In the past month or so, the marriage observation documentary program "Goodbye Lover" has caused a lot of heated discussions, and the couple Mai Lin and Li Xingliang have brought "disruption" level of popularity. Recently, the topic "Li Xingliang's commercial performance was boyc

In the past month or so, the marriage observation documentary program "Goodbye Lover" has caused a lot of heated discussions, and the couple Mai Lin and Li Xingliang have brought "disruption" level of popularity. Recently, the topic "Li Xingliang's commercial performance was boycotted by netizens" has become a hot topic. According to reports, on November 26, Huai'an Lianshui Wuyue Plaza announced that Li Xingliang would perform at the venue on December 21. The comment area was almost instantly flooded with "boycotts". Many netizens believed that the couple was taking advantage of their marriage problems. To earn traffic, the truth and lies in the show make people feel uncomfortable.

In today's Chinese society, the regulatory and buffering role of the traditional clan or extended family is weakening, and couples have limited access to systematic marriage counseling and emotional support. The public discussion triggered by a so-called divorce variety show can, to some extent, make up for this systemic lack and meet some social needs. However, marriage counseling and performance marriage counseling are not the same thing after all. The form of a reality show itself means the processing of reality, and the direction and scale of processing are where the true meaning of the program is revealed. To a certain extent, the loss of control over the direction and scale of processing is also the reason why the Mai Li couple's popularity has become increasingly out of control. The doubts and resistance related to

are a very clear reminder: If we lack the "nirvana" of sincerity and blindly magnify marriage issues to earn traffic, it will be difficult to figure out whether it is true or false, and in the end we will have to bear the consequences of traffic backlash. . For the audience, the turmoil on the show will eventually subside, and the guests' rights and wrongs will eventually disappear. What matters is not others, but themselves. How you view marriage ultimately points to how you shape yourself. This year's movie "'s determination to run away " has also triggered a lot of discussion. What the movie shows is not so much a woman's resistance to marriage, but rather a person's pursuit and improvement of self. Therefore, when everyone is happily acting as a "marriage judge" in front of the screen, a voice inevitably sounds in their hearts: Am I such a person? Who do I want to be? This kind of sincerity to oneself is also very valuable.(Red Star News special commentator Li Zhongxi)