Text / Lawyer Lu Qiuyuan
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"Hello, Lawyer Lu, after reading your graffiti wall articles for a long time, I have been inspired a lot. I would like to ask you about the difference between women and men by 17 What do you think about the age?"
Hello, I am a lawyer, and I occasionally appear as a roadside aunt to answer your romantic life. On the question of
, I really want to answer just one sentence, that is, "just happy." The relationship between two people, if two people feel good, then it is the whole world. Love is eternal because love is you, isn't it that way? Outsiders do not need to comment. However, if this is your problem, it is another matter. I can provide you with some suggestions.
1. Age is a problem, and it is more troublesome than height and weight. However, this problem will gradually become no problem with age. If you are 15 or 32 years old, it is called an offence. As for the age of 20 and 37, it is called the generation gap. 40 and 57 years old, that is called communication. 60 and 77 years old, that is called romance. 80 and 97 years old, that is called eternity.
2. Whether the age gap is related to gender or mental maturity is not necessarily true. I think the biggest challenge is objective factors. If the girl is 37 years old and the boy is 20 years old, I would feel dangerous. The first danger is whether boys should have children, because there is a risk of getting pregnant at an advanced age; the second danger is the risk of indefinite pregnancy. A 20-year-old boy is usually more like Ma Jingtao, and a 37-year-old girl usually likes it better. Qin and Han. Do you think the two types of boys are the same?
3. If boys are older than girls 17, will the problem be smaller? This is not necessarily true. Because when the boy is 60 years old, the girl is only 43 years old. When the time comes, sexual communication will probably be a major factor in the quarrel between the two. Of course, there are also boys who are at the age of 30 and have no interest in their spouse (but may be interested in outsiders), so I can't say that.
4. Boys may have to think clearly about whether they like sister-like care or mother-like care. You know, being a sister is good, and being a mother is very annoying. You have to grow up quickly, or your sister will think that you are like an immature child and will soon get tired of you.
5. Girls may want to think clearly whether they like the youthful vigor of a younger brother or the innocence of a son. However, both identities may not be easy to accept. When you are working overtime for the boss, the boy may not be able to appreciate the hardship of a light mature woman in the workplace. After get off work, the boy still wants to go to the pub to continue drinking, and we are tired. I want to go home to remove my makeup and sleep. Whether it is a younger brother or a son, the tolerance must be great.
6. Young boys may not be qualitative enough, so they have to be more confident about themselves and believe that their charm does not come from appearance, but from maturity. If the little boy wants to leave in the end, let him go, don't be nostalgic, don't break up.
7. Don't talk about money! No matter what the name is, you should not give money to the boy, otherwise your mode of communication will eventually become a sex transaction, not a lover. The sex trade is not bad, but it should be the same for both people. I am afraid that if the sister takes it seriously and the younger brother is the sex trade, it will be hurt in the end.
8. For sister, please accept that she cannot be like a girl of the same age. She can cook for you, but cannot stay up with you; she works late because of the heavy responsibility; she must go to bed early because she must get up early; she will have Wrinkles, because everyone will get old.
9. Please be more patient and persuaded by the two people about the family. After all, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may only be three years apart, and the boy's age is just about the same age as the girl's concubine. This is the repair chain and issue of the two families. Please be prepared to be questioned by the whole world.
10. Finally, please cherish the other party. This is a difficult decision. For you, both are.
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