This second-born mother in Wuhan, Indonesia, played with the "naughty ghost" and became a schoolmaster and sportsman

Zhuangzhuang, now he is a member of the school football team

Li Yingqi is a girl from Wuhan and a mother with a second child in Indonesia. Dabao is called Zhuangzhuang, 8 and a half years old this year. The second treasure is called Kangkang, 3 and a half years old this year. I was a nurse before giving birth, and became a full-time mother after giving birth to Dabao.

Dabao Zhuangzhuang is holding his newly born second treasure Kangkang. Since the birth of his younger brother, Zhuang Zhuang naturally has a sense of mission.

Dad is a communications engineer stationed overseas. In order to reunite with his father who works in Indonesia, Li Yingqi brought Zhuang Zhuang to Indonesia in 2013 for an average of one year. Back to Wuhan once. Because the school and company do not have holidays during the Spring Festival, the Li Yingqi family will not be able to go home for the New Year this year.

Li Yingqi's sunset outside the window of his house in Indonesia

On the eve of the Spring Festival, a reporter from the Changjiang Daily contacted the second-child mother in Wuhan, who was far away in Indonesia, through WeChat, and she wrote about Dabao Zhuangzhuang with her child’s pencil and drawing book. Unspeakable love words".

Through her letters and her words, you may be able to read the tears and laughter, hard work and harvest of a second-born mother.

Listen to the letter she wrote to Zhuangzhuang

From "naughty ghost" to schoolmaster and sportsman

Li Yingqi made food for babies

"I haven't lifted the pen, tears have wet my eyes", Li Yingqi At the beginning of the letter, write like this. "Because Zhuang Zhuang is really a naughty ghost." Li Yingqi said bluntly, "I am not a lyrical person at ordinary times. With the comparison between two children, I can more appreciate the difference in the children's temperament. Brave, agile, and smart. , Stubborn children, parents need to pay more."

was a cute "naughty ghost" when he was young. The birth of baby

made Li Yingqi's life positive and active. "I was lazy when I didn't raise a child. With a child, he opened his mouth to eat and went out to play. These needs definitely require me to use my brain." Because Zhuang Zhuang is naughty and active, Li Yingqi "uses his brain" to help the child. "Release energy" and take children to learn all kinds of sports: football, basketball, swimming, gymnastics, tennis, roller skating... I exercise several times a week, almost all of them for four and a half to five years. Even when Li Yingqi was pregnant with her second child, she sent Zhuangzhuang to learn roller skating with a big belly. She insisted on learning roller skating every week for six months.

brothers are born with emotions. Since the birth of the younger brother, Zhuang Zhuang naturally has a sense of mission. From "straight" to very warm, although a little bit naughty, the overall will let the younger brother and care for the younger brother. .

A recent photo of Erbao Kangkang. Kangkang likes to go to school very much, and will be sad because of not going to school at the weekend.

Now, Zhuang Zhuang is in elementary school and is a member of the school swimming team and football team. He has won awards in various competitions. "Sports allows him to release his energy, be healthy, and be more confident. In the competition, he is also more courageous to fight and surpass himself!" Speaking of Zhuang Zhuang's achievements, Li Yingqi is very proud: "Zhuang Zhuang is a schoolmaster in school. Our Chinese family English will be weaker, but his reading is better than that of foreign children of the same age. Zhuang Zhuang is now doing the English test papers for the domestic senior third year. He is excellent and stress-free. He is also very good at math. He has won two gold medals in the Olympic Southeast Asian Games And a bronze award!" How did

Zhuangzhuang do it? Li Yingqi smiled and said: "My English is very'scumbag'. He just likes to read books, so he can say that he doesn't leave his hands. Now I read English novels, and neither I nor his father can understand."

"Do" to play tricks and go out

. Because the kindergarten in Indonesia is only half a day, Li Yingqi wondered how to use the other half of the day to change tricks to make the children happy. "Parents and children care and harmoniously, simple for each other. You don't give the children. If you find something to do, he will make trouble. So we played a wide range of pictures, experiments, homemade board games, and crafts." On

's WeChat public account, Li Yingqi shared many of her homemade mini games . More than one small game can be played with disposable plastic cups. When

Zhuangzhuang first came to Indonesia to study in an international kindergarten, he was not confident about learning the calendar every day. Many mothers said that when their children could not integrate into the English environment, were unwilling to speak, and were withdrawn, they felt very worried, as did Li Yingqi.

So, she cut a small rectangle with a soft magnet, pasted the week and month, made a calendar, and pasted it on the refrigerator. She practiced every day before going to school. She often sang English nursery rhymes together with her hands, and soon the children could express themselves happily.Me. Li Yingqi said: "The way to make a child excellent is not to suppress it but to make him confident!" She explained the importance of games in her official account like this: childhood cannot be separated from games, but many parents do not know how to play games with their children. The Chinese tradition is that parents are lofty and unsmiling. When he was young, maybe the child would obey, but when he grew up, he would hide his thoughts and parents and children would go further and further. The game promotes the parent-child relationship very well. Put down the phone, open the smile, spend half an hour, and give the child a good memory.

from the beginning simple "look for a job to do" to play out road, playing a pattern, Ying Qi feel very happy: "Seeing the child's ability, concentration is good for the mother very pleased."

(Author: Yangtze River Daily reporter Chen Zhiwenzhong's video and photos are provided by interviewees. Recording/editing of letters: Chen Zhi)

[Editor: Fu Ying]