Speaking of the milk tea sister Zhang Zetian, many people always associate her with the word "vase".
was even hacked to the end from becoming the boss of JD.com to the incident in Minnesota. So much so that after the Qiangdong’s derailment case happened last year, netizens said they were waiting for the divorce of Sister Milk Tea. Some people even said, "If Sister Milk Tea and Liu Qiangdong divorce, I won't believe in money!"
But no matter how netizens spray her black She, she calmly faced.
The power of the role model is infinite. Zhang Zetian’s life is undoubtedly successful, but looking at her life path, it is not difficult to find that successful women have these characteristics:
01 Successful women, first of all, have the ability to change without surprise
succeed. Women who are in trouble must be calm and unhurried. They will never be influenced by the opinions of others, and they will not easily get caught in the whirlpool of public opinion and cannot escape.
Since Liu Qiangdong suffered a scandal last year, the milk tea sister has been slandered by various netizens, and she has also been nicknamed "the matcha sister". Some people even asked on Zhihu, "Sister milk tea is divorced, will you be the picker?" Among the various "divorce" rumors flying around, she was only 25 years old and did not panic, nor did she look like those stars in the entertainment industry. , For the sake of people, eager to clarify. Because she knows well that any statement at this time will become a point of public opinion for others.
It is false to say that this incident did not hit her. From deleting the message on Weibo, it can be seen that Liu Qiangdong's derailment hurt his wife or not.
But the more important aspect is that she deleted her message to prevent more fans from discrediting her, which directly affected the continued decline of Jingdong stock. This is the root cause. This is why she only responded to the doubts of thousands of fans with "I wish to keep the clouds and see the moon", because this sentence just shows that she firmly stands in the position of family interests and is also the most direct way to stop rumors of marriage. . As the proprietress of Jingdong, she knows how to weigh the pros and cons, not just because of a few gossips from netizens, she just talks about divorce. In
"Strategy of Yanxi Palace", Wei Yingluo has a good line:
If crying is useful, the Forbidden City has long been submerged in tears.
is even more so in the cruel business arena. If a woman makes a divorce just because her husband is "fairy jumped" and can't stand the pressure of public opinion, it will only make the already chaotic situation even more chaotic. In the end, the property division of the husband and wife led to a sharp drop in the stock price of JD.com, which is not a wise move.
Therefore, a smart woman must not be surprised when things happen. They know that composure is the best weapon, and static braking is the best strategy. Even if the situation is chaotic, they will never add chaos. Because a successful woman has overall awareness and overall thinking, she will never be dazzled by her children's love for a while.
02 A successful woman must be an independent personality
Ms. Maisel said in "The Great Ms. Maisel": women, having an independent personality is your only way out.
For a while in 17 years, "My First Half Life" was screened for more than half a year, and the "Phoenix Nirvana" after the heroine Zijun was betrayed by her husband was indeed very pleasant. However, what is truly fascinating is Zijun's self-established, independent personality.
Successful women all have sparkling independent personality. Women are loved by men or may be beautiful, but it must be your brain that makes men respect you, and it must be your independent personality charm at all times.
Why do people always laugh at Liu Qiangdong for not knowing the beauty of his wife, because they don't understand that what he values is not her beauty, but her inner beauty.
In fact, before Zhang Zetian became Liu Qiangdong's wife and Jingdong boss lady, she had already become popular on the Internet. She was originally a rich second generation and had her own traffic physique. And when she became the youngest rich man in China worth tens of billions, she never gave up studying and became a full-time wife. Instead, she allows herself to recharge her brain through continuous learning.
Putting aside the identity of Liu Qiangdong's wife, Zhang Zetian is a high-achieving student who graduated from a prestigious school, with a wealthy family background, excellent conditions and independent personality.
As Zhang Zetian once said to Liu Qiangdong: "My ambition is by no means your wife." The independent consciousness of
milk tea sister is reflected in her self-cognition. she wasFor women, the first is that women must be independent, not dependent on marriage, and only care for each other at home. A woman pregnant with Liujia can complete six months of high-intensity study in a new field, and pass the exam in one breath, and obtain the "Private Equity and Venture Capital" course certificate from Bocconi University in Italy. Here you can see the milk tea sister. Zhang Zetian is by no means an ordinary wealthy man.
You must know that for most women, when they are pregnant, their body and mind are exhausted and fragile, and their lifestyle will be reduced to eating, sleeping, and playing. After all, pregnancy is so hard. Women who have been pregnant also know that pregnancy is not easy, and they can better understand the tenacity and independence behind the milk tea sister who did not let herself relax at this critical moment.
At that time, Zhang Youyi was abandoned by Xu Zhimo abroad and suffered the pain of losing her son. But the woman of this old era did not fail. On the contrary, she studied hard after returning to China and went to work as a German teacher at Soochow University, and then opened Shanghai's first fashion company-Yunshang Fashion Company. Soon after the establishment of Yunshang Fashion Company, he became the vice president of Shanghai Women's Commercial Bank, which can be said to have reached the peak of his life. If, like all old-fashioned women, resentment arises from love and sinks down from then on, maybe the name Zhang Youyi would not be passed down to the world today.
For a spiritually independent woman, nothing can knock her down, except for herself, and spiritual independence can make a person shine, and spiritual independence can make a woman exude an irreproducible charm!
03 Successful women never forget to invest in themselves
all say that the best investment for a woman is her brain.
recently broke the news that Sister Milk Tea went to study in the UK. As soon as the news came out, some people speculated that it was another hype by JD.com, deliberately diverting attention. Some people even speculate: enrolling in Cambridge is a new step for her to enter the upper class society. In fact, is already in the upper class. How can she be included in ? If you carefully analyze the story behind the milk tea sister Zhang Zetian, you will find that the rumors are self-defeating.
was admitted to Tsinghua University, TV station intern reporter, Microsoft intern, "Burn it, brain! "Host, graduated smoothly...
Is it all based on courage? She introduced her charity fundraising platform to the world's richest man Bill Gates in English.
She signed the "United Nations Development Programme Strategic Cooperation" on behalf of JD.com.
She also successfully entered the international "fashion circle".
is rich and honorable. Ordinary people can only look up to her circle. To talk to people in the circle of Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, means that only through continuous learning and charging can we communicate with them normally. You know, the fluent English when Sister Milk Tea talked with Bill Gates had already defeated 80% of the giants.
And this is what we can do with continuous learning and continuous self-investment. After
married into a wealthy family, the milk tea sister did not open the mode of showing off wealth like ordinary Kutai. On the contrary, her social circle is almost all daily life sharing, including advocacy of learning, fitness, and public welfare. From these, it can be seen that this girl in her 20s has aspirations.
People only see the bright flowers of the flower, but they don't know the tear ducts behind her. The gossip news broadcasts the glamorous Zhang Zetian every day, but I don't know how many days and nights are behind all this, and I have learned hard.
And this time to study in Cambridge is also a self-experience. Only through concentrated and systematic knowledge learning can we truly understand a certain profession. Moreover, the management of a large group company needs more comprehensive skills. The impetuous public opinion environment in China is not conducive to her growth. On the contrary, she can study quietly for 3 years abroad and have a complete improvement of herself. After all, investment in the brain is a truly valuable investment.
Failed women have their own differences, and successful women always have some common potential in them, whether it is a grand vision with a long-term vision, or a rational consciousness of wisdom, or independent thinking that is neither humble nor arrogant, or smart All of these are indispensable to their successful career.
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