The relationship with Yang Jiewei for more than 30 years, why Alan Tam married his lover Zhu Yongting

In the Chinese music scene, Alan Tan and are definitely considered a master singer, but his love was once criticized.

Alan Tam was born in North Point, Hong Kong in 1950. His family conditions are average. His father is a football player, and he has two older sisters and three younger sisters.

Alan Tam has a wide range of hobbies since childhood, not only loves football, but also likes singing very much. However, when he was in college, he did not choose a major related to his hobbies. Instead, he followed the advice of his family to study economics in Singapore.

When Alan Tam was in his junior year, he suddenly contracted a malaise and was tortured with pain. In desperation, Alan Tam had to drop out of school and return to Hong Kong to recuperate. But after he recovered, Alan Tam gave up his studies. Although

failed to finish university, Alan Tam had the opportunity to sing as a resident singer. At the same time, he was able to return to the Loosers band. The band

Loosers was founded with a friend when Alan Tam was 18 years old. Because his father was very strict and did not agree with him to take the path of music, he reluctantly accepted it after seeing Alan Tam’s sincerity and devotion. When

was 23 years old, Alan Tam served as the lead singer of Winner band . Although he debuted early, he is still an unknown singer.

was when he was an unknown singer, in 1974, Alan Tan and his wife Yang Jiewei met . After that, the two people determined their relationship. At that time, Yang Jiewei was a beauty consultant for a cosmetics company. She had her own unique aesthetic vision for stage image, costumes, and choreography.

In order to better help Alan Tam, Yang Jiewei resigned from the company and devoted her energy to Alan Tam. Yang Jiewei manages concerts, record commercials and even movies.

Gradually, Alan Tam's career has improved. In 1981, his solo album "I Can't Forget You" directly established his position as a top singer in the music scene in Hong Kong. The movie "If I'm Real" also won the Best Actor Award at the 18th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards.

And Yang Jiewei also became Alan Tam's wife this year.

1981 can be said to be a very memorable year for Alan Tam. And he has become very busy since then, because the two get together less and more, and Yang Jiewei has miscarried many times, and there is no emotional maintenance, and the relationship between the two slowly appears.

Later, Alan Tam met the young and beautiful Zhu Yongting , and began an underground love.

At this time, outsiders did not know that Alan Tam was married. It was not until the death of Yang Jiewei's father in 1993 that the marriage relationship between the two became known to the public because of the publication of "Alan Tam" in the obituary.

At that time, Yang Jiewei was still immersed in the happiness that Alan Tan had weaved for herself. It was not until Zhu Yongting gave birth to her son Tan Xiaofeng for Alan Tan that she suddenly realized.

In order to obtain Yang Jiewei's forgiveness, Alan Tan handed over the financial power of the family to her, and the family did not recognize Zhu Yongting's identity, which comforted Yang Jiewei to some extent.

But Yang Jiewei would not have thought that this turned out to be a turning point in her unfortunate fate.

Yang Jiewei and Alan Tam have been married for more than ten years and have had no children. Although he has always claimed that he is Dink, the problem of inheriting the family has always been unavoidable by Alan Tan. This also made Tan Xiaofeng an unprecedented favor after his birth.

Yang Jiewei endured the pain of marital betrayal, but could not influence the whole family's thoughts.

In 2006, Alan Tam's father died. In order to give Zhu Yongting the name, Alan Tam endured insults and publicly admitted that he had an affair and children. In his father's obituary, Zhu Yongting's name appeared, which made Yang Jiewei heartbroken.

At the same time, Yang Jiewei discovered that although Alan Tan had given the financial power of the family to her own management, he had long transferred the assets to Tan Xiaofeng's name, and Yang Jiewei finally woke up at this moment.

After

, Yang Jiewei chose to escape into the empty door and focus on cultivating Buddha.

Alan Tam also officially righted his lover Zhu Yongting at the 61-year-old birthday banquet. A relationship of more than 30 years has finally ended.

Some people say that Yang Jiewei is with Alan Tam to fight the country, and Zhu Yongting is with Alan Tam to support the country. But no matter who is right or wrong, everyone has their own final destination. What will happen in the future, I believe time will give us the answer.