This episode of "Goodbye Lover 4" unsurprisingly kicked off the show with Mai Lin (hereinafter referred to as "Mai Mai") breaking down and crying, and it was only because of Yang Zi With just one sentence, she cried until she couldn't stop crying. She even left the show midway and found an angle to cry a little longer.
What happened is very simple. In a game session, the question asked "Which of the six people best meets the criteria for a perfect partner?" Yang Zi chose Huang Shengyi , Liu Shuang chose Ge Xi, and Li Xingliang did not choose Mai Mai, but pointed to In the direction of Huang Shengyi.
Later, Li Xingliang thought about it and voted for Yang Zi again. Mai Mai immediately asked, "Who did you want to refer to just now?" Li Xingliang remained silent. Mai Mai then added that she thought Li Xingliang should She wanted to point to Huang Shengyi, because she herself thought it would be Huang Shengyi.
Originally, Mai Mai didn't think there was any problem. After all, compared with Huang Shengyi, the gap in various dimensions was indeed quite large. It was impossible for her to be angry with Li Xingliang because of this, let alone to have an emotional breakdown.
What made Mai Mai collapse was what Yang Zi said. Yang Zi said jokingly, "Maimai will cry again later", because among the three men present, except Li Xingliang, the other two boys They all chose their wives as their perfect partners.
Now Mai Mai's emotions were aroused. After saying "This is quite worth crying" and "Because others pointed at his wife", he immediately broke down and started crying. Yang Zi quickly handed the tissue over to Mai Mai. Mai then opened her tear ducts and started crying uncontrollably.
At this time, Li Xingliang was confused, because he didn't feel that he had done anything wrong, nor did he feel that the choice he made based on his inner thoughts had hurt Maimai.
At first, Li Xingliang pointed to Huang Shengyi. In fact, he originally wanted to choose Ge Xi. It was not that Ge Xi had any external characteristics or personality that attracted him. It was purely because there were three boys in the RV. While chatting, Liu Shuang mentioned that Ge Xi would give him birthday gifts every year, and they were always gifts he liked. This was something Li Xingliang envied very much.
Because in daily life, Ge Xi would really carefully check Liu Shuang’s Internet browsing history, shopping cart, or if Liu Shuang mentioned what he liked when they were chatting, Ge Xi would keep them in mind. Then on Liu Shuang's birthday, Liu Shuang will receive what he misses most.
This point touched Li Xingliang very much, but Mai Mai usually didn't pay much attention to Li Xingliang's inner needs, and didn't even like Li Xingliang's singing. For example, Li Xingliang loved music and wanted to start a band when he was young. Mai Mai would also say in a sarcastic tone, "It's just you," and then walked away with a haha.
When the painter was chatting with Li Xingliang and asked about what Li Xingliang wanted in his heart, Li Xingliang realized that he had said before, “I don’t put my own needs first. I feel that these are not important. I choose to compromise more often.” The principle of "tolerance to maintain a basic harmony in the family" seemed to be shaken at this moment. There was a part of his heart that he really hoped that Mai Mai could take care of or pay attention to.
But Mai Mai also expressed his determination not to be interested in Li Xingliang's music, saying that he would not understand Li Xingliang's music world, and even if he forced himself to get close, it would be very painful for him.
When the director asked about some of Li Xingliang's inner needs, Mai Mai would like to try to get a closer look and understand him, Mai Mai said straightforwardly that he was not willing.
To use Li Xingliang’s words, in terms of the need for both people to respond to each other, “his and Mai Mai’s psychological demands are parallel and intertwined.” In other words, there is no solution, and there will never be intersection or communion. one day.
Based on this, he felt that Ge Xi's silent concern for Liu Shuang and his discovery of Liu Shuang's love from the bottom of his heart made him very envious, so he followed his heart and chose to vote for Ge Xi. evening.
The point of Mai Mai's collapse was that although she was not Liu Shuang's ideal type, after so many years, she felt that there was still a deep love between her and Liang Zi, and she had sacrificed for him and the family. After so many choices, Li Xingliang naturally had to choose her.
When reality and default completely contradicted each other, what Mai Mai was thinking about was not why Li Xingliang didn't choose him at that moment, but whether there was anything he could do better to further consolidate his relationship with Li Xingliang. , but immediately became emotional, and then burst into tears on the spot. At one point, he cried until he couldn't continue recording and had to leave the table to calm down.
At this time, everyone began to ask Li Xingliang to coax Maimai, and coax Maimai back to health first, but Li Xingliang was still a little confused, because he could not get the point of Maimai's collapse. Liu Shuang even said that he didn't expect Mai Mai's reaction to be so big.
But Li Xingliang still got up and went to find Maimai, and the first thing he said when he squatted down was to ask Maimai if he was sad and crying because he didn't choose her. At this time, Maimai didn't give Li Xingliang any way to get out of the way. He said, "Let's not communicate anymore" and "Let's stop talking."
Li Xingliang tried to continue to say, "The person I love most is definitely you, but right now..." But Maimai didn't give Li Xingliang any chance to explain or coax her. She kept interrupting Li Xingliang and asked him to stop talking. He said that he would just treat this as a game and that we could finish recording it properly. Then he turned around and left without giving Li Xingliang any face at all.
After the game session, Li Xingliang began to become submissive. papi Jiang said that Li Xingliang did not dare to do anything easily, let alone say anything more.
Liu Shuang was also in a state of calming Maimai's mood at this time. He said that the reason why Maimai was angry and sad was because Li Xingliang never gave her feedback on the things she threw out. Even if Li Xingliang screamed, Maimai would not respond. Feeling so powerless.
Then Liu Shuang said to Li Xingliang, "Why is it that every time Maimai talks to you, it's like being slapped on cotton and you don't react at all?" Li Xingliang asked, "Should I applaud or complain about pain?"
Because Li Xingliang knew very well that Maimai had never been a reasonable girl. Every time she raised a problem with him, Li Xingliang would feel very smooth if she just found a solution to this problem. But if Maimai just If she wants to vent her emotions through this matter and let Li Xingliang comfort her, Li Xingliang will feel very embarrassed and it will be very difficult to get Maimai's true emotions.
Li Xingliang is not such a sensitive person. This thing cannot be forced, but Mai Mai is still asking and asking for it. Isn't it just asking for trouble? After the
game session, when Li Xingliang was talking to Huang Shengyi and Liu Shuang about the specific plans for tomorrow's "Master of the Family Day", Huang Shengyi told Li Xingliang the reason why Mai Mai cried after watching the self-portrait last night. Li Xingliang only realized it later. He felt that because he had no idea that Mai Mai's laughter last night was just to cover up his inner sadness, and he couldn't get it at all.
And Li Xingliang also said that Mai Mai's behavior of using laughter to cover up his emotions like last night was extremely rare in so many years of married life. Liu Shuang and Yang Zi did not notice Mai Mai's emotional changes at the moment, let alone To say that Li Xingliang, who was born in science and engineering, is to embarrass Li Xingliang, and Li Xingliang is helpless about it.
But everyone seemed to only care about Maimai's mood. They all asked Li Xingliang to find ways to make Maimai happy and apologize to Maimai first no matter what.
Even when Li Xingliang was talking to Ge Xi alone outside the house, Ge Xi asked Li Xingliang to apologize to Mai Mai first and coax Mai Mai first.
But Li Xingliang really couldn't take that step, because he knew that Maimai was not a person who could be coaxed easily. Maimai needed someone who could really empathize with her and then admit her mistakes very sincerely. Man, Li Xingliang really can't do it. If Li Xingliang really could do it, he wouldn't be on this show with Mai Mai.
Thinking of this, Li Xingliang felt really numb in his heart, because in his understanding, he had always felt that "loving someone and being dissatisfied with that person are not contradictory." He He chose Ge Xi as his perfect partner at the moment, just because what Ge Xi did to Liu Shuang hit his mark, so he instinctively pointed to Ge Xi.
Everyone felt that Maimai cried because he had been greatly wronged, but no one came to ask Li Xingliang whether Li Xingliang felt wronged or whether Li Xingliang needed coaxing. Is it just because Li Xingliang did not show his emotions? After releasing their negative emotions, everyone took it for granted that Li Xingliang was not a victim. Should Li Xingliang admit his mistake to Mai Mai without any complaints?
Li Xingliang really felt like he had had enough of Maimai, who was always in a state of breaking down, getting angry and sad, and crying because of grievances. After falling in love with her for so many years, Li Xingliang knew that Maimai was in a bad mood and needed to be comforted by himself. , he couldn't take that step in his heart, and Li Xingliang no longer had the energy to coax her.
To put it simply, "Li Xingliang is really tired!" In the trailer of
, the night talk between Mai Mai and Li Xingliang failed to alleviate the conflict and contradiction. Instead, both of them took their words to a very extreme point. Mai Mai asked Li Xingliang, if we divorce, can all the money and children belong to her? Li Xingliang said that three-quarters of the property can be given to you, but I will definitely fight for the children.
The two of them are so incompatible. It feels like Li Xingliang's patience has really reached its limit. At the age of forty-one, he wants to listen to his inner thoughts, no longer suppress himself, and wants to live a good life for himself. Instead of blindly tolerating and accommodating, choose to turn a blind eye.
Finally, I would like to say something to Li Xingliang, "Brother Liang, there is nothing wrong with you. Don't doubt yourself. You are great and you deserve a better girl!"
