Recently, in the meeting room of Anning Prison in Yunnan Province, time seemed to be stretched, and every second was loaded with heavy emotions. For the criminal Xiang Mou and his family, this meeting, which spanned seven years, allowed them to "reunite".
Xiang was sentenced to a fixed-term prison sentence for the crime of illegal possession of drugs. Since entering prison, the prisoner has not seen or communicated with him. The police arranged for him to make phone calls or write letters to his family many times, but he politely declined.
In order to understand his true inner thoughts, the police officer in charge of psychological counseling in the prison started a conversation with him. As the communication deepened, he slowly opened his heart.
It turns out that after Xiang was imprisoned, he felt that his behavior was unworthy of his family. He believed that as a son, he failed to fulfill his filial piety to his parents; as a father, he failed to fulfill his responsibility in raising children; as a husband, he let his wife down time and time again and was responsible for the family alone. Responsibility, shame inside, and shamelessness to face my family. Regret, self-blame and other emotions were fermenting in someone's heart, and he was trapped in his own cage.
"Officer, how can I not miss my relatives whom I haven't seen for several years? But my parents are old and my wife and children are too far away from here. It is not easy for them to come here. I can't cause them any more trouble."… ...When talking about this matter, Xiang Mou choked up several times. The police in the
Ward conducted a comprehensive study and judgment on the prisoner's daily personality "portrait" and rehabilitation performance, and found that he had been suffering from the contradictory emotions of inferiority and shame caused by serving his sentence and a desire for family affection and encouragement. This "knot" if If it is not released in time, it may affect the prisoner's subsequent rehabilitation. Faced with this situation, the police in the prison area saw it and were anxious in their hearts. How can we guide Xiang to get out of his psychological predicament, face reality, and make practical transformation?
"The core reason why he doesn't want to face his family is that he feels too guilty. The key to solving the problem is to rely on the power of family affection." This is the conclusion reached after the ward meeting. Then the ward police began to take action.
On the one hand, regular conversations and education were carried out with the prisoner to guide him to remove his psychological "burden" and correctly deal with the current situation; in addition, he read Xiang's files in detail to fully understand his family situation and scientifically formulate follow-up work plans.
On the other hand, we communicated with the prisoner’s family many times about the prisoner’s situation. Considering that the prisoner’s family had never participated in a family meeting and the distance was far away, they informed the meeting in advance of the required materials, route, and specific procedures. In the end, it went smoothly. Arranged this "reunion" after seven years.
On the day of the meeting, Xiang started packing up early. He was both nervous and excited. He imagined what his family would look like. After seven years, his mother's body might be rickety, and the child should have grown up...
His family, accompanied by the police, also came to the interview room. On the surface, they looked a little angry. , but my heart is filled with longing for Xiang. When Xiang saw his family, tears burst into his eyes, and he stretched out his trembling hand to hold the microphone tightly. With the encouragement and help of the prison police, Xiang plucked up the courage to tell his family about his reformed life and his feelings of missing him.
As the family listened to his words, the ice in their hearts gradually melted away. Although they were still a little unfamiliar after seven years, the family affection that was thicker than water gradually brought them closer.
"Thank you, police officer. This meeting is really meaningful to me. The 'big rock' that has been pressing on my heart has finally fallen to the ground. I will keep your help and my family's encouragement in mind and be positive." Reform and strive to be released from prison as soon as possible. "... This reunion spanning seven years was a spiritual baptism and rebirth for Xiang. It not only allowed Xiang and his family to rediscover the affection and warmth between each other, but also It made them more determined about their future direction and hope.
Recently, in the meeting room of Anning Prison in Yunnan Province, time seemed to be stretched, and every second was loaded with heavy emotions. For the criminal Xiang Mou and his family, this meeting, which spanned seven years, allowed them to "reunite".
Xiang was sentenced to a fixed-term prison sentence for the crime of illegal possession of drugs. Since entering prison, the prisoner has not seen or communicated with him. The police arranged for him to make phone calls or write letters to his family many times, but he politely declined.
In order to understand his true inner thoughts, the police officer in charge of psychological counseling in the prison started a conversation with him. As the communication deepened, he slowly opened his heart.
It turns out that after Xiang was imprisoned, he felt that his behavior was unworthy of his family. He believed that as a son, he failed to fulfill his filial piety to his parents; as a father, he failed to fulfill his responsibility in raising children; as a husband, he let his wife down time and time again and was responsible for the family alone. Responsibility, shame inside, and shamelessness to face my family. Regret, self-blame and other emotions were fermenting in someone's heart, and he was trapped in his own cage.
"Officer, how can I not miss my relatives whom I haven't seen for several years? But my parents are old and my wife and children are too far away from here. It is not easy for them to come here. I can't cause them any more trouble."… ...When talking about this matter, Xiang Mou choked up several times. The police in the
Ward conducted a comprehensive study and judgment on the prisoner's daily personality "portrait" and rehabilitation performance, and found that he had been suffering from the contradictory emotions of inferiority and shame caused by serving his sentence and a desire for family affection and encouragement. This "knot" if If it is not released in time, it may affect the prisoner's subsequent rehabilitation. Faced with this situation, the police in the prison area saw it and were anxious in their hearts. How can we guide Xiang to get out of his psychological predicament, face reality, and make practical transformation?
"The core reason why he doesn't want to face his family is that he feels too guilty. The key to solving the problem is to rely on the power of family affection." This is the conclusion reached after the ward meeting. Then the ward police began to take action.
On the one hand, regular conversations and education were carried out with the prisoner to guide him to remove his psychological "burden" and correctly deal with the current situation; in addition, he read Xiang's files in detail to fully understand his family situation and scientifically formulate follow-up work plans.
On the other hand, we communicated with the prisoner’s family many times about the prisoner’s situation. Considering that the prisoner’s family had never participated in a family meeting and the distance was far away, they informed the meeting in advance of the required materials, route, and specific procedures. In the end, it went smoothly. Arranged this "reunion" after seven years.
On the day of the meeting, Xiang started packing up early. He was both nervous and excited. He imagined what his family would look like. After seven years, his mother's body might be rickety, and the child should have grown up...
His family, accompanied by the police, also came to the interview room. On the surface, they looked a little angry. , but my heart is filled with longing for Xiang. When Xiang saw his family, tears burst into his eyes, and he stretched out his trembling hand to hold the microphone tightly. With the encouragement and help of the prison police, Xiang plucked up the courage to tell his family about his reformed life and his feelings of missing him.
As the family listened to his words, the ice in their hearts gradually melted away. Although they were still a little unfamiliar after seven years, the family affection that was thicker than water gradually brought them closer.
"Thank you, police officer. This meeting is really meaningful to me. The 'big rock' that has been pressing on my heart has finally fallen to the ground. I will keep your help and my family's encouragement in mind and be positive." Reform and strive to be released from prison as soon as possible. "... This reunion spanning seven years was a spiritual baptism and rebirth for Xiang. It not only allowed Xiang and his family to rediscover the affection and warmth between each other, but also It made them more determined about their future direction and hope.
(Yunnan Province Anning Prison)