This 30-year-old "About Winter": I love my heart, but my heart hurts forever?

In the life of

people, "some people see 300 times is useless, some people see three times is enough."

01. Love, sometimes from the very beginning, is destined to be a beautiful miss

in 1991 in Beijing, in Qi Qin Outside of the concert, Qi Xiao, a photographer from Taiwan, gave the concert ticket to An Ran, a student of Beijing Normal University who had never met before, because his girlfriend did not show up. "Love doesn't know where it started, but goes deeper." Since then, the two have met, known each other, and fell in love.

An Ran is an unfamiliar girl who thinks that love is about being together; An Ran is also a fan of Qi Qin and likes the song "About Winter". Qi Xiao is a calm adult, with the burden of family affection and responsibility on his shoulders.

They met for the first time when they heard the song "About Winter". After that, they bought albums and sent posters. I thought this was a beautiful love that could stay together forever.

However, and their love met in winter and also ended in winter.

Because of Qi Xiao's family situation, he had to separate again and again, "Parting is the norm, and getting together is luxury" ! For various reasons, the two of them failed to get together in the end, but they buried the unforgettable love deeply in their hearts.

Zhang Ailing wrote in the prose "Love" that "meet the person you meet among thousands of people, in the endless wilderness of time for thousands of years, there is no early or late step. It just so happens that I’ve caught up, and there’s nothing else to say, just ask gently, oh, are you here?" If you can, everyone wants to be the only one of each other, but there are everything in this world, that’s There is no if.

At the end of the film, the girl in the easter egg said, "I thought he was my future, but suddenly, he became a big dream for me." The person who once loved will always live in the memory of our youth. , Will never fade, and will always be warm!

The best encounter in the world is to miss, and we should thank those who have given us warmth.

is as sung in the lyrics:

"lightly I will leave you

please wipe away the tears from the corner of your eyes

in the long night

in the days to come, my dear, don't cry for me"

02. When you can't have it, except cherish Say goodbye with remembrance and respect

"In the days without you

I will cherish myself more

In the years without me

You have to take care of yourself"

The whole film can start from the song "About Winter", Enron With Qi Xiao, we can personally experience that kind of soul fit, but we also see that they cannot be together because of their respective difficulties. Regardless, their final breakup was very decent and safe.

still have the previous "Predecessor 3"? It is also a poignant and contrived love story.

just their breakup is like a mirror, reflecting the charming and cruel love. Two people will try their best to pretend not to love, and desperately love the person who is leaving.

Meng Yun and Lin Jia are two people who would rather be arrogant than be soft. They fall in love and kill each other and die constantly. It is only for someone to awaken those who don’t know how to cherish, "Look, you fools. That’s how they ruined the relationship."

They obviously have many chances to reconcile, maybe it's just Meng Yun's "Don't go, I love you", or Lin Jia's "I have a fever, take me back." Home".

Lin Jia was reluctant and contrived when packing up her luggage, walked very slowly, and closed the door leaving plenty of room for maneuver. Meng Yun's cold pretense was very successful. He didn't let the other party see any reluctance, and watched her go through the curtains.

Meng Yun only pays attention to the full-length photo of Lin Jia traveling alone was taken by someone else, But can't see that the dolphin necklace on Lin Jia's chest is a token of love. Lin Jia only cared about how much time Meng Yunken spent with herself, but she didn't understand that Meng Yun worked hard for enough bread.

Although they are still in love with each other, they don't want to let each other know. One is worried that if he is soft again, he will repeat the same mistake; the other is convinced that the one who loves her will eventually come back to accompany.

Lin Jia and Meng Yun, you thought I would not leave, I thought you would stay, and in the end, when they said they separated, they separated.

Love is very beautiful but also so fragile. Is it because Lin Jia and Meng Yun's five-year relationship broke up because they lost their feelings because of their derailment.

is not just because of lack of communication. One of is reluctant to say, the other is reluctant to ask; the other is stubborn, and the other is reluctant to give in.

It was said in "Old Friends of Mountains and Rivers" that everyone can only stay with you for a period of time.

Whether it is Lin Jia who made Meng Yun so good, or because of Meng Yun, Lin Jia knows what love she wants more. They all owe each other no more.

Each love story is about the same. The relationship that persists for five years ends because the two parties are unwilling to compromise. Although the ending is not complete, it also slaps us deeply in real life.

broke up and please say goodbye decently, no regrets. If you still love, please be brave and say to him: I'm sorry, I love you!

loves so hard, after all, it can't go on.

When faced with such a situation, we have two choices: one is heartache that is too difficult to hold on to ourselves, completely negating and forgetting; the other is to be grateful, cherish it, and put it in our hearts.

Lin Jia and Meng Yun are the first, while An Ran and Qi Xiao are obviously the second.

03. It’s not destined to be perfect, but we are destined to go on

when will I return to my hometown

I also softly ask myself

at this time

I don’t know when

will be at this time

I don’t know when

will be at this time

I don’t know when

will be in winter , Even if we know too much truth, we still can’t live this life well. Maybe we have too high expectations for this life, maybe there are always regrets in our life. But life will always go on, even if we can’t be with the most loved ones Together. The love story of

An Ran and Qi Xiao taught us how to let go and how to reconcile with ourselves. Faced with the unsatisfactory love of love, An Ran looked back at the man who had always cared for him. This man has been silent for a long time. Standing behind her, catching all her with a warm embrace. In the end, An Ran married and had children, and she was very happy in her life. As the saying goes, instead of choosing the one you love, it seems more comfortable to choose the one who loves you.

and Qi Xiao Returning to Taiwan, returning to a familiar family, taking care of his father, raising children, and living in peace and stability.

The final ending of An Ran and Qi Xiao, and Fang Xiaoxiao and Lin Jianqing in the movie "Later Us". Hey!

Lin Jianqing met Fang Xiaoxiao in his poorest age and they fell in love.

lived in a cramped cubicle and ate a bowl of instant noodles together. When they saw the abandoned old sofa, they would pick up together. I went back to decorate my life and faced the embarrassment of being driven out by the landlord together.

But even in that environment, they felt that as long as "we" were happy.

sat on the old sofa, they hugged and watched Looking at the other party, said that I hope the time will stay at this moment.

In winter night, the bus that two people are waiting for doesn’t come. Seeing that Xiaoxiao gets cold, I feel distressed, and say let’s take a taxi—even if we know that we can take a taxi once, enough for them to eat Two meals.

but later they have everything, but no "us".

ten years later, they met again and asked Xiao Xiao:

Didn't we break up at that time? "

" What if we just ignore being together? "

" If you are willing to believe me and stay with me till the end? "

However, there are not so many ifs in reality. For some people, missing it is a lifetime!

As Liu Ruoying sings: "Later, I finally understood in tears that some people will never miss it. "There is a saying in

: "There is a kind of person who once made you look forward to tomorrow, but in the end they did not appear in your tomorrow. "In fact, there is the second half of the sentence, "There is also a kind of person who will give you longer happiness in the years to come, although he has never come to your youth. "

. It’s good to live up to the fate of the other party. It’s really hard to live up to this life.

If that’s the case, why not say goodbye to the reluctance of the past, let go of your inner pain, and grasp the beauty of the present...

is like " "Later Us" said "Even though I have tasted all the regrets and misses, I feel happy. Later we still believe in love and use it to love. "

: Marathon enthusiasts, self-disciplined people; words to describe the heart, running to spy on life, dedicated to the body and soul on the road at the same time, a casual and unwilling chasing woman.

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