In "Goodbye Lover 4", Mai Lin's various performances caused dissatisfaction among many netizens. However, if you think about it carefully, is Mai Lin really the only one who is wrong? Today, let’s put aside what Mai Lin did in the show and look at Li Xingliang’s performance

Mai Lin's various performances in "Goodbye Lover 4" caused dissatisfaction among many netizens. However, if you think about it carefully, is Mai Lin really the only one who is wrong?

Let’s put aside what Mai Lin did in the show today and look at Li Xingliang’s performance alone.

In the fifth episode of the program, the program team designed a game to allow six guests to answer questions raised by the program team.

One of the questions is, who among the six people is the most perfect partner?

Li Xingliang raised his finger to Ge Xi without hesitation.

What's interesting is that after Li Xingliang raised his hand, he immediately realized that he had made a mistake, so he quickly turned his hand to the side, pointed at Yang Zi and said, he chose Yang Zi.

After seeing this, Mai Lin smiled and asked Li Xingliang who he was referring to.

Li Xingliang was frozen there, not knowing how to answer.

Mai Lin saw this and quickly cooperated with others, saying that the person Li Xingliang was referring to was Huang Shengyi because she also chose Huang Shengyi.

Mai Lin was already holding back tears, but Yang Zi had to add that Mai Lin was about to cry.

As soon as Yang Zi said this sentence, Mai Lin couldn't hold back any longer. The tears she had been holding back for a long time finally started to flow down.

Who is Li Xingliang referring to? The answer is Ge Xi.

Li Xingliang's reason was that he had heard Liu Shuang say before that Ge Xi would observe Liu Shuang and then give Liu Shuang his favorite gift.

Li Xingliang felt that what Ge Xi did was what he wanted.

So after hearing the question from the program team, Li Xingliang chose Ge Xi without hesitation.

Li Xingliang emphasized that he was very devoted to playing this game, including the entire program and the entire trip.

Li Xingliang even felt that since he was here to find a problem, he should be truthful and not vote against his will.

At first glance, I think Li Xingliang's statement is right, but Li Xingliang seems to have forgotten that the main purpose of his appearance in this show is not to get divorced.

Since you don’t want to get divorced, you can’t quarrel with each other. At the very least, you must retain respect for your partner.

Looking at Yang Zi, for a person who doesn't care about Huang Shengyi's thoughts, when answering this question, he will still choose Huang Shengyi.

Just as Huang Shengyi said, based on Yang Zi's emotional intelligence, it is impossible for him not to choose Huang Shengyi.

Then why didn’t Li Xingliang think of this?

Either he is too straight, or he doesn't care too much about Mai Lin's feelings.

When "Goodbye Lover 4" was first aired, Li Xingliang and Mai Lin showed off their affection on the show and repeatedly said they loved each other.

But after watching a few episodes of the program, you will find that neither Li Xingliang nor Mai Lin is willing to get to know each other.

Li Xingliang kept saying that he did not want a divorce and he would try his best to save the marriage. But no matter what he did, he was wrong, which made him confused. He wanted to know what to do to make Mai Lin happy.

In fact, Yang Zi and Liu Shuang have given the answer to Li Xingliang’s question more than once in the program. What Mai Lin wants is not material gifts, but spiritual affirmation.

Li Xingliang listened and just listened. Then he didn’t change anything and continued to ask what he should do.

After the broadcast of "Goodbye Lover 4", Li Xingliang's purchase of the Youth League for Mai Lin caused a stir.

Many people are saying that Mai Lin is wrong. Li Xingliang flew to buy Youth League for her, but she is still not satisfied.

But think about it from another angle. After 17 years of marriage, Li Xingliang doesn’t even know what flavor of Qingtuan Mai Lin likes. Is this reasonable?

Some people say that Mai Lin is just looking for trouble and all she wants is a brand-name bag.

But Zhang Quanling said that even if Li Xingliang gave Mai Lin a brand-name bag, she would not be happy.

Because Mai Lin never wanted these messy gifts, she wanted something very simple, that is, Li Xingliang's recognition and praise for her.

Mai Lin said in the program that social awareness of full-time housewives is very low.

For Mai Lin, this is the real pain in her heart. Mai Lin wanted to get Li Xingliang's support, but Li Xingliang turned out to be a very "fleshy" straight man.

Liu Shuang said something very well in the show, that is, Mai Lin was like the Tathagata's palm hitting cotton to Li Xingliang.

No matter how Mai Lin expressed it, Li Xingliang's reply was always silence or avoidance.

Li Xingliang's response was like cold violence. The more silent and evasive he was, the crazier Mai Lin would be.

Over time, both Li Xingliang and Mai Lin will get tired of it, which is why at the end of this program, no matter how others persuaded them, Li Xingliang was unwilling to coax Mai Lin.

After this episode, Mai Lin chose to get a divorce for the first time. When

saw this result, he just wanted to say that Li Xingliang was the last straw that overwhelmed Mai Lin.

If Li Xingliang and Mai Lin really don't want to divorce, then they should learn to communicate. Only by understanding each other's needs can they manage their marriage successfully.

is as the saying goes, a slap in the face can't make a sound. Although Mai Lin was wrong, Li Xingliang was not always right either.You say, right?