Abandoning his wife for 25 years and marrying the widow of a deceased friend, he continued to worship a gold girl in his later years. He was still in a divorce lawsuit at 78

An education leader needs knowledge in his body, so staying in the US for nine years and learning rich five cars is the label on his worth. As an educator in the age of the rise and fall of a country, he has to be hard-hearted, so it is his courage to go to the Japanese headquarters alone but to walk away safe and sound.

Counting the famous heroes of the past, who can be famous on the list, Peking University President Jiang Menglin is also the first person on the list. He led Peking University for 15 years, made countless achievements, and his fame is far-reaching. However, he is so stupid that he is so stupid that he can find an excuse to be laughed at after dinner. Walking on the rough road of love and living an extraordinary life, he is Jiang Menglin, the "love kind" who is incompatible with Chinese tradition.

Picture | Jiang Menglin

The President of Peking University who does not eat hard and hard.

Jiang Menglin is a famous educator in modern China, so when it comes to Jiang Menglin, you have to mention Peking University, because he was the president of Peking University, and when it comes to Peking University, more people I would think of Cai Yuanpei or Hu Shi, but in fact, during Jiang Menglin's tenure, his contribution also left a strong mark in the history of Peking University.

In 1919, the May Fourth Movement broke out. Cai Yuanpei appointed Jiang Menglin as the acting president of Peking University. Until September of the same year, Cai Yuanpei returned and hired Jiang Menglin as the professor of education and the chief of the general affairs. In October of the following year, Cai Yuanpei went abroad for inspection, and Jiang Menglin once again represented the school affairs. In 1923, Cai Yuanpei was unwilling to go with the villain and angrily resigned as the principal. Jiang Menglin became the acting principal of Peking University for the third time.

was ordered three times in danger, Jiang Menglin lived up to expectations and stabilized the situation at Peking University until 1926 when he was blacklisted by the Beiyang warlord and had to go to the south. But he has always insisted on the development of education, and was later appointed as the first Minister of Education of the Republic of China. He formulated and promulgated the "University Organization Law", established a series of university systems, and curbed many illegal acts of making huge profits through universities.

In 1930, he was employed by Chiang Kai-shek, and Jiang Menglin officially became the principal of Peking University. After he took office, he strove to reform the old system. Although he offended many people, he also succeeded in establishing an efficient and new academic system.

Peking University, as a golden sign in China's education circle, was also the main battlefield for intellectuals at the time. As the principal, Jiang Menglin was even more obliged. In November 1935, learning that the pro-Japanese elements in North China were preparing to establish the "North China Self-Government Association" under the planning of the Japanese, Jiang Menglin immediately issued a declaration against this traitorous behavior in conjunction with various celebrities in the education circle.

At the same time, the students of Peking University set off a new anti-Japanese upsurge, and the response from all walks of life across the country was enthusiastic.

Peking University became the center of the national anti-Japanese movement. Unexpectedly, the principal Jiang Menglin was targeted by the Japanese. Of course the Japanese wanted to get rid of it quickly, but because of Jiang Menglin's prestige in the education world, they changed their minds and wanted to win him over.

Picture | Photo with colleagues from the Chinese Academy of Sciences of the Peking University Research Institute

On November 29, 1935, the Japanese military headquarters in Peiping sent a great assistant to "invite" Jiang Menglin to the headquarters to "drink tea". Jiang Menglin knew that the visitors were unkind, and he did not think about it. Hidden, he said to Da Zuo: "I can't get away because of something, I will definitely go before dark!"

Japan Da Zuo just left, and Jiang Menglin on the back foot told his family and friends about it: "If I haven't come back tomorrow , It means that I have encountered an accident, and you will issue a notice to the Chinese people to expose the murder and crimes of the Japanese." After explaining the funeral, Jiang Menglin went to the Japanese military headquarters alone, but everyone who knew it understood that this is tantamount to going to the ghost gate. Take a walk.

Jiang Menglin, the person who went to the "Ghost Gate", calmly came to the Japanese army headquarters, and the one who received him was the former leader. While passing the cigarette to Jiang Menglin pretendingly, he asked him why he was anti-Japanese. Jiang Menglin took the cigarette calmly, and told him to show evidence before speaking.

Seeing that he was playing tricks, Da Zuo told him about his signature on the anti-autonomy declaration. Jiang Menglin sneered: "What about my signature? It is our internal affairs. What does it have to do with your Japan?"

A sentence of "internal affairs" made Japan's Dazuo choked blue and white. Annoyed, he began to shame that Jiang Menglin had written a book that criticized Japan. Jiang Menglin asked him to bring the book, and he began to set Jiang Menglin: " So, are you a friend of Da Nippon?"

"I am a friend of the Japanese people, but alsoIt is the enemy of Japanese militarism, just as I am the enemy of Chinese militarism! " Jiang Menglin's words are sonorous and forceful, and he is completely anxious about that Dazuo. He threatens to send Jiang Menglin to Dalian to meet General Sakagaki Seishiro.

Jiang Menglin is not threatened, and asks him why he is a Japanese in China. Decide where a Chinese should go? "If people all over the world, including Tokyo, know that the Japanese army has kidnapped the president of Peking University, then you will be a laughing stock. "

, Jiang Menglin took the initiative in this war without gunpowder. The Japanese Ozo, like a cock that was only defeated, defined this "disguised arrest" as "just chatting" and begged Jiang Menglin Haihan. Finally, it was proposed to send soldiers to send him back.

"It is not necessary to send it. I have legs. Since I can walk, I can walk back." " left this sentence meaningfully. Jiang Menglin stood up and left the Japanese army headquarters.

loved the house and Wu, and married his friend and wife

. Some scholars commented on Jiang Menglin's life as stubborn and stubborn.

is like going to the Japanese army. Before the headquarters, relatives and friends persuaded him to leave Peiping to avoid the wind, but he rushed to the Japanese army headquarters with a hard spirit, leaving Chinese scholars with proud talks.

"Success" refers to Jiang Menglin's contribution to China's education and national salvation The “failure” probably refers to his marriage. The reason why he said “failure” is because apart from the unremarkable first marriage, his second marriage can be described as subverting Chinese tradition. His third marriage was opposed by the whole world, and even almost "not guaranteed at the late festival."

The marriages of most literati in the Republic of China have one thing in common, that is, they had a wife who arranged marriage before becoming famous, and Jiang Menglin's first marriage was also So.

In 1908, before Jiang Menglin went abroad to study abroad, Jiang Menglin married a rural girl, Sun Yushu, and gave birth to a son and a daughter. Unfortunately, her daughter died early. Returning to China in 1917, the couple welcomed the birth of their second son Jiang Renyuan and daughter Jiang Yanhua. Although

has children and daughters, Jiang Menglin and Sun Yushu cannot talk about feelings. Their marriage life is almost similar to that of Hu Shi and his wife, except that Sun Yushu is not as pungent and generous as Jiang Dongxiu, and it is not as good as she would manage a marriage to win her husband’s heart, and even proposed a divorce in Jiang Menglin. It's not noisy at times, only when the son asked, he whispered: "Your father has changed his heart. "

Sun Yushu is right. Jiang Menglin has indeed changed his heart, and the subject is the wife of his late friend Gao Renshan.

Picture | 1920, Jiang Menglin, Cai Yuanpei, Hu Shi, and Li Dazhao (from left to right) took a group photo at the entrance of the courtyard

Gao Renshan is a professor at Peking University. He has a very good relationship with Jiang Menglin, Hu Shi, Li Dazhao and others. In 1927, Li Dazhao was brutally killed by a warlord, and the white terror became more and more serious. At this time, Jiang Menglin and other Peking University professors chose to leave Beijing and go to the south to join the national In the revolution, only Gao Renshan stayed in Beijing and resolutely struggled with the warlords, and was eventually shot dead in 1928.

Gao Renshan was only 34 years old when he was shot. His wife Tao Zenggu was about the same age as him, and their son was only three years old. His daughter was only two years old. Tao Zenggu was forced to make a living and could only send the child back to Gao Renshan’s home, where he was looked after by Gao’s parents. Under Zhu Jingnong’s introduction, he became the secretary of Jiang Menglin, then Minister of Education.

At that time, Sun Yushu took care of his father-in-law and children in Yuyao, Jiang Menglin's hometown. The marriage between the two places was the most untestable, and there was the long-term relationship between Jiang Menglin and Tao Zenggu. In 1930, Tao Zenggu went to Peiping because of accidents. Later, Jiang Menglin also left the Ministry of Education and went to Peking University to serve as the principal of Peking University, and the two renewed their relationship in Peking.

Jiang Menglin decided to divorce in 1933, but he felt guilty for Sun Yushu, so he proposed "Divorce never leave home" , that is, to keep Sun Yushu in The status and interpersonal relationships within the Jiang family belong to him, his property belongs to him, and the child's support is also borne by him.

The blow to Sun Yushu by middle-aged divorce is self-evident, but she, who has a good temper, did not make a big quarrel. On the contrary, she obediently signed the agreement. The marriage of the two began and ended peacefully.

Jiang Menglin chose a gentle divorce method and arranged the rest of his life for Sun Yushu. Children also know that their parents’ social status and ideology are not compatible. The most terrible thing in marriage is that one person has beenOn the way up, the other person is standing still, so as children, they said that "sympathizes with the mother and forgive the father."

In the same year of divorce, Jiang Menglin married Tao Zenggu. There is no doubt that such an appalling combination has met with criticism from the whole society, but Jiang Menglin held a wedding for Tao Zenggu under tremendous social pressure.

Picture | The marriage of Jiang Menglin and Tao Zenggu went to the newspaper

At the wedding, Jiang Menglin invited his long-time friend Hu Shi to support himself. Because the marriage of Jiang Menglin and Sun Yushu is very similar to that of Hu Shi and his wife to some extent, Jiang Dongxiu heard that Jiang Menglin divorced Sun Yushu in order to marry Tao Zenggu, and resolutely opposed Hu Shi’s marriage to him. The door was closed, and she was stunned. Hu Shi was not allowed to go out.

Hu Shi is afraid of his wife, but he is also a man of promise. Since he has agreed to marry his old friend, he must go anyway, so he jumped out of the window and rushed to the wedding scene.

In the eyes of most people, this high-profile wedding is immoral, but Jiang Menglin disapproves it, and even said when thanking the guests:

"I love Jiang Menglin the most in my life, brother Gao Ren, so I am willing to continue his ambition to pursue education. ;Because I love Brother Gao, I love the people he loved more and love her more so that I can be worthy of my dead friend. I, Jiang Menglin, want to marry Tao Zenggu as his wife. An old friend does his duty.”

married his wife because he loved his dead friend. This kind of remark is undoubtedly "shameless", but it can be seen that Jiang Menglin is a lover of personality, and he did it. He loves his wife, and is very dedicated to the two children of Gao Renshan and Tao Zenggu. The children of the two families get along well.

Picture | Jiang Menglin and his wife

love vigorously, and they are unremarkable.

is a rare family without the separation of "stepfather" and "stepmother", and lives in harmony. In 1949, Jiang Menglin and Tao Zenggu brought Jiang Yanhua to live in Taiwan.

Tao Zenggu died of illness in 1958. Before his death, a cousin who confessed to him said: "Menglin's body is very good, and he is too emotional. After I die, he will definitely not be able to bear it, and I will not I can bear his long-term loneliness, so I hope you can help him find a suitable person.”

Tao Zenggu passed away almost a year, and her entrusted cousin began to look for Jiang Menglin, but introduced many women, but Jiang Menglin always Not tempted.

In 1959, when Jiang Menglin attended a banquet in the Grand Hotel, a woman named Xu Xianle walked into his field of vision, and Jiang Menglin fell in just one glance.

Xu Xianle was 52 years old at the time and Jiang Menglin was 74 years old, but he refused to accept the old and felt that he was still very young both physically and mentally, so he launched a strong pursuit of Xu Xianle.

Xu Xianle was born in a famous family, cousin with General Xu Peigen's wife Xu Fang, and Madam Zheng Manqing. Xu Xianle is also very good himself. After graduating from university, he went to work in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs. He was a famous "Mini Flower". He had many suitors. Before meeting Jiang Menglin, he had a marriage that lasted seven months, and finally ended due to economic disputes.

Picture | Xu Xianle

After the divorce, Xu Xianle did not remarry and lived the life of a professional woman until she met Jiang Menglin. In Xu Xianle's view, no matter how energetic Jiang Menglin looked, he was already 74 years old. The age difference between the two was too great, so she had been hesitant to pursue his pursuit.

Xu Xianle chose to refuse in the hesitation, but Jiang Menglin not only did not give up, but also became more and more courageous. He wrote a letter to her, the letter said: "Among some ladies I have met, you are the best A heart-moving person.” After , he chased after him, and then he complied with the old saying "good women are afraid of men." Xu Xianle agreed to associate with Jiang Menglin, and their relationship gradually warmed up.

In January 1961, the relationship between Jiang Menglin and Xu Xianle reached the stage of discussing marriage. Jiang Menglin announced that he was going to get married, but met with opposition from the public. The teachers and friends of Peking University disapproved, and the old men disagreed. The initial approval turned into opposition. The reason for the opposition was that Xu Xianle was greedy for Jiang Menglin's wealth and fame.

The opposition from society intensified, but Jiang Menglin was stubborn and couldn’t pull the eight cows back. The more the outside world objected, the more heI was about to get married, I decided on an auspicious day, arranged a new house, and bought a big diamond as a marriage token. As a result, the wave of opposition became even more turbulent.

Hu Shi wrote a letter to persuade him to not get married, and to notarize the property if he wanted to, but Jiang Menglin refused to listen. In his eyes, Xu Xianle is not the kind of person who is greedy for money. According to the friend's wife who is unexpectedly rich, the combination of Jiang Menglin and Xu Xianle is indeed because of love, because Xu Xianle is very rich.

Picture | Jiang Menglin's old friend Hu Shi

's relatives and friends did not object, but Jiang Menglin's opposition was so loud that it alarmed many politicians. Soong Meiling had a clear opposition, and his superiors bluntly said that they would not meet after this marriage. Up. Therefore, Jiang Menglin had to give up his plan to get married. Everyone at

thought that Jiang Menglin had "reined from the precipice", but less than two months later, he wrote to his boss stating his reason for having to get married and said that he would marry Xu Xianle as quickly as possible. But he also knew that this marriage should not be publicized, so only a family-style secret wedding was held.

Picture | The wedding of Jiang Menglin and Xu Xianle

After hardships, Jiang Menglin and Xu Xianle finally became husband and wife. However, the sweet new married life lasted only one and a half years, and their marriage cracked.

On December 6, 1962, Jiang Menglin accidentally broke his leg bone. Jiang Menglin began to complain that Xu Xianle was not well taken care of. Xu Xianle complained that Jiang Menglin spent too much in hospital and insisted on helping him move to a small ward. Later, Xu Xianle borrowed a large sum of money from Shimenku behind Jiang Menglin, and often quarreled with his daughter and friends over trivial matters.

A little bit of conflict is difficult to mediate when brought together, especially the couple has no idea of ​​mediation. One ran away from home with luggage, and the other was unwilling to go home to play missing after being discharged from the hospital.

Picture | Third from left: Jiang Menglin

From January 23 to April 9, 1963, the two communicated through lawyers through letters again and again. At the beginning, they divorced by agreement, and later evolved into mutual accusations, which evolved from emotional discord. Into an economic dispute. Finally, Jiang Menglin filed a divorce lawsuit in the court on the grounds that "unbearable mistress abuse" . In addition to going through legal procedures, Jiang Menglin also spoke to reporters that this marriage was a mistake: "I am ashamed of my old friend, and I should have the courage to admit my mistakes to my old friend, and I must also show courage to correct mistakes." Xu Xianle is unwilling to fall behind, and soon Later, she also accepted an interview, but she did not accuse Jiang Menglin, but said that her husband's words and deeds were provoked. In this way, her stepdaughter Jiang Yanhua was also dragged into the muddy water.

The parties are arguing, and the lace news is endless. This family drama dominated the headlines for three months and tossed for a whole year. Finally, on January 23, 1964, the two completed an agreement to divorce and each restored their freedom. body. The ending of the

farce caused both losses, but to my sigh, Jiang Menglin was already tired and unable to withstand physical and mental exhaustion. He died less than half a year after the divorce.

The so-called character determines fate, Jiang Menglin probably does. Because of hard temper, success is achieved, because of arrogance, so I don't listen to advice. A hard-hearted man made Jiang Menglin's career successful, and his arrogance also made his love road more and more bumpy. Love is punishment. The term "love" seems to be romantic, but it is a bit of comfort after wind and rain.

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