Chaozhou News Client reporter Lu Fang
The movie " Determination to Run away " adapted from the real-life story of 50-year-old aunt Su Min's self-driving trip is directed by Yin Lichuan, written by Ami and Yin Lichuan, Yongmei, Jiang Wu, Wu Qian , starring Zhang Benyu is currently in theaters across the country. The popularity and reputation of the
movie have continued to rise since its release, and the box office fell in a single day on the third day of its release. Douban scored 8.6, ranking first in domestic female-themed movies in the past ten years and first in domestic feature films in 2024. At the same time, the film was successfully shortlisted for the "Golden Silk Road Award" competition unit of the 11th Silk Road Film Festival.
"The Determination to Run Away" tells the story of how an ordinary woman searches for and defends herself. Li Hong, played by Yong Mei, like Su Min, spent half her life working hard in her role as daughter, wife, and mother, and finally put everything aside and embarked on her own path.
Some comments believe that Li Hong’s departure is a gradual awakening of herself and a demonstration of female power. Her family life is representative, and the courage and courage she displayed brought encouragement and inspiration to many women with similar experiences. In the movie
, as the eldest daughter and only daughter in the family, Li Hong took on the responsibilities of the family very early and was forced to give up the opportunity to go to college. At that time, she was eager to escape from her original family and pinned all her hopes on marriage. But after entering into marriage, she gradually realized that the love and marriage she once longed for had become a prison that imprisoned her. She was trapped there for most of her life, working all day long and unable to escape.
Her husband, Sun Dayong (played by Jiang Wu), is bossy, indifferent, and fussy about her. He is always finding faults and blaming, with no trace of his wife's contribution. Sun Dayong's accusation against Li Hong was "unreasonable". Sun Dayong's so-called "reason" is that the wife should take care of her husband's face, undertake all housework without complaint, and it is best not to raise any personal demands. The two had several disputes, and Li Hong even resorted to cutting herself with a knife to break the doubts, belittling, and depression caused by her husband.
At the end of September 2020, the 56-year-old Su Min, the prototype character of the movie, finally decided to "run away from home." This seemingly impulsive and decisive move was actually "premeditated for a long time." A family life she no longer wanted to continue.
In a recent conversation with Yongmei, Su Min said that when she saw the scene in the movie where Li Hong mutilated herself, it felt like she was back to that day and she would shed tears.
"(That is) people seemed to have no hope for life at that time, and the only thing they thought about was relief. I really wanted to die at that time, and Teacher Jiang Wu played it very well. He didn't understand it, and it didn't seem like it was a big deal. I think there's something wrong with my brain. In fact, I've studied whether it hurts if I jump off the building or if I stab myself with a knife. The scar is still itchy. I never mentioned this before, and I didn’t dare to tell anyone. I’m relieved now, and that kind of life will never happen again in my future life.”
Su Min after running away. Start a domestic self-driving trip with one person and one car. In order to subsidize travel expenses, Su Min posted her experiences online and started a self-media business. Unexpectedly, the number of video clicks and fans increased rapidly. What was even more unexpected was that her experience was made into a movie.
Su Min is sixty years old this year and is still on the road. She was once troubled by traditional concepts, believing that a woman's patience was a virtue, but after running away, she saw the truth clearly.
"What (Yong Mei) said in the movie is particularly true, 'I thought I could endure it for the rest of my life, but can you really endure it for the rest of your life? It's really impossible.' In the past, maybe I felt You must love others first before loving yourself, but now I feel that if you don’t even love yourself, what qualifications do you have to love others?”
Su Min said: “I have made more friends since I traveled by car, and I have gained a better understanding of life. There is another layer of (new) consciousness. As a human being in this world, why can’t I have the same things that others can have? Others can make their own decisions, why can’t I.Everyone only has a few decades in this world. During these decades, we must be kind to ourselves, cherish our lives, be positive and optimistic, and live our lives well every day. This is what we should do in the future. ”
Some netizens left a message to Su Min: “I envy you that you can drive. We don’t have the ability to go out even if we want to.” We are scattered in China's villages and towns. We are other people's wives, mothers, and daughters. We cannot escape and can only continue to endure. "
Su Min encouraged everyone: "Since "Determination to Run" was announced to be released to everyone on September 15, I have received more messages from friends. Many people have shared with me their experiences of female elders around them, and they are all different. But similar. There are also more voices of encouragement for me. I hope to see more beautiful scenery through my lens and meet each other on the road one day. In fact, the opportunity to choose the direction of life is always in your own hands. No matter how old you are, you can live a happy life for yourself. "
After the release of "Determination to Run Away", the audience turned to tap water. Some viewers said: "It would be great to have a movie like this. I can take my mother to see it. Maybe she can live for herself for one day and not be so hard. The land left. Some netizens said, "Always support mothers and live for themselves." "Women must not be restrained and live for themselves freely and freely." Just as Su Min said: Everyone's ultimate destination is themselves.
(Pictures from the film’s official Weibo)
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Some netizens left a message to Su Min: “I envy you that you can drive. We don’t have the ability to go out even if we want to.” We are scattered in China's villages and towns. We are other people's wives, mothers, and daughters. We cannot escape and can only continue to endure. "
Su Min encouraged everyone: "Since "Determination to Run" was announced to be released to everyone on September 15, I have received more messages from friends. Many people have shared with me their experiences of female elders around them, and they are all different. But similar. There are also more voices of encouragement for me. I hope to see more beautiful scenery through my lens and meet each other on the road one day. In fact, the opportunity to choose the direction of life is always in your own hands. No matter how old you are, you can live a happy life for yourself. "
After the release of "Determination to Run Away", the audience turned to tap water. Some viewers said: "It would be great to have a movie like this. I can take my mother to see it. Maybe she can live for herself for one day and not be so hard. The land left. Some netizens said, "Always support mothers and live for themselves." "Women must not be restrained and live for themselves freely and freely." Just as Su Min said: Everyone's ultimate destination is themselves.
(Pictures from the film’s official Weibo)
(Source: Chao News Client)
For more exciting information, please download the "Jimu News" client in the application market. Please do not reprint without authorization. News clues are welcome and will be accepted once they are accepted. Pay. 24-hour reporting hotline: 027-86777777. Chaozhou News Client reporter Lu Fang The movie " Determination to Run away " adapted from the real-life story of 50-year-old aunt Su Min's self-driving trip is directed by Yin Lichuan, written by Ami and Yin Lichuan, Yongmei, Jiang Wu, Wu Qian , starring Zhang Benyu is currently in theaters across the country. The popularity and reputation of the movie have continued to rise since its release, and the box office fell in a single day on the third day of its release. Douban scored 8.6, ranking first in domestic female-themed movies in the past ten years and first in domestic feature films in 2024. At the same time, the film was successfully shortlisted for the "Golden Silk Road Award" competition unit of the 11th Silk Road Film Festival. "The Determination to Run Away" tells the story of how an ordinary woman searches for and defends herself. Li Hong, played by Yong Mei, like Su Min, spent half her life working hard in her role as daughter, wife, and mother, and finally put everything aside and embarked on her own path. Some comments believe that Li Hong’s departure is a gradual awakening of herself and a demonstration of female power. Her family life is representative, and the courage and courage she displayed brought encouragement and inspiration to many women with similar experiences. In the movie , as the eldest daughter and only daughter in the family, Li Hong took on the responsibilities of the family very early and was forced to give up the opportunity to go to college. At that time, she was eager to escape from her original family and pinned all her hopes on marriage. But after entering into marriage, she gradually realized that the love and marriage she once longed for had become a prison that imprisoned her. She was trapped there for most of her life, working all day long and unable to escape. Her husband, Sun Dayong (played by Jiang Wu), is bossy, indifferent, and fussy about her. He is always finding faults and blaming, with no trace of his wife's contribution. Sun Dayong's accusation against Li Hong was "unreasonable". Sun Dayong's so-called "reason" is that the wife should take care of her husband's face, undertake all housework without complaint, and it is best not to raise any personal demands. The two had several disputes, and Li Hong even resorted to cutting herself with a knife to break the doubts, belittling, and depression caused by her husband. At the end of September 2020, the 56-year-old Su Min, the prototype character of the movie, finally decided to "run away from home." This seemingly impulsive and decisive move was actually "premeditated for a long time." A family life she no longer wanted to continue. In a recent conversation with Yongmei, Su Min said that when she saw the scene in the movie where Li Hong mutilated herself, it felt like she was back to that day and she would shed tears. "(That is) people seemed to have no hope for life at that time, and the only thing they thought about was relief. I really wanted to die at that time, and Teacher Jiang Wu played it very well. He didn't understand it, and it didn't seem like it was a big deal. I think there's something wrong with my brain. In fact, I've studied whether it hurts if I jump off the building or if I stab myself with a knife. The scar is still itchy. I never mentioned this before, and I didn’t dare to tell anyone. I’m relieved now, and that kind of life will never happen again in my future life.” Su Min after running away. Start a domestic self-driving trip with one person and one car. In order to subsidize travel expenses, Su Min posted her experiences online and started a self-media business. Unexpectedly, the number of video clicks and fans increased rapidly. What was even more unexpected was that her experience was made into a movie. Su Min is sixty years old this year and is still on the road. She was once troubled by traditional concepts, believing that a woman's patience was a virtue, but after running away, she saw the truth clearly. "What (Yong Mei) said in the movie is particularly true, 'I thought I could endure it for the rest of my life, but can you really endure it for the rest of your life? It's really impossible.' In the past, maybe I felt You must love others first before loving yourself, but now I feel that if you don’t even love yourself, what qualifications do you have to love others?” Su Min said: “I have made more friends since I traveled by car, and I have gained a better understanding of life. There is another layer of (new) consciousness. As a human being in this world, why can’t I have the same things that others can have? Others can make their own decisions, why can’t I.Everyone only has a few decades in this world. During these decades, we must be kind to ourselves, cherish our lives, be positive and optimistic, and live our lives well every day. This is what we should do in the future. ” Some netizens left a message to Su Min: “I envy you that you can drive. We don’t have the ability to go out even if we want to.” We are scattered in China's villages and towns. We are other people's wives, mothers, and daughters. We cannot escape and can only continue to endure. " Su Min encouraged everyone: "Since "Determination to Run" was announced to be released to everyone on September 15, I have received more messages from friends. Many people have shared with me their experiences of female elders around them, and they are all different. But similar. There are also more voices of encouragement for me. I hope to see more beautiful scenery through my lens and meet each other on the road one day. In fact, the opportunity to choose the direction of life is always in your own hands. No matter how old you are, you can live a happy life for yourself. " After the release of "Determination to Run Away", the audience turned to tap water. Some viewers said: "It would be great to have a movie like this. I can take my mother to see it. Maybe she can live for herself for one day and not be so hard. The land left. Some netizens said, "Always support mothers and live for themselves." "Women must not be restrained and live for themselves freely and freely." Just as Su Min said: Everyone's ultimate destination is themselves. (Pictures from the film’s official Weibo) (Source: Chao News Client) For more exciting information, please download the "Jimu News" client in the application market. Please do not reprint without authorization. News clues are welcome and will be accepted once they are accepted. 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