I was once again shocked by the divine twist in "Goodbye Lover 4"! Who would have thought that Mai Lin would single-handedly turn the Mango Variety Show into a national Spring Festival Gala. The reason was that Mai Lin was the tour guide who arranged for everyone's catering expen

was once again shocked by the divine twist in "Goodbye Lover 4"!

Who would have thought that Mai Lin would single-handedly elevate the Mango Variety Show to the national Spring Festival Gala.

The reason was that on the day when Mai Lin was the tour guide and arranged for everyone’s catering expenses, she wanted to buy something filling. However, Huang Shengyi and Ge Xi wanted to eat snacks, so they left a few hands and Yangzi bought fireworks that were not necessities in life.

On the day when it was Ge Xi’s turn to be the tour guide, Mai Lin also deliberately refused to cooperate and wanted to buy smoked chicken, milk skin, and potato chips...

After spending all the money, she did not tell Ge Xi, who was the tour guide, the payment password, and then laughed at Ge Xi for not knowing it. The money to pay for the password has been spent.

If you really want to eat, forget it. After buying it, Mai Lin said:

I can be hungry the next day, as long as I don’t take this responsibility.

Ge Xi has a pretty good personality. Although she spent a lot of money, she still comforted her: As long as you are happy, I will take the responsibility.

After getting off the bus, the boys saw this pile of things and began to say that Ge Xi spent money recklessly. Mailin said at this time:

If I hadn't left more than 50 when I was a tour guide, let's see what you would do tomorrow...

Looking gloating at his misfortune With an expression on his face, he asked everyone if they felt cool at the moment.

At this time, Huang Shengyi seemed to say out loud that the smoked chicken was what Mai Lin wanted to buy, and then Mai Lin blurted out and denied it.

But she never expected that although the process of her insisting on buying smoked chicken and snacks in the supermarket was not filmed, it was recorded.

After the recording came out, netizens went crazy:

"She deliberately made everyone unhappy, otherwise she wouldn't be proud to say how you feel now, isn't it cool?" Wow? "

" It's really terrible. She really needs professional treatment. "

Some netizens said that watching Mai Lin talk in the middle of the night can make them angry enough to be hospitalized.

Some netizens even revealed that Mai Lin rushed to Mango Channel to demand an explanation and asked for re-editing.

In short, she has no problem, it’s all the editing’s fault, and she said she won’t record anymore.

Is this... sister really no problem?

Mai Lin who cut off her wings

Flying unhappy Li Xingliang

Up to now, Yangzi and Liu Jishou should thank Mai Lin for helping them attract most of the firepower of netizens. In the

program, the crimes of the other two contestants with bad reviews are somewhat typical.

However, the character color chart presented by Mai Lin is more complicated. This also led to the Internet initially dividing Mai Lin into two groups.

understands her situation as a full-time housewife, respects her and expresses regret.

But now that the show has aired, her role as a full-time wife has begun to collapse. For more than a week, whenever she appears in the scene, the barrage has been attacked by netizens.

Some netizens said that Li Xingliang was extremely unlucky when he met her. In the

show, she was naughty and difficult to please. Her expressions were fragmented and confusing, and her character declined rapidly from the third episode.

As soon as she spoke, Huang Shengyi Ge Xi was afraid that she could not control her expression, so she drank water tactically.

It’s not easy to attack her with all your strength even if you have few hands left. Can you understand everything with just one look?

Mai Lin’s problem finally became clear.

Mai Lin, from an independent individual gradually became a self-ambiguous desperate housewife. Her plight deserves to be vigilant to ordinary women.

Mai Lin’s emotions in the show are the strongest and her expressions are the most confusing.

Her problems listed by netizens include:

Worshiping money : When she was young more than ten years ago, she had the opportunity to marry a rich man and have a wealth beyond her current level, but she chose the most ordinary Li Xingliang. .

Split : The two often had conflicts over issues such as wardrobe and gifts. Li Xingliang followed her behavioral logic and bought cheap and practical gifts that were returned, but he was not satisfied that Li Xingliang did not give them to her and did not care about her.

Manipulative Communication : The third issue "Do I deserve a cup of coffee?" This expression is confusing.

Low empathy : She lost Ge Xi’s dowry by leaving a few hands, but she was more concerned about the fact that Ge Xi’s family was in good condition.

Huang Shengyi didn't eat in the morning or lunch. What she blurted out was that she was envious of Huang Shengyi's good appetite.

Confused self-perception : When chatting with Ge Xi and Huang Shengyi, she said that she was not a very strong person, but it was Li Xingliang who said she was. But when Huang Shengyi gave an example of Yangzi's strength, she also mentioned that she understood Yangzi's approach because she did too.

did not take it hard. : Holding the financial power of the family, the computer is scrapped after use, and the mobile phone is also used. As a result, more energy and cost are spent to repair it. In addition, I fell into the whirlpool of self-certification of housework KPI and did not know how to take advantage of it.

After writing this, netizens must have started to add.

Her biggest problem is that she seems to have never really walked out.

This caused her imagination to want to achieve something. The first channel was to satisfy it through her husband, and she did not believe that she could actually obtain it independently.

Anyone who has watched the show can probably feel that in order to satisfy Mai Lin's needs, several personalities must be split.

She expressed that she liked romance and being taken seriously. Li Xingliang bought a plane ticket and went to Shanghai to buy her her favorite Qingtuan to coax her.

On the premise of collecting all the flavors for fear of buying the wrong thing, Mai Lin started to complain because the first bite she took was bean paste filling instead of her favorite filling.

When Zhang Quanling asked her what kind of gift would satisfy you.

She said "Right now, having a bag will make me look good."

But started to beat the wall again and said that he actually didn't value material things very much.

In fact, what a woman wants is not difficult to satisfy if she has abundant resources and is respected by her husband.

Her communication with Li seemed not that deep, and her understanding of each other's feelings was not so accurate.

Zhang Quanling asked her, had she ever touched the other person’s spiritual world?

She said that the two of them were too different in every aspect, so she had no desire to explore.

She didn't like his songs when she was young, but she liked Jacky Cheung.

But I still don’t understand why Li Xingliang’s music taste is so niche, why he likes Tamaki Koji and Michael Jackson, and he doesn’t even want to understand why he likes them.

The sensitive Li Xingliang said that he can do without any space in his life, but when Mai Lin interferes with him not to do his favorite city pop because of commercial interests, he will be so angry that he will smash Coke.

Let’s take a look at Li’s performance in marriage.

Not only did he hope that Mai Lin would have children and take care of household chores, he also wanted Mai Lin to hang around him.

provides him with a customized version of precise care and tenderness.

In other words, even if a girl has three heads and six arms, she can’t do it, right?

Mai Lin certainly has her own reasons for being criticized, but to say that Li Xingliang is the honest man in this marriage, Yang definitely disagrees 100%.

He seems to be suppressed and made things difficult by Mai Lin, but in this relationship, he is the hidden high-ranking person.

The struggle between the two people is a real pain for Mai Lin, but for Li Xingliang, it is a game that can end but he clearly doesn't want to.

Seeing this, Yang felt that the roughness and desolation conveyed in a person's heart has a lot to do with whether she is a housewife and whether she is delayed by housework.

Mai Lin is not lovable, but what is it that wears her down? Compared to complaining, perhaps this issue is more worthy of women’s reflection and vigilance.

Managing an intimate relationship is a false proposition

It is not worth exaggerating

In other words, seeing so many girls complaining about her makes the sheep feel sad.

While he hates her, is he also afraid that he will become someone like Mai Lin?

Therefore, instead of complaining about individuals, it is better to analyze why Mai Lin, who is not so short of money, has now reached this point.

Looking at Mai Lin’s life trajectory, people are reminded of a passage by Liang Yongan.

He said: "Managing an intimate relationship is a false proposition. It induces you to focus all your energy on the other person and regard it as your life's mission to complete. But in fact, this field is like a black hole, absorbing everyone's attention and investment. ".

As a result, more than ten years have passed, and women’s most precious efforts and time costs have been wasted.

If a person with a mediocre resume gives up the opportunity to adapt to the world early, he will not become dazzling because of marriage.

In the third episode, Mai Lin recommended herself to be a tour guide, saying that this was her comfort zone.

But she couldn't get up in the morning because she was chatting with Yangzi and Liu Jishou at night, which delayed her time to go shopping with Li Xingliang.

is not good at packing luggage. She lost the guide book during the trip which was also one of the points that some netizens complained about.

Mai Lin’s time concept and ability to plan and coordinate affairs are not strong.

Housework cannot provide much nourishment and positive feedback, which makes their relationship seem too tight, even trivial.

Their communication is limited to business matters. Once it involves the spiritual level, it is hysterical accusation and loses healthy flexibility.

The only thing Li Xingliang complained about in the program was Mai Lin's frugality, but this is one of Mai Lin's sense of value as a full-time housewife.

But when he said it, he was left with a few hands and Yangzi took turns to explain: You should feel satisfied to have a wife who saves you money like this.

He was put too high.

Frugality, housekeeping, and selfless dedication are the qualities that most selfish men particularly long for in their wives. When he feels less useful, he will be accused of "being a good guy when he gets a bargain."

This makes him afraid to have any dissatisfaction, and he may even feel nervous for fear of failing his lover by answering the questions incorrectly.

But for emotionally healthy people, a person naturally yearns for the kind of person who has a rich core and is very self-loving.

What makes married life better is to feel the possibility of freedom, and that your career will no longer rise. After you get older, you can still experience the vastness and richness of each other's minds, instead of constant contraction and depression.

But Mai Lin was obviously not. Because of accounting problems, when Mai Lin kept repeating her worries, Li Xingliang blurted out that "anxiety is her true nature."

She is always caught in small anxiety storms. She says a lot of beautiful words, but the things she does are not beautiful. Anyone who accidentally falls into her field must listen to her virtuous Tao Te Ching. In the

program, Mai Lin was touched by her completely dedicated love several times.

The host asked her what is your biggest wish, and she said that she hoped that Li Xingliang could stand on a bigger stage.

After finishing speaking, she was about to cry.

0 years ago, at their wedding, the host asked her what is your definition of happiness.

She smiled sweetly and said, "Ryoko's happiness is my happiness."

Mailin’s friends said that she suffered a lot of pain after her marriage. She suffered a broken pubic bone when giving birth to her first child, experienced fetal arrest with her second child, and consumed herself with various trivial matters, which made her seem unhappy.

4 years have passed, and watching Mai Lin, who was still a bit like a hot girl from Shibuya, turn into an unconfident full-time wife, makes this answer somewhat sad.

The real issue that a woman has to face is how to truly feel the freedom and unhindered state of mind in a situation that seems to promote women’s independence and freedom.

Her life motivation should come from: what I want, not what her husband wants or what her children want.

When you want the other party to give you 80% evaluation and recognition, you must first give yourself 100% appreciation and embrace.

Sheep hopes girls know, dear, your mission is not to let men stand on a bigger stage, but whether you yourself are shining.

Of course, it is difficult for a woman who has experienced childbirth and parenting, even if she has some money like Mai Lin, to break out of the circle of life, let alone an ordinary woman.

Therefore, it is a situation worthy of being vigilant, that is, girls should never completely give up on themselves and ignore themselves.

The love and kindness from others, no matter how abundant it is, cannot make up for the losses in our own lives.