Liang Wendao said: Women must have the ability to live on their own, and they must have things that others cannot take away. This is very important.
A woman, no matter what kind of family she chooses, as long as she has enough confidence, independent thinking and economy, I believe that her husband's family will generally not be underestimated.
Because in many cases, what others give can be taken back at any time. If you want to make your life better, you can only rely on yourself. This is a very realistic problem. The biggest backer of
is myself
Yao Chen said: The sky and the big tree are not my characteristics, the grass is my essence, the wind blows down and falls, but soon, it will grow again.
And Yao Chen's life, from an unknown actor, through the support of nobles, coupled with her own efforts, she has successfully become a first-line star.
She is a real example of an independent woman in the circle. She was not restrained by her family, but because the little beast in her heart was beating all the time, not for how successful she was, but for trying to find who she used to be.
In the fast age, a large part of society's label for women is still husband and child, good wife and loving mother. In the eyes of many people, women are children besides marriage, as if they are the fate of a lifetime.
ignores that they are also human beings and have their own dreams. Those outdated concepts ultimately put a heavy shackle on them.
But there are also many women who have been working hard in order to open the heavy shackles because they don't want to lose themselves. In fact, success is not their goal, but to become a better self.
A person's confidence is very important, and this growth process is full of bitterness and tears.
is like the Taiwanese actress Wang Youxin. Although she is not very famous in the entertainment industry, her label is the most attractive, that is, the "Goddess of Wealth".
are four simple words, but they contain a lot of meaning. Now 37-year-old, with her own efforts, she is worth hundreds of millions.
And such a woman is envious of many people, because even if she does not rely on men, she can live a better life by virtue of her own strength, and the biggest backer in life is herself.
Why do more and more women choose to work in a short time after giving birth?
is, on the one hand, it is the economic problem, on the other hand, it is the moment when she enjoys working hard to make herself better, rather than sitting at home, making good meals and waiting for her husband to enter the house.
Independence is not a test. For them, it is a wonderful gift. Behind the yearning for a better life, it must be a better self.
counts every step
There is a good saying: "A bird standing on a branch will never be afraid of the branch breaking, because it believes not in the branch but its own wings."
In Wang Youxin's world, all All of the hardships came after countless bitterness and tears before gritting his teeth. And she is her own little bird, and she believes that with her own hands, she can break into a world. When
was 18 years old, she was supposed to enjoy the happiness brought by the coming-of-age gift, but the family went bankrupt and owed tens of millions of dollars in debt. For a girl, such a heavy burden is undoubtedly a blow to her.
It is said that in order to pay off debts, she has to do 20 jobs at the same time, which takes up almost every day, either on the way to work or on the way to work.
You must know that it is hard enough for one person to do two jobs a day. Not to mention 20 jobs, it is simply too much.
After she worked for a while, she gradually understood that as long as she worked for herself, she would make the most money. So she opened a breakfast shop, and after countless setbacks, she earned her first million in her life.
In fact, when she encounters such setbacks at home, she can find a rich man to marry, which can alleviate the urgent needs of the family and eat less of the hardship in life.
But she didn't. The debts in the family were all worked hard on her own. After that, she started to castAs a real estate agent, I have to say that she is very business-minded and a strong woman. When
was at its best in the real estate industry, she had more than 20 houses in her hands. She knew how to invest after making money to make herself richer.
When she was 30 years old, she was worth hundreds of millions, and she was an inspirational strong woman. When others were still worrying about life, she paid off her debts and became an independent woman.
Maybe, the hardship she endured in the early stage was not just that, because no one succeeded, it was easy. In the best years of life, the most important thing is to learn more and let yourself become more valuable.
I have always believed that no matter when a woman can save herself, she is herself. For Wang Youxin, every step she takes counts, she doesn't need to bind herself with labels, just do it bravely if she wants to.
Life is short. When encountering difficulties, calm down, think about the future direction, and how to go. The most important thing is.
Because we have our own halo, with the spirit of not giving up, we can seize the moment of life and shine brightly.
and his ex-wife became a family
Reagan once said: "To achieve lasting peace, we can only rely on strength, not the goodwill of the opponent."
and the opponent here can refer to career or marriage.
Marriage is an inevitable way for a woman, but many people will find that they are farther and farther away from what they used to be.
Marriage is a journey, and there will be many scenery in the middle. The good and the bad are the way to go. There is no perfect life, and Wang Youxin is one of them. She is very successful in her career. Although
said that she is an independent and successful woman, she has no self-confidence in emotion, because love is something that is inherently uncertain.
What is Wang Youxin's best? She has independent capital, so when she is in love, she will date two or three boys at the same time. She is not bothersome, but not knowing how to find that love?
until she met her current husband, did she understand what happiness is like. When the past was exposed, many people were waiting for their jokes.
Because men are very concerned about this kind of thing, but Wang Youxin's husband said that he had no opinion, and instead praised her for being particularly good.
can have such a man, Wang Youxin is also very happy, no matter what her past is, as long as you are by your side now. Some people will say that Wang Youxin is too powerful, and her husband dare not compete with him.
This is their family affair. There is no doubt that since Wang Youxin and her husband got married, their relationship has been very stable and very affectionate. She also upgraded to become a mother, gave birth to a son and a daughter, and formed a pair of "good" characters. A family of four is very happy.
In addition, her husband had a previous marriage and had two daughters with his ex-wife. As a strong woman, she had no time to take care of the child, so she discussed with her husband and asked her ex-wife to come over as a nanny.
Many people are stunned when they see this place. What is even more stunned is that when the son knows that the nanny and the father are husband and wife, the child said that he could not understand, but she taught the children to treat the ex-wife as a family People treat.
Even if they break up, they can still be family members. Perhaps only Wang Youxin dares to speak up. Such tolerance is really rare.
Conclusion
For Wang Youxin, the ordeal at the age of 18 is the best gift of his life. If it hadn't been for that accident, she might have been just a mediocre migrant worker and would not have achieved what she is now.
along the way, she is very grateful to herself, because she can have the life now, thanks to her efforts, this is something we can't see. For her ex-wife, she can be tolerant, and she is also a responsible mother for the education of her son.
z182After all, many times, independence is a woman's most attractive business card and the most confident capital.
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