Gu Jia, played by Tong Yao in "It’s Only Thirty", interprets the words "women are weak, but mothers are strong". She goes to the hall and the kitchen to get a better education for her son. , It was ruthless. For a time, "ruthless mother" became the resonance of many people. Zhang Zhizhi, played by Kan Qingzi, is also such a role in the newly broadcast "Dear Myself". In order for her daughter Yuwei to go to a better school, she spares no expense in serving as a follower to the "elite" parents. But the same is for the children to live on tiptoe, Zhang Zhizhi's role is not a coincidence.
Zhang Zhizhi's unloving looks like the "replicas" of the classic hit characters in domestic dramas. For example, Fan Shengmei played by Jiang Xin in "Ode to Joy" is a typical child who was sucked blood by his parents. In "Everything is Good", Su Mingyu, played by Yao Chen, has extended and expanded the extension of this role until Sun Li's "An Jia" has changed a bit. , And the Mabony in "Perfect Relationship" has nothing but fur and no connotation.
In "Dear Myself", Zhang Zhizhi, played by Kan Qingzi, as a mother, is unable to impress people because she always lives in her own preset and moved. Let's take a look at a few details. A good girlfriend, Li Siyu, is in dire need of money for a major event. Zhang Zhizhi volunteered to help, but he and her husband only had a deposit of 20,000 yuan. Discussing the plan with the elite mothers, I was reluctant to take a taxi home in the big evening and felt distressed for the spread of dim sum money. I was also excited for the 50,000 yuan bonus given by my husband.
is just the most basic-level employee in the human resources department at the company. Judging from the attitude that the husband would send 30,000 yuan back to the mother of his hometown after receiving the bonus, the original family conditions of the two should not be too good. Obviously, they are only salaried workers in Shanghai who have squeezed their daughters into the best kindergartens and voluntarily become "followers" of the grand ladies. Wang Zhizhi's livelihood, which obviously spans too many strata, is naturally unresonable.
Some people may say that Gu Jia is also trying to squeeze into a class that is not her own, but everyone has forgotten a premise that Gu Jia is attractive because she is good enough. Although she was squeezed into the wide circle, she wanted to get resources, but she didn't rely on clinging and doing low and low, but was recognized by her own ability. Moreover, she herself has working experience in foreign companies and the support of her family's companies.
Zhang Zhizhi's failure is that she is in an isolated "self-struggle" state. The husband does not approve or support, the girlfriends have no sympathy, and even the children are almost weakened into tools.
is obviously just an ordinary white-collar worker, and her family background, ability, resourcefulness and beauty are not enough to support her choice, but she is desperate, and her efforts like this are not sufficiently reflected in the child. Compared with Gu Jia's lovely son in "Thirty Only", Yuwei is basically a tool doll-like existence, just to highlight Zhang Zhizhi's tiptoeing efforts and to provoke the conflict between her and her husband, without more personalized presentation And the value of existence, such a child obviously cannot make people feel stronger, so Zhang Zhizhi's efforts are not so worth mentioning.
In addition, Zhang Zhizhi's emotional intelligence is obviously not online compared to Gu Jia, who is slick and slick. The husband, who puts filial piety first, issued a bonus. She made her own claim that she would lend it to her girlfriends. She obviously adopted a confrontational approach to the proportional distribution between her daughter and her mother-in-law. Obviously my husband doesn't like to stick to my wife, and I still insist on my persistence, ignoring my husband's self-esteem and disgust, not only making myself tired enough but not able to integrate successfully, but also disgusting my family, it is simply killing three birds with one stone.
Thinking back, is Zhang Zhizhi's persistence so motherly or embarrassing the child? The editor guesses that the solution will not be better than Gu Jia. She can only be a vassal and foil. She will definitely not be able to truly integrate. With her persistence, family conflicts will also become prominent. In addition, under the background of the worsening employment situation, the company can Whether she can keep her job with dispensation is still unknown. So how will Zhang Zhizhi, who is facing a triple dilemma, reconcile with "dear self"?
In fact, looking at it this way, if "Dear Myself" focuses on Zhang Zhizhi, a little bit of a low-level character, it will be much better than Li Siyu, who is optimistic and positive, but it may not be easy to tell Zhang Zhizhi's story.
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