"Dear Myself": Zhang Zhizhi will never cultivate an elite, she is not bad at money

　　 Zhang Zhizhi played by Kan Qingzi in the TV series "Dear Myself" makes people feel awkward more and more. She wants her children to go to the best kindergarten and play with the best quality children in the class. She believes that from an early age to an elite school and grow up with the elite, children grow up to be the elite. Some people think she is the low-profile version of Gu Jia. Because her thoughts are exactly the same as Gu Jia. But Jiji thinks Zhang Zhizhi is not Gu Jia, they are also of two classes. And her education method can't cultivate elites at all, but will backfire and leave a shadow on the children.

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　　Zhang Zhizhi sent her daughter to the best kindergarten. She let her daughter play with those high-quality children. Zhang Zhizhi's high quality mostly refers to the wealthy. This is Zhang Zhizhi's misunderstanding of high quality. The real high quality is not the child of the rich. She asked Yuwei to play with them, but she could only let Yuwei see that their food and clothing costs were different from her own. This is how the child's comparability is cultivated.

　　 She had a meeting with those mothers and asked for soda for the first time and paid more than 300. Every time after that, she didn't order anything to drink or food, just to save money. Obviously, Zhang Zhizhi is incompatible with this circle. And the daughter, with them, is still out of place.

　　 They eat, wear and use, but Yuwei has none. Among these children, she can only be more inferior. When the children play together, her embarrassment will happen to Yuwei. She hadn't thought about how Yuwei would deal with these embarrassments.

　　 The mothers bluntly said that the clothes she wore had no texture. This is obviously looking down. Mothers look down on Zhizhi, and children will look down on Yuwei as well. Because Zhang Zhizhi's petty spirit was disdainful in their eyes. The appearance of her squeezing into the elite circle was so ugly that Gigi couldn't agree.

　　 Her starting point is for the good of her daughter, but not really for her daughter. The true elite is not the same kindergarten as the children of the rich. The real elite is to cultivate the qualities of children.

　　 is like why Dr. Zhao in "Ode to Joy" can become an elite, that is the rendering of intellectual families. Since childhood, he has developed his reading habits, his taste, and the ability to think independently.

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　　 Yuwei once told Zhizhi Miaomiao not to play with her. Because they are not people in the same world. Here, there are naturally parents' instructions, but the children also think so. Zhang Zhizhi feels that these children are of high quality. She was wrong. If they were really of high quality, they would naturally not leave Yuwei indifferently.

　　 is like Fang Yifan in "Xiaohuanxi". He can empathize with everyone and never neglect his friends.

　　 And Miaomiao left Yuwei coldly, and could only look down on her. Because she has to let her daughter squeeze in. The circles are different, so there is no need to force them together. This is true for adults and the same for children.

　　 I heard that Miao Miao doesn't play with Yuwei. She began to please those mothers. They made the snack their children loved and brought them over, so cautiously.

　　 is not enough for activities, she offered to help. He had already been kicked out of the group chat, and relied on the way to please him. How happy she is, how sad she is. Once, she can do it. So in the future, will she have to rely on a flattering way to let her daughter finish kindergarten?

　　 If it is normal noisy noise, it will not affect the child, but if you look down for a long time, it will affect the child for a lifetime.

　　 Zhang Zhizhi is not cultivating elites, but ruining his daughter. What she showed her daughter was not positive energy, what she felt was not happiness, but a lot of negative things. Her kind personality affects her daughter's development.

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　　 her husband told Zhang Zhizhi that they are not elites. But Zhang Zhizhi believes that it is precisely because of this that it is necessary to train her daughter into an elite. Zhang Zhizhi's elite education puts pressure on the whole family.

　　 Her own salary is not high, and almost all of them rely on her husband's salary to support the whole family. She passed this pressure onto her husband.

　　 She wants to please Miao Miao's mother, and she has to close her husband. This kind of life is really tiring and tiring.

　　 she stopped the plan herselfThe case is not well done, and Chen Yiming’s help is needed. She indirectly found Li Siyu, and Li Siyu taught it to Chen Yiming.

　　 However, at that time, Chen Yiming was unemployed, and he was too busy to take care of himself and had to help her. A good relationship history is troublesome, but friends are more considerate.

　　 The appearance of Zhang Zhizhi squeezing into the elite circle is extremely ugly. She can't compare with Gu Jia. Gu Jia found out that she did not have a Hermès bag, even if she borrowed money, she could buy it. Gu Jia bet that she can bring in business. Zhang Zhizhi can't, her ability is there.

　　 For a planning case, Zhang Zhizhi is looking for help from others. As for planning activities, Gu Jia held them vividly. This is the difference between her and Gu Jia.

　　 The difference between her and her elite mothers is more than just money. The luxury in her eyes is the norm for them, and that is their life. They are also poor in knowledge and thinking. What they experienced, she didn't. Therefore, she can only survive in this circle by pleasing them.

　　 Zhang Zhizhi's education method cannot cultivate elites. This is her misunderstanding of the elite. The true elites cannot be cultivated by squeezing into the circle. The cultivation of elites depends not on money, but on love, edification, insight, and growth.