Article | Mi Li Ma There was a video that went viral all over the Internet some time ago. The girl in the video was wearing a long skirt, looking elegant, and was chatting with foreign friends. Looking carefully again, I realized that this face looked familiar. It turne

Text by Mi Li Ma

Some time ago, there was a video that went viral all over the Internet. The girl in the video was wearing a long skirt, elegant and elegant, and was chatting with foreign friends.

Looking at it carefully, I realized that this face looked a bit familiar.

turned out to be the cute little girl in "Where Are We Going, Dad" - Wang Shiling.

I believe that anyone who has watched "Where Are We Going, Dad" will be deeply impressed by Wang Shiling.

Although she calls herself a little princess, in the whole show, she is the one who has the least princess disease.

When Wang Shiling and her father were assigned to the worst house, her father looked sad, but Wang Shiling was very happy because she saw strawberries growing in the yard.

When her father brings food that is hard to swallow, Wang Shiling can eat it with gusto and praise her father for the good food.

The most impressive thing is that when Wang Shiling went to her grandfather's house in the village to borrow ingredients, she held her grandfather's hand before leaving and said like a little adult: "Grandpa, you should be good at home!"

You know, Wang Shiling was only 3 years old at that time. It is really amazing that he can show such strong emotional management ability and high emotional intelligence at the age of 3 years old. The audience also praised them one after another, saying that Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun were so good at raising children.

But I don’t know since when, everyone’s attitude towards Wang Shiling has changed. Others accuse Wang Shiling of showing off her wealth online every day and creating an elite persona.

Now when I look at Wang Shiling’s recent photos, I realize that she really has the look of a socialite. Not to mention her fluent English expression, her confidence and calmness from the inside out, I really can’t help but want to praise her.

Some people may think that Wang Shiling’s temperament is all caused by money. As long as you are willing to spend money, no child can be generous.

But Mi Li’s mother felt that Wang Shiling’s ability to grow up so well was not entirely due to material conditions. The love she received was rarer and more precious.

I believe many people have seen such an old photo on the Internet:

In the photo, Li Xiang looks at his daughter with love, appreciation, and pride.

And Li Xiang’s love for his daughter is not only in his eyes, but also in every moment of his life.

When someone commented that Wang Shiling was fat, Li Xiang would explain for her: "The baby has some baby fat", and would praise Wang Shiling every day as "Why is she so beautiful?"

Later, when Wang Shiling grew up, she began to love beauty, so she did aerobics at home and ate diet meals every day. As a father, Wang Yuelun shed tears when he saw Wang Shiling suffering for her body.

When talking about her expectations for her daughter, Li Xiang did not set high goals for Wang Shiling. She just said:

"I think my daughter's friends in the future must be good friends from all over the world, and then she will understand people from all over the world. In order to let Wang Shiling find her own hobbies, Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun will also take Wang Shiling to experience various specialties, such as horse riding, painting, playing the piano, etc.

Of course, you must be able to do these. "Money ability" is indispensable, but the respect and spiritual support behind the material support are equally important.

What really makes everyone envious of Wang Shiling is not just the fact that she has money. More importantly, everyone still envies her for getting the unreserved love from her parents.

Do you still remember the recent hit "The Only Child in the Northeast"?

Not long ago, the only daughter in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai was the top reincarnation character in the eyes of the workers.

They have no worries about food and clothing, have a good family background, and have first-tier city resources that are unenviable.

Who would have known that not long after, the only child in the Northeast suddenly overtook others and became everyone's first choice for reincarnation.

Why do everyone envy the "only child in the Northeast"? Are you envious of their family’s wealth?

is obviously not. What everyone envies is just the love of Northeastern parents.

There is a saying in the Northeast: If parents in the Northeast go out to pick up a girl, the age range of the girl is so wide that it almost covers preschool to premenopausal.

In the Northeast, an only child in the Northeast can be pampered like a little princess by her parents as long as her parents are still alive.

The girl was sick, and the Northeastern father told the clerk, "The child is sick, don't give me medicine that is too bitter." The clerk gave the child oral liquid. Little did he know that the child in his father's mouth was already 28 years old. The child took oral liquid according to his weight, and had to make 6 bottles at a time.

A colleague invited the Northeastern father to go out for a drink. The Northeastern father said, "No, it's okay. The child has to cook for her at home." After asking, I found out that the child was already 30 years old.

Some netizens commented: The only way to escape the drinking game in the Northeast is to pick up the girl after the child has finished school.

Even when he was so drunk that he could no longer stand still, he never forgot to bring a row of Wahaha to his daughter.

Some northeastern fathers wear cotton-padded jackets and watch videos of their daughters choosing ice cream in the supermarket downstairs in the winter, just to choose a flavor they like.

There are even funnier ones.

The grandmother in Northeast China did not let her granddaughter move the table. She was afraid that she would be tired, so she asked her grandpa to move it. Granddaughter is 26, grandpa is 85.

A northeastern mother kept calling her 38-year-old daughter "Dabao" and asked her if she wanted to ride in a children's toy car.

What’s amazing is that although the only daughter in the Northeast was pampered since she was a child, she is not delicate when she grows up. Instead, she grows into an “eagle-like woman” with the personality of a leading heroine.

The reason is that children who have been loved since childhood have confidence and a sense of deservingness. They know that they have their parents and the entire family behind them, so they don't cause trouble, are not afraid of trouble, dare to think and do, and never treat themselves badly.

So you see, who said that raising children can only be rich? Ordinary families cannot provide a superior material life, but they can also give children full of love.

Take Song Jia for example. Although her family is modest, her parents doted on her and trained her to study music since she was a child. They even took her to study under the Yueqin master Mr. Feng Shaoxian, specializing in Liuqin.

It is precisely because she grew up in love that even though Song Jia's stardom has not been smooth and she has been just a little transparent in the entertainment industry for many years, she still has the spirit of refusing to admit defeat and dares to constantly challenge herself, and finally let the audience see She has a different style.

I am also an adopted daughter. This reminds me of Fu Yuanhui. She won the bronze medal at the Rio Olympics. When a reporter asked her if she felt regretful, she happily replied:

"I am already very satisfied."

The key is that Fu Yuanhuidoes not have a good mentality in one game, but has a good mentality every time. Even if her grades are sometimes unsatisfactory, she will not doubt herself or be discouraged.

This powerful core is closely related to the encouragement of Fu Yuanhui’s parents since childhood.

In a variety show, Fu Yuanhui said that the three words her parents often say to her are:

"You are the best!"

"You are the best!"

"You are the best!" What a genius!”

The next time Fu Yuanhui fell into a trough, she would tell herself the same thing.

and Fu’s parents’ Weibo posts are all content to encourage their daughter, and each post is full of emotional value.

On Weibo, her parents described Fu Yuanhui not as a champion, but as tolerant and innocent. What they saw was not only Fu Yuanhui's achievements, but also her hardships along the way.

In the program "My Girl", many people saw Fu Yuanhui's family life.

Fu Yuanhui is already in her twenties, and Fu’s father will get up early in the morning to make breakfast for her, and even carefully make egg cakes into two different flavors.

After sending Fu Yuanhui to the swimming pool, Fu’s father waited at the door for Fu Yuanhui to finish training.

As parents, they know that they cannot share Fu Yuanhui's pressure, nor can they provide much material or technical support. What they can do is to take good care of Fu Yuanhui in daily life and give her full of love.

It is precisely because of this love that Fu Yuanhui lives a straightforward and magnanimous life. This "prehistoric girl" always has a sunny and optimistic look, shining brightly no matter where she goes.

Of course, parents’ love for their children is not limited to the trivial matters in daily life. This love is particularly profound and selfless in the choices and sacrifices between life and death.

Recently, the story of a burned mother has been touching the hearts of netizens. A mother in Zhuji, Zhejiang was taking care of her children and cooking at home when a gas explosion suddenly occurred. The huge fireball caused severe burns, with 65% of her body burned. But she endured the huge pain, turned back after escaping, and carried the child back to a safe area.

During the observation and treatment in the ICU ward, my mother expressed many times that she did not want to be treated and wanted to go home. In order to encourage his wife, the husband shows her the videos of the children on his mobile phone every day. It is also because of his love for the children that the mother has supported her until now.

Seeing this, Mi Li’s mother couldn’t help but think of a comment she had read before:

“Ordinary people do not have as good conditions as rich people, but there are still things they can have.

For example, clear love, proud eyes, loud praises, intimate names, a circle of friends to show off from time to time, the confidence of "Mom and Dad will always be your backing", and a childhood where you don't have to worry about breaking dishes.

Do these require a lot of money? No, just a lot of love. ”

Yes, we have to admit that money can indeed solve many problems, but there is no need to overexaggerate the importance of material things. Real poverty does not mean a small house or old clothes, but a lack of love or even respect.

Please believe that it is better to raise the poor with love.