In the finale of "In the Name of Family", after Chen Ting was rescued from suicide, she realized that what she had done and done had brought endless pain to her children, and determined to leave Lingxiao and return to Singapore, and personally hand Lingxiao to Lingxiao that she never liked Li Jianjian.
Many netizens don’t like the screenwriter’s whitewashing of Chen Ting. It is difficult to change a person’s concept. From the bottom of my heart, I look forward to the ending: After all, people are experiencing major changes, such as death, and changes will occur. Who said that children need to grow up? , Adults also need to grow up. Chen Ting realizes that she is not a qualified mother, but her mood is bad, and choosing to let go for the happiness of the child is good for both parties. Maybe one day, their mother and son will reunite. The best ending in the
drama is the father God Li Haichao, who married his blind date 20 years ago, He Mei, and received the blessing of He Ziqiu's three children. I believe they will live a happy life afterwards.
Seeing the appearance of an ideal father in Li's father is not because he has great success in business like Jack Ma's father, but just ordinary people like you and my father.
Three children who lost their mothers: Li Jianjian’s mother died of high blood pressure when she was pregnant with her second child; Ling Xiao’s mother collapsed because of the accidental death of her sister, and finally fled the home; Ziqiu’s mother was unable to raise him after giving birth. There was no news for more than ten years after leaving him.
The three children without mothers, because of Li Haichao's warm love and company, each healed the pain caused by their original family, said goodbye to the injured inner child in the past, and finally walked out of their own world.
A dad who is as warm as Li Haichao is hard to find with a lantern in reality. More often, he is a dad like Ling Heping, who is busy with work all day and rarely cares about what the child thinks. It's no wonder that so many netizens rushed to comment on the Weibo of Li's actor, Tu Songyan, and one of them was highly praised. I really hope you are my dad.
Now let us review the warm picture of father Li and his children.
Dad Li’s love for his dead wife is not directly shown in the drama, but indirectly revealed through the dialogue between the two children.
Li Jianjian found the torn family portrait of Ling Xiao's family in the trash can, secretly dipped it and gave it to Ling Xiao, and said to him: Your sister, like my mother, has gone to sea to be a fairy.
Ling Xiao coldly told her sister that she would never come back, because the adults burned her things, tore up her photos, and forgot from memory. Li Jianjian took him to her mother’s room. There were not only all the photos of her mother and father from when they met to their marriage, but also the shoes her mother had worn when she was alive. The closet was filled with neatly folded clothes. There is also the fragrance that my mother loves to use during her lifetime. It seems that her mother has never left.
pointedly said: Dad always misses mom secretly by himself. You can also miss your sister secretly.
I remember a famous foreign psychologist said: The best gift a father gives his child is love for his mother. Even if the closest person to
is gone, she must have her place at home. This can obliterate her existence, and will only suppress the child's miss of her, and will easily cause various psychological problems. At this point, Dad Li was extremely correct. Jianjian did not become melancholy because of his mother's departure. He can still grow up happily, and he will be happy when he grows up and builds a new family. What touched me most about
is that a single dad lives with his daughter and never let her live a meal. Although I get up at 3 o'clock in the morning to go to the noodle shop to do business, but as long as 7 o'clock, I will rush home on time to make a delicious breakfast.
On the other hand, Ling Xiao’s mother always forgets to cook, he can only eat instant noodles when he is hungry; Ziqiu buys and eats three meals a day.
Now many parents are busy making money and have no time to take care of them, so they have to give a lot of pocket money. It is true that the child can buy what he wants, but he is actually not happy. What he wants is the dishes made by his parents and can eat with him.
The food that parents make is not only to feed the child's stomach, but also to warm the child's heart.
Whether a family is happy or not can be seen in the kitchen, because the temperature of the kitchen determines the temperature of the home.
To give children a hot kitchen is the deep love of parents for their children.
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