text | Zimo Chopping Chai Academy columnist
editor | Yu Feinian
"A light is on and off, in the preview world. Turning on is thoughtful, turning it off is decisive. How to rewrite it in Xia Tong,. Embrace your winter moon." A sad song of
reflects the short and sorrowful life of Hong Kong superstar Weng Meiling. Her life came to an abrupt end in the best years of 26 years old, leaving countless sighs and sorrows. Because
is an illegitimate daughter, she was discriminated against since she was a child, resulting in Weng Meiling's sensitive and fragile personality. Although
has a successful career and once became popular in Hong Kong and even the entire Southeast Asia, no matter how brilliant the career is, it cannot fill the void in my heart. The emotional entanglement with 汤镇业 is a fatal blow. Unable to stand the neglect of her lover, Weng Meiling committed suicide on gas and became a friend. Feeling that she was in a bad mood, she had been dead for a long time when she broke into the house early in the morning.
Tolstoy said: "Life is not a game, therefore, we don't have the right to give up it just by our own will." .
Weng Meiling was born in Hong Kong in May 1959. Her father was an official of the Hong Kong Customs and had already married, and his mother was his extramarital lover.
Weng Meiling grew up living in a hilltop villa in the wealthy area of Hong Kong. She has a superior life and her parents love her. However, because she is an illegitimate daughter, she has not been recognized by her father's family. Sometimes she will inevitably suffer from the strange eyes and ridicule of others. The living environment like
has created her ambivalent character that is lively and cheerful on the surface and fragile and sentimental on the inside. She has been searching for the love she lacked in childhood and wanted to get warmth from others.
When Weng Meiling was 7 years old, her father died. Not only did she and her mother not get a penny, they were also driven out of the villa.
Their lives fell into trouble all at once. In order to survive, their mother soon married another man and went to England with her husband after marriage.
Weng Meiling was forced to separate from her mother due to immigration procedures and stayed in Hong Kong temporarily to live with her uncle. When she was 15 years old, she finally came to Britain to reunite with her mother.
and the whole family opened a restaurant in Heston, Cambridge. Weng Meiling completed her studies in the UK and received her bachelor's degree.
During this time, Weng Meiling accepted the pursuit of the Dutch boy Robert. She is a girl with personality. In order to date her boyfriend, she told her mother to go to school activities, but in fact she sneaked to her boyfriend’s house and stayed with her boyfriend’s family. An engagement ceremony was held under the witness of, but the relationship was strongly opposed by his mother, and the two finally had to break up.
"No one has seen the tears of a fish, thinking it never understands sadness. In fact, it is because it stays underwater and others cannot see its tears."
The bumpy childhood, frustrated love, quietly changed Weng Meiling, It made her have a terrible stubbornness towards life and love, and laid the groundwork for the tragic ending.
During her stay in the UK, Weng Meiling began to show her interest in theatrical performances. In 1980, when she was still studying, she participated in the beauty contest of the British "Miss Chinese" and won the runner-up place.
Two years later, Weng Meiling returned to Hong Kong and participated in the "Miss Hong Kong" campaign, Due to height issues, finally won the eighth place.
Later, she joined the Hong Kong TVB as a host, and since then entered the Hong Kong entertainment circle.
Later, Weng Meiling played Kangxi’s younger sister Shuanggege in the wireless TV series "Thirteen Sisters". This was her first acting. She was very young. Fortunately, she met Tang Zhenye, one of the "Wireless Five Tigers", like a big brother. Caring for and taking care of her everywhere made Weng Meiling slowly find the feeling of filming, and she gradually developed a good feeling for him.
Soon after, the filming of "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" was launched wirelessly, and the actress who played the heroine Huang Rong was publicly recruited.
This event was very popular, and more than 3,000 applications were received at once. After screening, only 5 people including Weng Meiling and Huang Xingxiu entered the final competition.
After knowing who Jin Yong had the final say, Weng Meiling thought of a good way.
During the interview that day, she put on a costume, holding a wicker in her hand, a neat rollover steadily landed in front of Jin Yong, clasped her fists and said: "Huang Rong, daughter of the lord of Peach Blossom Island, pay homage to King Jin."
Jin Yong was startled at first, and when he settled down to take a closer look, the girl in front of him was bright and beautiful, and there was a bit of charm in the weird elves. He was the ideal candidate for Huang Rong in his mind, so he immediately approved Weng Meiling. Come play Huang Rong. After the release of
"The Legend of the Condor Heroes", Weng Meiling became a superstar in the sky. Since then, her career has been flourishing and her filming has continued. In 1983 and 1984, she won the title of "Top 10 Movie Stars of the Year" in the Hong Kong film and television industry for two consecutive years. She played Huang Rong is also known as the most classic Huang Rong.
For Weng Meiling, "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" is not only her famous work, but also the beginning of her life.
There is a saying in "Diamond Sutra": "Everything that works, such as a dream bubble, such as dew and electricity, should be viewed in the same way."
Face it indifferently so that you will not lose your nature.
However, who really cares about these truths? At that time, Weng Meiling was in her youth, no matter what dreams and voids, she got real happiness in front of her. She was so greedy for success, and she also longed for a vigorous period. love.
When filming "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", Weng Meiling was accidentally hurt her eyes by a martial artist, and she was admitted to the hospital. Tang Zhenye has been guarding her hospital bed, carefully using the passport materials. Feelings heated up rapidly, and when Weng Meiling was discharged from the hospital, they had become public lovers.
Weng Meiling, who is surrounded by love, cannot conceal her happiness. She has shown her affection in TV shows for many times. A friend in the circle advised her that as a popular star, love should be low-key, but Weng Meiling did not care.
Because she loves too deeply, she begins to suffer from gains and losses. Her childhood experience makes her yearn for wholehearted love more than others. If she is slightly left out, she will do some extreme things to attract others' attention.
Tang Zhenye always reported scandals with other beautiful actresses when he went out to film because of his work. Weng Meiling was very angry about this and often quarreled with him, and even committed suicide twice, but failed.
May 12, 1985 was a weekend, Weng Meiling and Tang Zhenye went out to play with their friends, but they have not been in contact.
At midnight the next day, Weng Meiling called Tang Zhenye, but no one answered, so sheLeave a message on the phone: If you don't return the call, you will never hear her.
In the long suffering, the phone she was waiting for never rang.
In the early morning of May 14, the desperate Weng Meiling made the last phone call in her life and called her friend Zou Shilong, telling him that she had a hard life and that her life was meaningless.
After receiving the call, Zou Shilong was very worried and drove to Weng Meiling's residence immediately, but couldn't knock on the door. He wandered downstairs for a while and had to go back first.
At 7 o'clock in the morning, Zou Shilong came downstairs to Weng Meiling again. When she turned from the balcony to the room, she found that the room was full of gas. Weng Meiling was sitting on the sofa in a red nightdress, and she was already dead.
"Since ancient times, beautiful women have too many lives, and the spring is closed."
Weng Meiling, who once publicly expressed that she committed suicide in love, was stupid, but finally failed to get over the relationship. Sometimes everyone knows the truth, but when you are in a whirlpool of emotions, you have already lost your character. The death of Weng Meiling caused a great shock in Hong Kong. People believed that she committed suicide because of emotional frustration. Therefore, the huge anger was poured into the Tangzhen industry.
On the day of the funeral, nearly 100,000 people in Hong Kong spontaneously watched her hearse go away on the street, and many of them were crying.
Liang Chaowei, Andy Lau, Huang Rihua, Miao Qiaowei and other friends support the coffin for Weng Meiling, Huang Rihua cried several times.
When Tang Zhenye, who looked sad, appeared at the funeral, the crowd became commotion, and many people shouted to "kill him".
Tang Zhenye did not plead or cry bitterly. Instead, with Jackie Chan's support, he picked up a comb stupidly and began to comb Weng Meiling's hair.
After combing, he folded the comb into two sections, put half on Weng Meiling's pillow, and half into his pocket.
According to Hong Kong customs, this is the etiquette of getting married to see Weng Meiling.
Although Tang Zhenye clarified in an interview with the TV station many years later, he did not know the meaning of doing this at the time, but this move has also moved Aweng's fans.
Affected by the death of Weng Meiling, Tang Zhenye shouldered the reputation of being a "thin love man". His career plummeted and eventually had to leave the TV station. Weng Meiling became an unforgettable past in his life.
Li Bai has a poem that says, "I knew it was so stumbling. How could I never know each other."
knew that the love with Tang Zhenye was so bitter. Was Weng Meiling still so unwilling to hesitate at the time? It is also possible that career is blocked because of relationship problems.
"The Legend of the Condor Heroes" is the culmination of Weng Meiling's career, and then she made a few more films, but her performance was not satisfactory.
But whether it is a setback in love or a setback in career, it is nothing but a test in life, but for Weng Meiling, it has become an insurmountable gap in life.
This is closely related to her childhood experience. She cannot choose or change the identity of an illegitimate daughter. The scorn and ridicule she has endured from childhood has gradually developed a sensitive, suspicious and fragile personality. The surface is sunny and cheerful, but the heart Covered with scars.
Cai Shaofen and Sun Li also grew up in a single-parent family, and both had a bitter childhood, but through their continuous efforts, they succeededNow that I am self-salvation, I have not only succeeded in my career, but also have a happy family.
The famous Austrian psychologist Alfred once said: "Fortunate people are cured by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are healing their childhood all their lives."
The road of life is full of bumps and loneliness, no matter what he experienced yesterday Only by walking steadfastly and moving toward hope can we break free from the shackles of fate and welcome the dawn of dawn today!
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