"If I die, Ryoko should be on the front page of the news." This is something Li Wenliang mentioned in the essay he wrote for Mai Lin. In Li Xingliang's essay, he recorded the first half of her life that Mai Lin dedicated to him. Originally, Mai Lin grew up in Shenzhen. After grad

"If I die, Ryoko should be on the front page of the news."

This is one of the things Li Wenliang mentioned in the essay he wrote for Mai Lin.

In Li Xingliang’s essay, he recorded the first half of her life that Mai Lin dedicated to him.

Originally, Mai Lin grew up in Shenzhen. After graduation, she found a job in Shenzhen that was not too busy and had a good salary.

In order to support Li Xingliang's participation in "Happy Boys", Mai Lin traveled back and forth between Shenzhen and Changsha. She not only took care of Li Xingliang's food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also helped manage Li Xingliang's fan support club.

Later, Li Xingliang was promoted in "Happy Boys". In order to fully support Li Xingliang, Mai Lin quit her job in Shenzhen and came to Changsha alone.

Li Xingliang entered the finals of "Happy Boys", and Mai Lin followed Li Xingliang from Changsha to Beijing.

It can be seen from here that Mai Lin said that she paid a lot for Li Xingliang, which is indeed true.

After all, a girl, from Shenzhen, to Changsha, and then to Beijing, every step is to support another person. Such dedication cannot be erased.

Furthermore, Li Xingliang also acknowledged Mai Lin’s contribution.

In his short essay, he said that during his most difficult period, Mai Lin did his best to provide logistical support. She took on all the housework by herself, including cooking and washing clothes. Mai Lin was only responsible for writing songs, singing, and following the teacher. Further education.

It was during this period that Li Xingliang discovered that Mai Lin had changed a lot.

He wrote: "Maimai loved to dress up in the past. She had the best cosmetics at home and had piles of clothes in her wardrobe. But after I came to Beijing with me, I didn't buy a new piece of clothing or new cosmetics for a year. ".

But if Li Xingliang needs it for music, Mai Mai will buy him the best equipment and the best clothes, because Mai Lin feels that since she is in this business, she must be decent when going out to meet people.

Later, in order to help Li Xingliang, Mai Lin also went to work in a publicity company, just to learn more knowledge and help Li Xingliang become a better singer. Mai Lin was not familiar with this job and often worked overtime until late at night, but Mai Lin did not regret.

Because Mai Lin’s biggest wish at that time was for Li Xingliang to become popular.

So, there is the scene at the beginning.

While playing with his friends, one friend joked: "Maimai, I'm going to strangle you to death."

Mai Lin's first reaction was: "Ah, if I die, Ryoko should be on the front page of the news."

Seeing Li Xingliang's records back then, I had to sigh. In those years of suffering together, it should be Mai Lin. The hardest and happiest years!

This explains a series of incredible actions of Mai Lin in "Goodbye Lover 4".

The first point is that Li Xingliang said that Mai Lin was too frugal.

In Li Xingliang’s view, now that I have the ability to make money, we should live a good life.

For Li Xingliang, this is actually a symbol of success and a promise he made to Mai Lin.

But Mai Lin is different, because Mai Lin’s previous goal was to make Li Xing popular. This was her entire motivation to endure hardship or hard work, and it was also a reflection of her value.

But when Li Xingliang became really popular, Mai Lin felt that she had no goal. In addition, now that she had no job, she naturally had a sense of crisis, feeling that Li Xingliang might abandon her at any time.

The second point is Mai Lin’s emotions.

In "Goodbye Lover 4", Mai Lin really cried whenever she wanted, and her tear point was so low that it was unexpected.

But if you look carefully at the points where Mai Lin was sad and cried, you will find that her points are actually very easy to understand.

For example, the portrait that made Mai Lin collapse.

To be honest, any woman who sees that painting will probably collapse, because that painting is really ugly, too ugly.

Some people may think that the artist's poor painting is because Mai Lin's own appearance is lacking. But what if after Mai Lin saw the portrait collapse, Li Xingliang did not follow the crowd and changed his approach.

If Li Xingliang saw Mai Lin sad, he would take his wife’s emotions into consideration immediately, even if he said a few words : "How could this artist paint you like this! You are not like this at all in my eyes."

I don't think Mai Lin would laugh crazily while wiping her tears with a tissue.

Moreover, everyone present except Li Xingliang noticed that Mai Lin was not in the right mood.

Ge Xi and Huang Shengyi noticed that Mai Mai was crying even at the dinner table, and privately reminded Li Xingliang many times to comfort Mai Mai, because Mai Mai was so sad that she cried.

What did Li Xingliang say about this?

He said: "No, she laughs like this at home too! This is very similar to her usual state!"

It wasn't until Ge Xi told him that Mai Mai was covering up her sadness with laughter, but actually her heart had burst, that Li Xingliang had a sudden realization: It turned out that Mai Lin's smile was sometimes a kind of sadness.

It can be seen from here that Mai Lin's inner grievances must have accumulated many layers.

The reason why her tear point was too low was because from the beginning, Li Xingliang ignored her emotions. Just like Ge Xi said, because you never solved Mai Lin's emotional problems, she always wanted to pass a form, to vent it out, or hope to attract your attention.

At the same time, she also understood why Mai Lin always felt that Li Xingliang did not care about her, because Li Xingliang was a person with a strong sense of insensitivity, while Mai Lin was a sensitive person. The two were like two extremes, one was already volcanic. It broke out, and no one even knew it!

Another example is the "death multiple choice question" - who is the most ideal partner in your mind?

Because Li Xingliang did not point at Mai Lin immediately, but seemed to point at Huang Shengyi, Mai Lin broke down and cried again.

Mai Lin cried because she felt that I have done so much for you and been with you for so many years, but you actually chose someone else’s wife in front of everyone?

What Li Xingliang understands is that isn't this the program team that allows everyone to choose their ideal type? How did it become a link to show loyalty?

Actually, do you think this is a big problem? The problem is not big at all, it's just that the two people have different ways of thinking.

If Li Xingliang really explained it clearly to Mai Lin, and everyone would smooth things over, Mai Lin would be relieved. But what do you think Li Xingliang did?

Starting from this question, Li Xingliang stopped answering the next questions.

And he said very seriously that because he had offended his wife with the previous question, I will not answer it anymore. As soon as he said this, everyone felt embarrassed, and of course the most embarrassed one was Mai Mai.

From this moment on, Mai Mai felt that it was because of herself that Li Xingliang no longer cooperated in answering questions, and the program felt that it could not continue to be recorded.

Li Xingliang’s behavior seems to be serious and the thinking of a man in science and engineering. In fact, he has pushed his wife to the extreme, making her a "sinner" in everyone's eyes.

Therefore, Mai Lin will be even more angry later and cry until she can’t stop her tears.

Seeing this, I couldn't help sighing and sighing:

was "dead" back then, and she also wanted her boyfriend to realize his dream. How could a popular woman become like this?

Is it really that she is too pretentious, too pretentious, and too inferior?

Does Li Xingliang really have no responsibility as a husband?

What do you think about this?