went to Australia to help Gao Yunxiang.


In order to prevent Gao Yunxiang from jail, Dong Xuan handed in the passports of his mother-in-law and daughter, and paid about 14.65 million yuan in bail.


and the lawyers team discussed that Gao Yunxiang wears electronic fetters, and has been living in the residence arranged by Dong Xuan for a long time;

and the conditions of not going out from 21:00 to 5 a.m., and not close to the Sydney International Airport 100 meters;


at the same time , Reporting the whereabouts to the police station twice a day, using only one mobile phone number and recording it on the prosecutor.


Under Dong Xuan's unremitting efforts, Gao Yunxiang was finally released on bail and obtained a certain amount of personal freedom.



In the process of running for Gao Yunxiang, Dong Xuan did not have the hostility to defend his grievances everywhere; there was no tearful media grievance; and no one gave up. The development of the


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case was not conducive to Gao Yunxiang's side.

In this case, if Dong Xuan filed for divorce, I think no one would say that she is not.

As the saying goes, you are ruthless and I am not righteous. Husband and wife are birds of the same forest and fly separately when the disaster is approaching. What's more, Gao Yunxiang brought this difficulty himself.

Even netizens are wondering: Dong Xuan, why don’t you get a divorce!

However, Dong Xuan still did not officially declare a divorce until Gao Yunxiang was settled.

20On April 4, 19, Gao Yunxiang apologized to the public for the first time on his Weibo.


He said that the reason why he has not spoken is because he "does not want to occupy more public resources."


The reason why he finally stood up is that there are news reports that the investor of Gao Yunxiang's film and television series took him to court, and his wife Dong Xuan was also dragged down and became a defendant.



After Gao Yunxiang posted his apology on Weibo, they finally divorced.


No matter where the sexual assault case is going, whether there is hard evidence, Gao Yunxiang was a man at the last moment, defending Dong Xuan.


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fortune and misfortune depend on each other.


Dong Xuan ran back and forth because of the Gao Yunxiang incident, exhausted, and his reputation was more or less affected.


As a wife, she must be extremely uncomfortable. But after the incident, she showed decisiveness and calmness that many netizens admire.



"Is this man worth all your efforts to protect him"? Only Dong Xuan knows the answer


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But as a wife, Dong Xuan fulfilled her obligations as a wife, and even more so, she stood firmly beside her husband under Gao Yunxiang's target and spurned by thousands of people.


See character after breaking up, and see character even more after divorce.



After marriage, Dong Xuan, compared with many cheated actresses, tells of her unfortunate past with tears and tears in the show. The difference is that she has never said that Gao Yunxiang is not, let alone that she is running in a foreign country. The bitterness.


Instead, he re-founded his own company, picked up his career, worked hard, and raised his daughter.


But also because of what Dong Xuan did for Gao Yunxiang, he won the affirmation and respect of many people.


she not only got an unexpected exposure rate, but also made many directors, producers, and commercials extend an olive branch to her.


Today’s Dong Xuan, although a single mother, has her own career and a cute and well-behaved daughter. With this kind of ambition of being neither humble nor pretentious nor hypocritical, she lives magnanimously and chicly.



This, to some extent, tells women in misfortune that there is another kind of revelation :


"When we stop crying out, look at our own growth and transformation, maybe this is the real thing. The road to self-salvation."