"Meeting Happiness" starring Jiang Xin, Li Guangjie, Guo Jingfei, Liu Peiqi, Qian Fang and other powerful factions, is currently on Hunan Satellite TV.
Since its airing, this drama has received rave reviews. In addition to the superb acting skills of the actors, the realistic plot pierced people’s hearts everywhere, especially when Zhen Kai was 35 years old, a middle-aged woman who suffered betrayal, divorce, and unemployment. The series of questions hit people's hearts directly.
Many women, especially middle-aged women, have encountered similar experiences. They dare not divorce and are at a loss. Apart from hysterics, they don't know what to do.
"Meeting Happiness" tells you: After a woman gets divorced, she must learn the following points:
1. Don't mess around
When a woman got married, she never thought about getting a divorce. When it came time to mention the divorce, it was already the woman who was so disappointed in her husband and could not see any hope.
In reality, many women will encounter the same things as Zhen Kai-kai, being cheated and betrayed, but they will always hesitate, while being angry and annoyed, while comforting themselves. Apart from this incident, he treats me in other respects. Okay, is it unworthy to get a divorce for this matter? He may just be a fool for a while, he should still love me; the divorce is too shameful, I can't accept the divorce, or just forget it.
At this time, we discovered that divorce is easier said than done, but it is really difficult. However, we seem to have forgotten one thing, that man should really love you, really consider you, he will not be tempted by other women.
So, wake up, woman, don't be naive.
Zhen Kai learned about Song Mingyuan’s derailment during working hours, and did not hesitate to sign for a divorce. Being so brave and decisive is a lesson for many women.
2. What we should strive for, we must strive for
After a lot of women get divorced, the thing they can't let go of is their children. Some women even don't want anything except children in order to divorce their husbands.
As a mother, I can understand that divorce must fight for children. At the same time, as a mother, I can’t agree with women who don’t want property, houses, or cars for divorce.
Just imagine, a woman in her thirties, with a child, does not even have a place to shelter from the wind and rain. How can you make the child grow up happy and healthy?
Take Zhen Kaifang as an example. If she didn't fight for a house when she got divorced, she would face unemployment. If she didn't have a house, what would she pay for the high rent, let alone make her children study at ease.
I remember that there is a plot like this in the play. Zhen Kaiyuan received a call from Lele teacher, saying that Lele’s meal card was out of money, so she asked Zhen Kaiyuan to recharge it. Generally, parents charge 5,000 yuan.
Zhen Kai looked at the little deposit left in the card and began to worry. If she didn't ask for a house at the time, maybe this little money is in Beijing, and even the rent is not enough, let alone let the child go to a good school, eat well, and live well.
3. Divorced women, never give up on themselves
Xiaolu, my junior high school classmate, chose to divorce her last year because her husband and Xiaosan were getting married.
After the divorce, the path was sluggish, and he was absent-minded to go to work. It was commonplace to be late and leave early. At the time, the leader had nominated her as an outstanding employee, but she also cancelled it. Later, she resigned directly from the company, without greeting the leader.
Later, she stayed at home every day, complaining about life, complaining about society, and scolding her ex-husband. She said she was the most unlucky person in the world.
On the contrary, let’s take a look at Zhen Kaikai. Although she was divorced, she was crying in the car, and she would be emotionally broken. But she did not give up on herself, from a white-collar worker to a special car driver.
Although it was a coincidence to be a special car driver, she accepted the job calmly. In the eyes of many people, the private car driver is not only tired, but also can't make much money, but she has never thought about it. She only said that this job is good, working hours are free, and she can take care of children.
Where is my junior high school classmate?
was a very good girl, and now she has become a 180 fat man (not discriminating against fat people), and she spends her parents at home every day.She can't help it.
Leaving a man, it's not that we can't live, we don't have to give up on ourselves. Nietzsche said that those who can't kill me at will definitely make me stronger.
The right to choose is in our own hands, and we must not play the card of our own life so badly.
4. Divorced women still have to believe in love
After divorce, many women dare and do not want to face new feelings. They are afraid of meeting unreliable people again.
But what I want to say is, no matter how life hurts you, no matter how men torture you, you should still choose to believe in love. Only when you believe in love will you meet love and happiness.
In fact, feelings are like this. You can find the person who really suits you after constant trial and error. As the famous professor Dai Jianye said, "A person's life is different from a competition. In a competition, you usually win 10,000 times. As long as you lose a game, you are finished." The same is true for marriage. You lose 10,000 times. , As long as you finally find the right person, you will win.
Divorce does not mean the end of the world, nor does it mean that all men in the world are unreliable.
When Zhen Kaikai meets Si Wenqu, she still believes in love and bravely tries to go with him. As for the future development, she still has to take a step by step.
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