Regarding the relationship between Mai Lin and Li Xingliang, in the eyes of many people, they either break up or compromise, there is no third option! Breakup and Compromise From the audience's perspective, Mai Lin's character is too strong and she is used to planning Li Xinglian

Regarding the relationship between Mai Lin and Li Xingliang, in the eyes of many people, they either break up or compromise, there is no third option!

Breakup and Compromise

From the audience's perspective, Mai Lin's character is too strong and she is used to planning Li Xingliang's life. She is similar to a more traditional parent who hopes that her children can follow the path they have paved in advance.

Of course, different people will make different choices. Some children will indeed follow the steps, but there will always be people who seek to make their own decisions in life. Going step by step is actually compromising. In order to satisfy your parents or not to disobey your parents, you give up part of your right to make independent choices. If you seek to be the master of your own life, you will inevitably have conflicts with your parents that are difficult to resolve. When the conflicting relationship changes from parents and children to husband and wife, it means that the relationship has broken down to a certain extent.

Human nature is extremely complex

As for whether there is a third option, the answer is undoubtedly yes, but it can be encountered but not sought. Many people must have watched the TV series "Who is He" starring Zhang Yi. The prototype of the serial murderer that Zhang Yi has been tracking down is exactly Gao Chengyong, the principal culprit in the Baiyin City serial murder case . Gao Chengyong first committed a crime in 1988, and did not commit another crime until 1994. There was a gap of 6 years between the two cases, and the frequency of committing crimes was much lower than that of subsequent cases.

Investigating the reason, some psychologists have given explanations. When experiencing major life changes, it is indeed possible to change a person's personality and behavior patterns. Looking at Gao Chengyong's life trajectory, it is not difficult to find that his first child happened to be born in 1988. Perhaps it was this child that made Gao Chengyong temporarily put down his butcher knife.

I guess some people have to say, Mai Lin, Li Xingliang and Gao Chengyong are incompatible with each other, why are they so far apart?

The truth is very simple. Human nature is extremely complex and often difficult to see clearly. Take Gao Chengyong as an example. His actions have expanded the complexity of human nature and made it clear to everyone. Therefore, there is no need to dwell on Mai Lin's character or her seemingly twisted behavior pattern, and go straight to the root of her relationship crisis with Li Xingliang.

Mai Lin’s major life changes

Speaking of this, someone will definitely ask, what kind of major life changes can completely change Mai Lin?

There is no standard answer to this question. Everyone has different psychological endurance and different things they care about, so it is difficult to interpret the definition of major life changes.

The company I worked for previously had a female human resources specialist who had returned from overseas. Before she gave birth, her personality was as cold as ice, and her eyes were high above her head. She simply avoided strangers. However, after giving birth to the child, her temperament changed drastically. She suddenly became easy-going and even helpful, and she was completely different from the previous one.

Conclusion

Obviously, giving birth is a major life change for this female human resources specialist. For Mai Lin, this does not seem to be the case. Therefore, it is undoubtedly unpredictable whether it will completely change, especially develop in a positive direction. As mentioned above, this kind of thing is rare, and the appearance of the third option requires some luck.

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