In the long river of love, we all long for the eternal affection, but the reality is often not satisfactory.
Love is like the changing of the four seasons, with the warmth of spring and the warmth of flowers blooming, and the bleakness of autumn leaves falling.
No matter how much people have loved each other, they cannot easily guarantee that they will continue to love each other.
Time knows people, and fallen leaves know the heart. Whether a person loves you or not, the difference revealed in the details is really obvious.
If one day the other person no longer loves you, they will often have these symptoms.
Always holding on to your faults
When two people are together, there will be more or less disagreements, and quarrels and conflicts are inevitable.
If love is tolerant and not caring, then not loving is criticizing and picky.
Once upon a time, no matter your strengths or weaknesses, the other person would appreciate and accept you with a smile;
But now, no matter how well you do, it is difficult to find a trace of affirmation in the other person's eyes.
A small mistake you accidentally made will always be grating on the other party.
Those things that seem insignificant to you, the other party can always find out what they are dissatisfied with.
Because I no longer love you, the tolerance and understanding I once had seemed to disappear without a trace overnight, replaced by endless disgust and harsh criticism.
Many times, even the wrong words or things you do will become unforgivable sins in the eyes of the other party.
Maybe you will try to communicate, try to explain, try to let the other party see your efforts and changes.
But for a person who doesn’t love you, every time you try to please and every time you bow your head, you will only get indifferent responses and ridicule.
Sharp and harsh words
Language is the mirror of the soul, which often best reflects a person's true inner thoughts.
When a person is no longer in love, his words will often reveal indifference and meanness unconsciously.
If you talk to him happily, he will either ignore you, treat your words as air, and use a few words to deal with you;
or he will respond to you with extremely hurtful words and expose your shortcomings mercilessly, letting you It hurts your heart and makes you feel ashamed.
You are looking forward to sharing your happiness and sorrow with him, eager to get his resonance and understanding.
However, he simply says "um", "oh" or "got it" to dismiss you.
Think about those sweet words that once made your heart warm, but now they have become sharp swords that hurt people.
Some of the words he said may seem unintentional, but in fact they touch your heart and make you feel chilled as never before.
This kind of verbal injury is often more difficult to heal than physical pain.
As the saying goes, a kind word warms you in the winter, but a bad word hurts you in the winter.
A person who has the heart to hurt you with words, to put it bluntly, doesn’t care about you at all, so why should you ask for trouble.
Will lose his temper at you at every turn
Whether a person really loves you does not depend on how much he pays to you in normal time, but on how badly he treats you when he is in a bad mood.
Long-term love reflects people's hearts, and differences reflect character.
A person who truly loves you will never hurt others in a quarrel, let alone settle old scores afterwards.
Teacher Tu Lei once said:
"The deeper a man loves, the more he will control his temper. Because he cherishes it, he restrains himself.
The more truly a woman loves, the easier it is to get angry, because she cares, so she is demanding. ”
People who don’t love you will only reason with you when things happen, and get angry at you if they don’t agree.
He never thinks from your point of view, and he never considers your feelings.
In his world, there are only his principles and his positions, and you are just an object who needs to be persuaded and educated.
Because he doesn’t care, he never worries that his words and deeds will hurt you;
Because he doesn’t feel bad, he will choose to be indifferent and ignore you when you need comfort and encouragement.
As for your happiness, anger, sorrow, and safety, they will not be within the scope of his consideration.
Heart is a very expensive thing. If it is given to the right person, it becomes extremely precious. But if it is given to the wrong person, it will be worthless.
Never give your sincerity to those who do not cherish you and do not treat you well.
Life is short, eat with people you can get along with, live with people who understand you, and communicate with people who are willing to respond to you.
If a person cannot resonate with you in the trivial daily life, how can he walk side by side with you in the long years?
A person who truly loves you will always keep you in his heart, regardless of your appearance or your age.
There is no sooner or later you meet, and fate has no length. If you are lucky enough to meet the right person, don't let your sincerity be let down, and don't let your happiness slip through your fingers.
Author: Chu Yao, a long-term believer who regards writing as a belief. Focusing on self-media writing, personal growth, and emotional sharing, I hope to meet a better you and yourself through words. In the long river of love, we all long for the eternal affection, but the reality is often not satisfactory. Love is like the changing of the four seasons, with the warmth of spring and the warmth of flowers blooming, and the bleakness of autumn leaves falling. No matter how much people have loved each other, they cannot easily guarantee that they will continue to love each other. Time knows people, and fallen leaves know the heart. Whether a person loves you or not, the difference revealed in the details is really obvious. If one day the other person no longer loves you, they will often have these symptoms. Always holding on to your faults When two people are together, there will be more or less disagreements, and quarrels and conflicts are inevitable. If love is tolerant and not caring, then not loving is criticizing and picky. Once upon a time, no matter your strengths or weaknesses, the other person would appreciate and accept you with a smile; But now, no matter how well you do, it is difficult to find a trace of affirmation in the other person's eyes. A small mistake you accidentally made will always be grating on the other party. Those things that seem insignificant to you, the other party can always find out what they are dissatisfied with. Because I no longer love you, the tolerance and understanding I once had seemed to disappear without a trace overnight, replaced by endless disgust and harsh criticism. Many times, even the wrong words or things you do will become unforgivable sins in the eyes of the other party. Maybe you will try to communicate, try to explain, try to let the other party see your efforts and changes. But for a person who doesn’t love you, every time you try to please and every time you bow your head, you will only get indifferent responses and ridicule. Sharp and harsh words Language is the mirror of the soul, which often best reflects a person's true inner thoughts. When a person is no longer in love, his words will often reveal indifference and meanness unconsciously. If you talk to him happily, he will either ignore you, treat your words as air, and use a few words to deal with you; or he will respond to you with extremely hurtful words and expose your shortcomings mercilessly, letting you It hurts your heart and makes you feel ashamed. You are looking forward to sharing your happiness and sorrow with him, eager to get his resonance and understanding. However, he simply says "um", "oh" or "got it" to dismiss you. Think about those sweet words that once made your heart warm, but now they have become sharp swords that hurt people. Some of the words he said may seem unintentional, but in fact they touch your heart and make you feel chilled as never before. This kind of verbal injury is often more difficult to heal than physical pain. As the saying goes, a kind word warms you in the winter, but a bad word hurts you in the winter. A person who has the heart to hurt you with words, to put it bluntly, doesn’t care about you at all, so why should you ask for trouble. Will lose his temper at you at every turn Whether a person really loves you does not depend on how much he pays to you in normal time, but on how badly he treats you when he is in a bad mood. Long-term love reflects people's hearts, and differences reflect character. A person who truly loves you will never hurt others in a quarrel, let alone settle old scores afterwards. Teacher Tu Lei once said: "The deeper a man loves, the more he will control his temper. Because he cherishes it, he restrains himself. The more truly a woman loves, the easier it is to get angry, because she cares, so she is demanding. ” People who don’t love you will only reason with you when things happen, and get angry at you if they don’t agree. He never thinks from your point of view, and he never considers your feelings. In his world, there are only his principles and his positions, and you are just an object who needs to be persuaded and educated. Because he doesn’t care, he never worries that his words and deeds will hurt you; Because he doesn’t feel bad, he will choose to be indifferent and ignore you when you need comfort and encouragement. As for your happiness, anger, sorrow, and safety, they will not be within the scope of his consideration. Heart is a very expensive thing. If it is given to the right person, it becomes extremely precious. But if it is given to the wrong person, it will be worthless. Never give your sincerity to those who do not cherish you and do not treat you well. Life is short, eat with people you can get along with, live with people who understand you, and communicate with people who are willing to respond to you. If a person cannot resonate with you in the trivial daily life, how can he walk side by side with you in the long years? A person who truly loves you will always keep you in his heart, regardless of your appearance or your age. There is no sooner or later you meet, and fate has no length. If you are lucky enough to meet the right person, don't let your sincerity be let down, and don't let your happiness slip through your fingers. Author: Chu Yao, a long-term believer who regards writing as a belief. Focusing on self-media writing, personal growth, and emotional sharing, I hope to meet a better you and yourself through words. The pictures in the article are from the Internet. Please contact us for infringement. Delete It is not easy to be original, and plagiarism will be investigated!