With the broadcast of the variety show "My Girl", the daily lives of several female artists and the way they get along with their parents have been revealed to the public. Among them, Liu Yan's mother has aroused heated discussions among netizens because of her "suppressive education". Netizens commented that such a family is so suffocating!
Usually we think Liu Yan is beautiful and has a good personality, but she seems to be useless in the eyes of her mother. In a variety show, Liu Yan's mother directly complained about her daughter: "Why is she still a leftover girl? It's a big problem, really."
In the show, No matter what Liu Yan does, in the eyes of his own mother, everything is flawed and she is "disgusted" without any cover-up.
When cutting a piece of fruit, she would say "I'm not good at cutting."
There were a lot of things at home, and she looked unhappy and it was "a mess." When Liu Yan put on a cute headband, she had to add, "It's so ugly."
If you see your daughter eating something off the chopping board, you should also blame her. But it's not because I'm afraid that my daughter will get sick from eating dirty food, but because she's inelegant and embarrassed in front of the camera.
Liu Yan was very clear-headed when talking about marriage and love with her friends. She did not reject marriage, but she was not willing to improvise. Now I am in very good condition, with a good job and financial independence. I am living like a fairy.
But according to her mother, not getting married at the age of 44 is the biggest "sin". Not only did she say that Liu Yan was an "elderly leftover woman," she also said bluntly: "Now that she is so old, the only way to find her is an old man."
Liu Yan also admitted with a wry smile in the interview: "I grew up in a repressive education. "My parents never think you are good enough."
Liu Yan also said in the interview that he envied the family of another person who participated in the show, Lu Yuxiao.
Lu Yuxiao’s family is a typical encouraging education. Her parents will praise her for everything she does, and she is praised by netizens as the most enviable family atmosphere.
Liu Yan’s mother did not save her daughter any face in front of outsiders, and spoke mercilessly on her daughter’s pain points. This kind of "suppressive education" made netizens angry and felt sorry for Liu Yan.
Burning a prairie fire and killing the chicken: I feel sorry for how Liu Yan can be outstanding after growing up under such an education.
Fei Chen: Sometimes mom’s words are the most vicious.
Little Bagel Breeder: She really made me believe it. It comes from my heart. She seems to be an old lady who is hard to talk to and very picky.
st.lu: This is called super insensitivity. You are completely unaware of your attacks on your daughter, and you are attacking with every word, every sentence, and every look in your eyes.
Huang Zhiren: Mom is so suffocated.
Many netizens also sympathized with Liu Yan. They said that most people of this generation are like this.
xin: Not only her mother was like this, almost all mothers of that era were like this, so I have to be open-minded.
Unknown person: Liu Yan’s mother is over 70 years old. Due to the limitations of people of that era, people still speak mercifully and talk about things when they have something to say. Liu Yan doesn’t want to be on this show and let people attack her mother.
Qingbao: It’s quite true. I am dependent on you and disgusted at the same time. This feeling is too familiar. I understand that every generation is a victim. I can’t help but suffocate and can only stay away.
Liu Yan responded to
html for the first time. On August 8, Liu Yan responded for the first time to previous questions about mother’s suppressive education during a live broadcast with Yi Lijing.
Liu Yan said that some clips were edited together, making it easy for people to criticize their mother. My mother is over 70 years old and now she doesn’t dare to go out for fear of being thrown rotten eggs or something like that. She said her biggest hope now is to get her mother out of the house.
Liu Yan also said that he is actually quite calm about many things.
Yi Lijing also said that people of my mother’s generation practice frustration education.
Source: Morning News Lu Jingjun compiled from "My Girl", Li Video, and netizen comments
