Internet private message worried that Cai Taogui fell out of favor and left Cai Boneng out! The second uncle reveals the polite parenting

reporter Pan Huizhong/Comprehensive report

YouTuber After the second uncle married Cai Aga (Cai Weijia), they have two sons "Cai Taogui" and "Cai Bo Neng". She recently revealed in the video that she started receiving the two treasures after giving birth A private message from a netizen reminded her to distribute her maternal love. For example, "Can't let Cai Taogui feel out of favor" or "Can't just take care of Cai Taogui and ignore Cai Boneng." Therefore, she decided to respond to this.

▲▼Since the second uncle gave birth to Cai Boneng, he has received private messages of concern from many netizens. (Picture/Retrieved from YouTube/Ga’s second uncle)

The second uncle said that parents are basically not eccentric. Taking the native family as an example, she has two younger brothers, and her mother said: “The older one will take care of the younger, so If there is something, the small one must be courteous to the big one.” According to the current situation, her family relationship is pretty good. “So I want to say that they (Cai Taogui, Cai Boneng) can also consider this method.” But She will still decide the way of education according to the children's personality, "Please rest assured, we will not be partial. Both are my own children. No one wants to be biased deliberately. We will work hard to be fair."

▲2 Uncle answered private messages from netizens. (Photo/Retrieved from YouTube/Second Uncle Ga)

As the only child of Cai Aga, he did not have the concept of courtesy since he was a child. It was not until his cousin "Mei Ga" was born that she knew something to share, "After a younger sister appeared, Our family is the big one. Let the small one.” However, he thinks that no one is right, and the children should be fair. “Cai Taogui does not need to make Cai Boneng, and Cai Boneng does not need to make Cai Tao expensive.”

▲▼ Cai Aga The way of education is very different from Erbo's native family. (Photo/Retrieved from YouTube/Second Uncle Ga)

If the two sons really quarrel, Cai Aga thinks that either one of them or none of them. Everything is based on the principle of fairness. If you watch TV and you want to watch different programs He still holds the same idea, "Either watch it together, or don’t watch it at all, no one will let anyone else, because things are yours, why should you let them?" But he said that he can teach children how to share, "You can share. But he can’t be said to be stingy if he doesn’t share.”

▲▼ Cai Aga believes that brothers do not need to be polite, but they can teach children how to share. (Picture/Retrieved from YouTube/Ga's second uncle)