The finale of "In the Name of Family" has ended. The mothers of "unfeeling" have all gotten to a good death. The ending of Qi Mingyue's mother is embarrassing. How many of us are still alive like her!
All the "unfeeling" mothers in "In the Name of Family" got a good death
"In the Name of Family" ended perfectly. Several "unfeeling mothers" ended in a happy and forgotten ending.
Ling Xiao’s mother: She left a pair of young children at home and went out to play mahjong. The son fed walnuts to his sister. The sister was stuck, but the door was locked and no one passed through the window in a rainstorm. The sister eventually died. The mother blamed her son for killing her sister. She abandoned her son and left. After remarrying, she was widowed and paralyzed. However, she needed the care of her son who was in college, and the spirit "trapped" her son for 9 years. In the end, he was saved from suicide, his body and spirit were redeemed, and his son still loved his mother.
He Ziqiu's mother: How old is the child, and he threw it to a stranger "Dad Li" to take care of. Although he has suffered from prison, it is not a reason to play "unfeeling" in front of the child and keep the child under the fence. After telling the truth, on a rainy day when the son did not bring an umbrella, his mother pretended to come by to pick him up, so that the son could show off for a day with excitement. Finally, he married "Papa Li", his son's long-time supporter. The son also recognized it, and the lover was still waiting for him.
Tang Can’s mother: Since she was a child, she let her daughter shoot commercials and TV dramas, and earned a house and a car for the family, but her daughter did not become famous when she became an adult, so she disliked her in various ways. In the end, the daughter became the protagonist of the play and was relieved.
These distorted attitudes toward children may be too exaggerated, and the final outcome is too perfect. But in real life, more people are the real Qi Mingyue mother.
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How many people have become moon moms
The mother who is closest to life and the most terrifying in the play "In the Name of Family" is Qi Mingyue's mother.
She is extremely perfect, everyone praises: housekeeping, capable.
The elderly of the two families are served by her. The couple both go to work and are busy at work, but it is Mother Moon who is going home to cook. The child's cram school and parent meeting are all attended and planned by Moon mothers.
Dad just nodded and said okay, feeling that his daughter was wronged behind his back, he gave the child 200 yuan as an allowance.
Moon mom is very strong on the surface, and gives you democracy, but finally takes back the decision with "I am for your good and care about you". In fact, it is not allowed to happen unplanned, afraid of changes, and want children to follow the blueprint step by step.
Moon mom gave the child what she thought was the best, but she didn't know if it was what she wanted most. This kind of love is suffocating.
has a lens, and the contrast between the front and back sets is particularly heartwarming. When the moon was 16 years old, she wanted to choose other colors, and her mother said that pink is pretty. When Moon was 25 years old, her mother opened her closet and saw that it was full of pink clothes, and began to blame: how old she is, she still wears pink!
Moon moms were right. The little girl wears pink and is cute, but pink in the workplace can't look capable, but these moon moms forgot to tell their children, but they just vetoed it repeatedly. The feeling for children is that the same pink is good when you think it looks good, and when you think it is bad, it should be bad.
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The ending of Moon Mom is real and humble
Moon's mother loves the Moon very much. She didn't repay her for her success, but just mistakenly treated her children and husband as a business.
She has been a cock baby, but she won the resistance of the good girl, Moon: In order to choose her favorite major, she did not fill out an answer sheet. Moon was afraid that she would reach the score line of the University of Political Science and Law, and her mother would force her to study law.
She has always praised her husband for being obedient, but after her daughter moved out to live alone, she turned her attention on her husband and was picky, and buying a house privately became the last straw that crushed the marriage relationship. The husband exhorted her daughter to "you After divorcing my mother, I will definitely regret it", and still ran to freedom and signed the divorce agreement.
The ending of Moon Mom is real and humble, just like this character-the most bitter and tiring, The work is done, but the most unpleasant.
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The chicken baby is a strange circle, moon moms: please give the child a blue sky
As Ling Xiao said: Qi Mingyue is really beautiful, good personality, and very good, but he is not confident.
Why is it so quiet and often takes first and second exams? Qi Mingyue, who is still a well-off family, is still not confident?
because she has a mother who denies her completely and is too planful.
Qi Mingyue is not without his own opinion, but really dare not have his own opinion. Her final resistance, at the bifurcation of life such as the college entrance examination, seemed really ridiculous. She was betting on her own future, but she had no chance to slap herself in a big mouth. Mother Moon might have really realized it, and beat her fiercely. A loud slap in the face.
Children always grow up, and they have to learn to face it by themselves. We waited behind us, or secretly hid on one side, just like when they were learning to walk for the first time when they were young, when the child fell down, if he could not hold back, the child got up and walked better and more steadily; , I turned around and found that my mother was there. Come and hug and kiss her. My mother reminded us: We must avoid the table and walk slowly step by step. The child no longer hurts, the warmth is there, and the protection is there.
There are tens of millions ofroads. In the future, children can take a wider range. There is no need to be too restrictive to suppress their nature and confidence in the future.
Mingyue is at the age of 25, and she is still acting for the "chicken baby" mother to read civil servant books. When she was found that she hadn't read any notes at all, she was torn apart and determined to accept a new job task-going to Beijing to exercise for 2 years.
parents divorced, she stood by her mother's side sensibly and told her father: "Dad, you decided to divorce. I respect your opinion! But I think you will regret it after you divorce my mom."
Can my husband regret it? This relationship is also hurt. The daughter could obviously be better, take the road she likes earlier, go to the fall and get up sooner, or look back to her mother; but she has to be 25 years old before daring to challenge her mother. If the fall hurts, The cost will only be greater.
How many of us have become Qi Mingyue’s mothers, as parents of "chicken babies", or we should all let them go and give the children a blue sky.