Do you still remember the official Weibo announcements of Huang Xiaoming and Ye Ke in September? "Don't guess, we are together." This Weibo has been deleted by Huang Xiaoming. 71 days after announcing his relationship, Huang Xiaoming finally made up his mind to delete h

Do you still remember the official Weibo announcements of Huang Xiaoming and Ye Ke in September?

"Don't guess, we are together."

This Weibo has been deleted by Huang Xiaoming.

71 days after announcing their relationship, Huang Xiaoming finally made up his mind to delete the Weibo post where he and Ye Ke were officially announced. Some netizens speculated that since the Weibo has been deleted, does it mean that the two of them have broken up.

We did not expect that the direction of their love would be so high and low. One has now withdrawn from the Internet, logged out of Weibo, a certain audio account is private, and the Xiaohongshu account has also disappeared; while the other has suffered a setback in his career. , the box office of the newly released movie is only over 4 million, and I will probably lose a lot of money. As I approach 50, the popularity and popularity I finally built up with the audience are gone.

It is not known whether Ye Ke and Huang Xiaoming have broken up, but what is certain is: He and Ye Ke will definitely not get married. When the bottom line is touched, Huang Xiaoming also wakes up. For him, of course, career is more important important.

Maybe when Huang Xiaoming announced his relationship, he thought that he would be congratulated by the whole network; but he never expected that Ye Ke would cause him so much trouble after just falling in love. How to evaluate

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are also the result of his own choices. Ye Ke is not a fuel-efficient lamp. A big star on the Internet celebrity list must have a purpose. If she wants to be popular, she will naturally attract criticism. If she cannot learn to be low-key, of course she will only bring trouble.

This also reminded Huang Xiaoming: What should I look for in a girlfriend? Take a look at Huang Xuan, who was blessed by netizens during that time, and how they found girlfriends. Stay away from the so-called internet celebrities who come out of celebrity training classes. When you are conquered, your career is likely to be ruined.

It is better to be careful. People in middle age must not act arbitrarily.

Huang Xiaoming was interviewed in Xiamen Jinji some time ago and said:

"I don't know if you have a time when you feel that your own life is unbearable. Sometimes when you really feel unbearable, you especially hope that this is a dream. Anyway, you will live like me." I used to feel this way when I was older When you feel helpless when facing reality, you feel depressed and can’t speak out, and there are many things happening and you don’t know what to do, you really want to wake up and find that it was just a dream, and you really want to pinch yourself. , asked, is this a dream? "

It seems that he was in a bad state during this period, because the public opinion storm caused by Ye Ke finally affected him.

Review the timeline of Huang Xiaoming and Ye Ke’s relationship: On September 19, the official announcement of their relationship caused an uproar on the Internet; Ye Ke 9 From January to November, he has been dominating the Internet, frequently logging into the hot searches of major Internet platforms. Ye Ke’s comments in past live broadcasts have also been criticized, such as "it is rude to go to the toilet", "Wu Bai's songs are obscene", "Northerners" Remarks such as "You speak very irritably" triggered heated discussions among netizens. In addition, micro-doing and eating cakes have created her "Ke Xue";

On November 9, netizen Yaoguai Live broadcast released a recording of the call with Ye Ke. In the recording, Ye Ke denied that she spent 10 million on Huang Xiaoming, saying that she There are only tens of thousands of dollars in the account. Ye Ke also complained that Huang Xiaoming was very shrewd. Monster analysis said that this exposed the nature of Ye Ke's pursuit of women, just to defraud Huang Xiaoming's money;

From November 11th to November 16th, netizen Youguai continued to live broadcast, beating up the relationship between Ye Ke and Huang Xiaoming, publicly shouting that if Ye Ke did not cancel his account and log off the network, all the evidence would be made public.In the end, Ye Ke gave in and issued an apology statement. Soon after, he logged off Weibo, kept a certain audio account private, and publicly quit the Internet;

On November 28, Huang Xiaoming deleted the Weibo official announcement of their relationship, and the two were suspected of breaking up.

The sea of ​​suffering is boundless, but when you turn back, you will find a shore. Looking at it now, netizens are not buying it.

In a few months, everyone will forget about it, and maybe Ye Ke and Huang Xiaoming will not be tied up.

How could Ye Ke let Huang Xiaoming go so easily?

It can only be said that the price has been agreed upon. If you don't do it, you may lose more.

When you are middle-aged, don't say anything about true love. There are too many interests involved between you. Neither of them are young people who are inexperienced in the world. They have experienced marriage and divorce, and have also seen big storms. At this time, they cannot be together simply for the sake of love. They still have to think carefully and not take the wrong path.

When falling in love, you can't just rely on whims, you have to see who the other person is.

I also asked the male friends around me what they thought of Huang Xiaoming’s choice of Ye Ke?

They said: "If it were me, I would definitely not choose Ye Ke. Of course, someone like Ye Ke is beautiful and has a good figure, but it's too fake. He seems to be flattering you, but there must be a lot of things you don't know behind the scenes." , she is not a simple good girl, you will suffer a loss if you fall in love with her. There are many women out there, so you still have to choose those who are more natural-looking, have relatively high academic qualifications, and are very good. You can’t just look for them. Huang Xiaoming was manipulated. Of course, he is sober now that he broke up. "

We are. When falling in love, you can't just follow "desire", you still have to look at who the other person is.

Huang Xiaoming’s relationship can be regarded as a lesson to male celebrities:

Don’t fall in love casually. If you can find a girlfriend like Huang Xuan, you will definitely be blessed if you openly love openly; but if you find someone like Ye Ke, She has too much dark history and will bring you a steady stream of troubles, so forget it. It's really not worth it to spend half your life on the road to stardom for a so-called love.

Find a good woman who has a clean background, is sensible and obedient, has no dark history, is not so high-profile, and will bring you good luck in your career. Otherwise, by the time you regret it, it will be too late.

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Today’s topic: What do you think of the relationship between Huang Xiaoming and Ye Ke?

Author: yibao, original emotional author, millionaire emotional blogger, marriage and family counselor, writes warm emotional things in this world through personal practice.