On July 28, actor Yao Chen shared a recent photo of his daughter Jasmine on Weibo. Jasmine won first place in the "Overseas Peach and Plum Cup" with her group dance "Hello Ten Minutes" and solo dance "Pakita" in the ballet competition. Award, "AEDC" Asian Dance Competition Silver Award and "PDE" International Dance Beijing Division Gold Award.
Not long ago, Yao Chen also posted pictures of helping his son Xiaotuo pack his luggage. Little Potato is about to embark on a week of outdoor adventure, and Yao Chen thoughtfully teaches his son how to organize the necessities.
Looking through Yao Chen's Weibo, in addition to promoting his new drama, he also supports his husband Cao Yu's works, and it also shows the daily life of a family of four.
Recall that Yao Chen was involved in a divorce scandal, which caused a lot of criticism on the Internet. Nowadays, the happiness of a family of four is really enviable, and it also fulfills the saying "it takes leaving the wrong to meet the right."
In 2005, Yao Chen became famous with his role as Guo Furong in "Wulin Gaiden". This year, Yao Chen was 28 years old, the third year after she graduated from Beijing Film Academy. At that time, she was already married to Ling Xiaosu.
Speaking of the marriage of Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu, it was once a good story in the entertainment industry.
The two are classmates at the Beijing Film Academy. From acting as a couple together to establishing a relationship in their sophomore year, and then getting married after graduation, they satisfied people's longing for "talented men and beautiful women" and "campus love".
Ling Xiaosu has a professional background. His father is a photographer, and his mother is a director and screenwriter at Xi'an Film Studio, which also brought him good film and television drama resources. Yao Chen was born in an ordinary worker's family. In order to realize her dream, she has to work harder.
Before "Wulin Gaiden", Ling Xiaosu was more famous than Yao Chen and had many movies to film. After "Wulin Gaiden", Yao Chen's fame rose rapidly, but at this time Ling Xiaosu was not so satisfied, and the response to his works was mediocre.
In 2008, "Latent" was broadcast, and Yao Chen won the Huading Award for Leading Actress at the TV Ceremony for her role as Cuiping. The gap between the two in their careers seemed to be getting wider and wider.
What followed was not just congratulations, but also a lot of malicious speculation. Some people even reported that the two were in crisis in their marriage, that they were estranged, cheating, living happily together... and other speculations, which plunged the two into a storm of public opinion.
But the two of them didn't care. In 2009, the two starred in the TV series "Days with the Stewardess" as a response to public speculation.
originally wanted to make Ling Xiaosu popular, but it still did not make Ling Xiaosu's acting career cause waves, and the outside world's comments on the marriage relationship between the two have never stopped.
In January 2011, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu announced their divorce, which became a blockbuster in the entertainment industry. You know, not long ago, the two actively clarified that their relationship was stable.
Regarding the collapse of this marriage relationship, some people sympathized with Ling Xiaosu, while others sympathized with Yao Chen. As for the reason why the two finally parted ways, some said it was an affair during marriage, some said it was a mismatch in their career development, some said that the relationship was exhausted by spending too much time together, some said that one party was stronger, and some said that the two were not. The relationship between children is getting colder and colder...
However, only the parties involved know the real reason, but both parties were pushed to the forefront of public opinion. Both were deeply injured in the war of public opinion, and even could not get rid of the negative news for a long time afterwards. Impact.
For the person involved, this was not just the end of a relationship, the two of them also went from being the closest partners to almost strangers.
Shortly after the divorce, the two formed new families. Ling Xiaosu remarried Tang Yifei, whom she met while filming the TV series "Heart is Like Iron", and Yao Chen also married photographer Cao Yu, whom she met while filming the movie "Love is Excellent".
Both of them have found their own rhythm of life and new direction in life, which can be regarded as saying goodbye to the past.
At first, some people were not optimistic about the marriage between Yao Chen and Cao Yu. They felt that the status of the two was very different. One was a big star and the other was just a photographer, and their appearance did not match them well.
But then I discovered that Cao Yu is a very famous photographer in the industry. He became famous at a young age and won the Golden Horse Award for Best Photographer at the age of 30. Moreover, Cao Yu is a very stable person, and may be more suitable to be a husband at heart.
There is an interesting story about the marriage of the two. Cao Yu's mother was very optimistic about Yao Chen as her daughter-in-law, but Yao Chen was afraid of getting married again because of a failed marriage. After learning about the situation, Cao Yu's mother asked Cao Yu to write a letter of commitment. Faced with a sincere family, Yao Chen was very moved and decided to get married to Cao Yu.
The content of the guarantee letter is as follows:
First, after marriage, the financial power of the family will be managed by Yao Chen.
Second, the house and car in the family are all settled in Yao Chen’s name.
Third, after marriage, Cao Yu must be devoted to Yao Chen. If divorced, , Cao Yu needs to cleanse himself and leave the house.
The two held a grand wedding in the Queenstown Church in New Zealand. After the marriage, Cao's mother did not hesitate to dote on Yao Chen.
Yao Chen, who had been pursuing his dream of acting before the age of 30, longed for the warmth of family life after marrying Cao Yu. After getting married, she gave birth to her son "Little Potato" and daughter "Little Jasmine" without hesitation, and started a happy family of four.
And Cao Yu has not only achieved certain achievements in film art, but also actively plays the role of a good husband in the family.
During Yao Chen's pregnancy, the two of them went to a restaurant to eat, and many people took photos. Cao Yu was angry with the person who took the photos, but he just wanted his wife to eat quietly. After all, as a pregnant woman, eating is important for both adults and the baby in her belly.
Yao Chen was afraid that the news about Cao Yu's anger would be reported and someone would slander him, so he took the initiative to explain and apologize to the reporter with a big belly.
On weekdays, Cao Yu also likes to use his camera to record every moment of his family. Yao Chen was going to celebrate his birthday, so Cao Yu bought a photo album a month in advance, selected photos and carefully adjusted the colors of the photos, just to surprise Yao Chen.
The two take care of each other in life and support each other in their careers. Cao Yu became the first photographer to win three awards: the Golden Horse Award, the Golden Image Award, and the Golden Rooster Award. This was inseparable from Yao Chen's support. After getting married, every time he went on stage to receive an award, Cao Yu never forgot to thank his wife Yao Chen for her support. Encouragement and support.
The warm and restrained marriage life of Yao Chen and Cao Yu makes many people envious, and it satisfies people's definition of "quiet years" and "long flowing water".
Married life not only made Yao Chen feel the warmth of family, but also seemed to transform her from a career maniac into a petite woman.
Or maybe after experiencing the unhappiness of his first marriage, Yao Chen cherishes his current happiness. I gave birth to 2 children in 5 years, a son and a daughter. I can be called a "winner in life".
After having a child, Yao Chen's focus in life also changed.
She chose to return to her family more. She even stopped filming for a few years and chose to take care of her children at home.
was once again exposed to the public eye when she narrated the embarrassment and confusion of a middle-aged actress in "Starry Sky Speech".
was forced to put his career on hold because he chose to have a family. When he wanted to return to his career, he found that his performance space was becoming more and more limited.
In the choice of "career or family", Yao Chen seems to have no choice. However, Yao Chen never gave up his persistence in his career.
After completing her responsibilities as a mother, Yao Chen still has to return to her beloved acting career, and her husband Cao Yu also supports her 100% and respects her choice, just like Yao Chen has always supported Cao Yu's career.
Subsequently, whether it was the movie "Find You" starring with Ma Yili, Su Mingyu in "Everything is Good", or the mother in "Rock and Roll", Yao Chen continued to break through himself and broaden his acting career.
also admitted that her husband and two children gave her love and freedom, as well as the source of inspiration and motivation for her creation.
After years of experience, Yao Chen has changed from a carefree girl to a gentle, intellectual and confident woman. She has gained tranquility and security, which also laid the foundation for her to create more female characters.
Just like what Yao Chen said in his speech "There are various situations in life, choose what you can afford, and bear what you choose." , whether it is marriage or career, Yao Chen has always had his own choice.
Author of this article | Editor in charge of Lemon Summer
| Planning of Blue Orange
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