What is a "Chinese father" like? Just look at "In the Name of Family" Ling Dad.

　　 After watching "In the Name of Family", who can not shout "Please Li Haichao to be my father"!

　　 In this story about two single fathers raising three children, Li Haichao is obviously the image of a father that ordinary people admire: kindness, generosity, gentleness and patience, full of love, and he does a good job.

　　 Despite this, we still have to admit that the other father in the play, Ling Heping, is the true epitome of the Chinese father.

two different dads

　　 In this year's TV drama market, if "Thirty Only" is a popular hit, then "In the Name of Family" is undoubtedly a dark horse.

　　 was broadcast, there was a lot of praise on the Internet. The Douban score of 8.6 points at the start is enough to prove the audience's recognition of it.

　　 Yanmei watched the first few episodes in one go, she even faintly showed the feelings she had when she first watched "Answer 1988"—compared to love, the tenderness between neighbors is more empathetic.

　　 Due to the family changes of both sides, the noodle shop owner Li Haichao and the people's policeman Ling Heping decided to raise three children together, Li Jianjian, Li's daughter, Ling's son Ling Xiao, and He Ziqiu, the son of Li Haichao's blind date.

　　 In other words, two parents have three children at the same time, and three children also have two fathers.

　　 In such a family relationship, Dad Li is actually more like a mother. He cooks three meals for the child, nags his family, and fears that the child will be hungry and cold.

　　 and Ling's father is completely a very common father image in life. As a policeman, he is busy all day long, and the two keywords of "silence" and "absence" are also firmly followed by him.

Ling Heping's father traits

　　What is "Chinese Father"?

　　 To put it simply, you know that he loves you very much, but he won’t say it, he will only care about you where you can’t see it, but if you really want you to tell him how good he is, it’s hard to remember that in your In his growing up career, his proportion was far lower than his mother.

　　 are vividly manifested in Ling's father.

　　 care about children, but usually don’t talk about

　　 In the play, most of the cold and warm questions about the children were done by Dad Li, including nagging the children to finish the noodles when they were young, and asking questions before the college entrance examination for fear of not bringing them.

　　Dad Ling also cares about his children, but he can't be careful about these matters, he only keeps a bottom line on major issues.

　　 For example, when the ex-wife who deserted her son came back, he was always polite to ask him to do things, but when she mentioned that he had seen Ling Xiao, he uncontrollably quarreled with her.

gifts have always been red envelopes

　　 celebrated Ziqiu's birthday, and Dad Ling asked everyone to guess the gift he gave, and everyone said in unison: "Red envelope!" He had no choice but to take out the red envelope.

　　 It can be seen that the red envelope is his usual gift. For many children, this may not be desirable. But from another perspective, he either doesn't have time to buy gifts, or he doesn't know what the child likes at all.

　　 I'll never have anything to say on the phone

　　 Son Ling Xiao went to study in Singapore. They could only contact by phone, but they really started calling, but they didn't know what to talk about. They usually ended the greeting in a few words.

　　 At this time, he can only ask the tip of his soul: "You said your dad called your brother and them, why are you talking so much?"

express missing ten points

　　 After Ling Xiao returned to China, he still nestled in the noodle shop in the middle of the night waiting for the child to return home. He was happy when he saw his son, but he never mentioned that he was waiting for the child. He just awkwardly pushed the responsibility on Dad Li, saying that he was holding himself to chat here.

Chinese-style father may not love you

　　 There are many such "Chinese fathers" beside you and me. They are also good fathers, but it is difficult for us to feel the strong love.

　　 After all, life is not actingOrdinary people don’t have a God’s perspective, and not everyone can easily perceive those concerns that are not proclaimed.

　　 In fact, even a good father whom everyone praises is often silent.

　　 Yanmei’s uncle would urge her aunt to call her daughter during the university vacation, ask her what she would like to eat, and then cook a large table of dishes to wait for her to return.

　　, he neither said that he missed his daughter, nor would he call to ask where he went. Everything was left to the aunt.

　　Chinese father’s love is deeply buried. Because of habit, we cannot ask them to make more changes, so we can only change ourselves.

　　 When you blame your father for not loving you, pay attention to it, and you may get a different answer.