The 61-year-old Tang Hede's current situation is exposed! After 17 years of separation from Leslie Cheung, he is still "escaping"

April 1, 2020 is the 17th year that Leslie Cheung and have ended their Fenghua life.

has already lived as Leslie Cheung’s spokesperson Tang Hede updated a photo of himself and Leslie Cheung, and wrote:

You left us 17 years ago, but I know you miss us all the time in another country, especially In this severe time, we will encourage and cheer us up, and hope that everyone will work hard together to survive this epidemic.

The man has passed away, and the one who stayed will never let go of his life.

and Leslie Cheung have been in love for more than 20 years. Tang Hede is 61 years old. Although he is full of flowers, his love for Leslie Cheung has never been reduced by half.

Cheng Dieyi, played by Leslie Cheung in "Farewell My Concubine", has a line saying that a good one is a lifetime, but one year, one month, one day, one hour does not count as a lifetime.

Since the first encounter, Tang Hede has truly regarded the love of Leslie Cheung for a lifetime.

01, Jinfengyulu meets, but wins countless people

In 1959, Tang Hede was born in a wealthy family in Shanghai. There is a boy in the family, and his parents are very happy, expecting him to grow up and become a talent, then marry a wife and have children to continue the incense for the family.

Later, due to his parents’ business relationship, Tang Hede moved to Hong Kong with them. Since he was a child, Tang Hede has the elegant temperament of a wealthy son, not only looks tall and handsome, but also plays well in basketball and has excellent grades. He has become a grass-level figure in the school. The girls in the

school regarded Tang Hede as their own male god and tried their best to express their hearts to him. However, Tang Hede did not have any feelings for these young and beautiful girls. After graduating from university, Tang Hede joined Standard Chartered Bank as an executive. Due to his outstanding ability, he soon became an elite figure in the financial industry. After

joined work, Tang Hede tried to date girlfriends, but every relationship ended without a problem. He even became tired of the secular love between men and women.

At this time, Leslie Cheung, who is three years older than Tang Hede, has been in the entertainment circle of Hong Kong for several years, filming TV series and releasing songs, but it has never been tepid, plus all kinds of intrigue in the mixed entertainment circle. , Leslie Cheung was extremely depressed.

Leslie Cheung did not go smoothly in terms of emotions. After breaking up with his first love girlfriend Maomao, he fell in love with model Ni Shibei. The two men and women looked very good, but the good times didn't last long, and the romance came to an end.

Later, Leslie Cheung tried to date some girls, but he found that many people came for his money, which made him feel very chilling.

In 1982, Leslie Cheung attended a party of the godmother Mrs. Zhang Yulin, and Tang Hede, who was also the godson of Mrs. Zhang Yulin, also attended.

Since both were born in wealthy business families in Hong Kong, Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede had a relationship in their childhood, but later the two chose different industries and rarely had contact.

This gathering gave Tang Hede and Leslie Cheung a chance to meet again. Since the two people have similar family backgrounds and both went to study abroad, their lifestyles and values ​​are also similar, Tang Hede and Leslie Cheung had a chat.

Since that meeting, the two have become good friends who talk about everything. They often talk together about the troubles of life and work, and share their failures in love.

Tang Hede is usually introverted and doesn't talk much with others, but in front of Leslie Cheung, he always has endless words. During that time, Leslie Cheung’s career was at a low point, and he was not seen by others in the circle. The income was so pitiful that he could not support himself. After meeting Tang Hede, Leslie Cheung poured out all the grievances in his heart. In front of this friend, he was full of security and unsuspecting.

Knowing that Leslie Cheung was in financial difficulties, Tang Hede took out his salary and bonus to Leslie Cheung without saying a word, and comforted him that the difficulties would pass soon. If the money is not enough, he will find a solution.

Actually, at that time, Tang Hede's life was not so easy, but for Leslie Cheung, he was willing.

Compared with Leslie Cheung’s impatient and somewhat emotional character, Tang Hede appears more calm.Polite.

Whenever Leslie Cheung encounters something in his heart, Tang Hede always calmly analyzes for him and smoothes his inner irritability. Even Leslie Cheung suffered a broken love, and it was Tang Hede who was with him to comfort him.

After a long time, Leslie Cheung discovered that Tang Hede had become an indispensable part of his life, and if he did not see him one day, he would be uneasy.

And Tang Hede has a similar feeling. He always drives to wait for the studio where Leslie Cheung works, and he can feel at ease after receiving him home.

A kind of wonderful feeling quietly planted seeds in the two people's hearts, but they did not dare to face it. Although they knew it was the feeling of love, they also pretended to be just each other's best friends.

There are three things in the world that cannot be hidden: love, poverty and disease.

Tang Hede and Leslie Cheung both discovered the indispensable position of each other in their hearts, and both panicked at each other's little emotional changes, and were happy at each other's smile.

They tried to accept this feeling that was destined to be criticized, but in that age that was not yet open, in order not to cause secular criticism, they could only choose to hide it.

02. To be a lovebird in the sky, and to be a lover in the land

With the support of Tang Hede, a close friend, Leslie Cheung has also made great progress in his career.

In 1984, the lyricist Peter Lai filled Leslie Cheung with a song called "MONICA". The song changed the lyrical style of the previous Hong Kong songs and created a wave of fast singing and dancing. After

sang this song, Leslie Cheung suddenly became popular and became a pop star. After becoming famous, Leslie Cheung received more and more attention. There were even tabloid reporters who devoted themselves to his private life.

Soon, Tang Hede, who drove Leslie Cheung every day, caught their attention. After tracking and taking pictures, they even discovered that Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede are not like ordinary friends, but more like "homosexuals."

So, some media began to discuss the relationship between Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede as lovers. Although Leslie Cheung strongly denied it, he still couldn't stop the rumors.

In Hong Kong in that era, the folk customs were still not civilized, and it looked like a monster to gay people. The

incident spread to Leslie Cheung’s family. They thoroughly questioned Leslie Cheung and resolutely opposed homosexuality. Various external media also treated Leslie’s personal relationship as a topic of consumption. The whole Hong Kong was talking about Leslie Cheung’s relationship as a lover.

The double pressure from family and society made Leslie Cheung out of breath. After struggling, he broke up with Tang Hede. After

broke up, Tang Hede was in a trance and even drunk and drunk every day, and Leslie Cheung couldn't let go of him. He drove the car while singing the phrase "Who can replace your position" in "Monica", and cried loudly.

So, within a few days of breaking up, the two of them called each other's phone by chance, and wept bitterly before they even started talking.

experienced this short breakup. The two cherished this relationship even more and vowed that they would never be influenced by the outside world to hurt their love.

Leslie Cheung’s career has also entered its peak. He and Tang Hede agreed to retire after a few more years of hard work, stay away from right and wrong and just live a simple life with him.

In 1990, Leslie Cheung fulfilled his promise, gave up his hugely successful career and went to Canada. Tang Hede also applied to transfer his bank job to Canada and bought a house not far from Leslie Cheung's residence. During

's time in Canada, there are the best memories of the love between Tang Hede and Leslie Cheung. Stay away from right and wrong, don't need to pay attention to the worldly vision, and enjoy life like a paradise in the blue sky and white clouds.

is so much more than a good word, I am willing to be a mandarin duck without envy, about that kind of life.

However, the 33-year-old Leslie Cheung was still too young after all. After a few years of quiet life, he found that he still could not let go of his acting career. He wanted to return to the stage to prove himself. After learning about Leslie Cheung's thoughts, Tang Hede agreed to return to Hong Kong with him without hesitation. With

's return this time, Leslie Cheung has made up his mind that he will no longer hide from the outside world, and their love must be upright.

On January 4, 1997, Leslie Cheung held a solo comeback concert at the Hong Kong Red Hall. His mother and Tang Hede also arrived. Leslie Cheung watched Tang Hede sing each love song affectionately that night as if it was just a love story for him. At the end of the

concert, Leslie Cheung sang "The Moon Represents My Heart". He shouted to the audience in the audience: "This song is for my mother and another love in life, Tang Hede! Mr. Tang It's the most loved person in my life besides my mother!"

finally uttered the three words "Tang Hede" in front of the public. Leslie Cheung was relieved. At that moment, he became himself because "I am me, a different kind of firework." "After the official release of

's love affair, Tang Hede's work and life can no longer be as calm as usual. He was the person who pointed him on the road. When he arrived at the office, a large number of reporters had already been there to take pictures.

In desperation, Tang Hede quit his job and became Leslie Cheung's agent, taking care of his daily life and arranging his schedule.

In order to return Tang Hede, Leslie Cheung handed over all the property to Tang Hede to take care of, and each asset was in the names of him and Tang Hede. At the funeral of Leslie Cheung's mother, Tang Hede managed affairs as a godson, and he and Leslie Cheung have become a real family.

never dared to face up to the feelings to accept it in disregard of the worldly eyes. The feelings of Tang Hede and Leslie Cheung have withstood the test of time. The two people who love each other vowed to go together for the rest of their lives. One minute and one second can not be counted as a lifetime. .

03, forever and forever, this hate will never end.

There is a saying that Huiji will hurt, and love will never live. The love between Tang Hede and Leslie Cheung just set off these words and ended with a long sigh from the world.

In 2002, Leslie Cheung faintly felt that his emotions were often unstable, not only suspicious, but also suspicious. After learning of the situation, Tang Hede immediately took him to see a doctor. After the examination, it was found that Leslie Cheung was suffering from endogenous depression. After

learned of his condition, Leslie Cheung was completely defeated. He was still unwilling to believe why he had this disease. It is better to die than to be depressed for a lifetime. Once, Leslie Cheung committed suicide by secretly taking medicine, but fortunately he was rescued in time.

Tang Hede, who has always been very gentle, is rarely angry. He said loudly, if you want to live together, if you want to die, you will die together! Leslie Cheung was frightened by Tang Hede's reaction. He promised Tang Hede to cooperate with the treatment for him and cherish his life.

However, fate still made fun of two affectionate people.

On April 1, 2003, which happened to be April Fool's Day, Leslie Cheung jumped down from the 24th floor of the hotel and ended his life.

Tang Hede, who had made an appointment to play with Leslie Cheung, was waiting for news of his suicide. Tang Hede wept bitterly. After all, his life with Leslie Cheung ended early.

At the funeral, Tang Hede participated as a survivor, mourning excessively and even needing to be supported by a friend to stand up.

Leslie Cheung once sang in "Love for You", "I love you with all my sincerity. Please cherish this love, and then a hundred years, for the rest of your life, use that true love to testify." Tang Hede is the love of the whole life. People. After Leslie Cheung's death, Tang Hede always took his ashes by his side and always accompanied him. For Leslie Cheung’s elders and friends’ banquets, Tang Hede will attend for him, and he will also set up a "Leslie Cheung Scholarship" for him at the Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts...

Tang Hede will never talk about love anymore. He has become Leslie’s spokesperson, or, in other words, Leslie Cheung has since Before leaving, he just lived in this world as one with Tang Hede.

Regarding homosexuality, Cai Kangyong said: "I just fell in love with someone, and we happen to be the same sex."

In secular society, love seems to be very tolerant. Everyone always says that love can cross races regardless of whether it is rich or poor. Across ages, and only forget, love can also cross gender.

is three thousand weak water, only take one scoop to drink. Tang Hede's obsessive love for Leslie CheungEven though he was cold-eyed, he was full of happiness, at least he fell in love with someone who also loved him deeply, even if he was a man, so why not.

Author: I yearned Tong