Speaking of Tang Hede, everyone's first reaction may be "the man who loves Leslie Cheung the most", but now this man with the "affectionate aura" has been judged!
The reason is that some fans discovered that Tang Hede was sweet with his new love while carrying the "deep love setting" of never forgetting his brother.
The two of them lived in Leslie Cheung's former residence, spent Leslie Cheung's inheritance, and raised two children suspected of being surrogate mothers.
Tang Hede also allowed Xin Huan and Xin Huan's friends to be irritating towards Leslie Cheung.
fans were so angry that they went to Tang Hede's social account and posted a short article criticizing and mocking him as Lin Shengbin 2.0.
This incident caused a big fuss on Weibo. Finally, Tang Hede came out to respond:
had moved out of Leslie Cheung’s former residence more than ten years ago, and there was no surrogacy. The relationship with the new love picked out by netizens was a non-committed friendship. The two were independent individuals. .
Tang and Zhang have been in love for 20 years. After Leslie Cheung's death, almost all the messages on Tang Hede's social accounts were in memory of "the man is gone".
Everyone once thought that Tang Hede would spend the rest of his life holding on to the memories of Leslie Cheung.
I didn’t expect that the expectations of the “widow” were shattered, and netizens would tear him apart so ugly.
is really sad.
If Leslie Cheung was still here, he would definitely not want to see his fans treating his beloved like this.
Tang Hede, as his name suggests, is as elegant and graceful as a crane. He is 3 years younger than Leslie Cheung and has known Leslie Cheung since childhood.
Their love began at a cocktail party when Leslie Cheung was 26 years old and Tang Hede was 24 years old.
At that time, Leslie Cheung was a dazzling new film and television star, and Tang Hede had just returned from studying abroad and was engaged in financial business in a well-known bank.
reunited at a beautiful age. With just one glance, the two recognized each other, and love began to sprout.
Leslie Cheung has a sensitive and delicate personality. He is also engaged in the art industry and is rich in emotions. Sometimes it is inevitable that he will get emotional.
Tang Hede is steady, calm and gentle, and his way of dealing with others makes people feel like spring breeze.
are two people who complement each other exactly.
Regarding the chemical reaction between these two people, "The Time of Leslie Cheung" describes it this way:
Wherever he (Tang Hede) is present, there will always be a warm feeling, which can create a magical feeling. Vibe man.
However, every time they met, Tang Sheng was like a breeze in the world, calm and steady, which was in sharp contrast to Leslie (Leslie Leslie)'s character who was as quick and enthusiastic as boiling a kettle.
Leslie Cheung has said to others more than once: Mr. Tang is very good and he is worth it. When
was at his lowest point, he encountered a lot of rumors, but it was Tang Hede who accompanied him and comforted him. When
encountered difficulties, Tang Hede used all his savings to help him tide over the difficulties.
Later, the famous "Photo of Holding Hands of the Century" caused a sensation in the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
In the blurred night, Leslie Cheung led Tang Hede and walked in front.
reporters followed.
Tang Hede was worried about causing rumors and instinctively wanted to withdraw his hand.
Leslie Cheung, however, held on to Tang Hede tightly and insisted on moving forward.
Leslie Cheung once said:
"The only thing I am certain of in my life is that my lover loves me too."
On January 4, 1997, on the brightly lit concert stage, Leslie Cheung was dressed in a black dress, with gentle but firm eyes. , revealing his lover Tang Hede to everyone.
He said: The two most important people in life are his mother and his beloved friend, Mr. Tang.
The social atmosphere at that time was not as open as it is now. It is really rare to have such courage.
They had been together for 15 years that year.
The next year, Leslie Cheung handed over all his net worth to Tang Hede.
Tang Hede quit his job and helped Leslie Cheung take care of various businesses.
Looking back at this decision now, doesn’t it mean “to entrust Zhongfang and spend the rest of his life together”?
In the same year, Leslie Cheung’s mother passed away.
Tang Hede also came at the funeral. As his godson, he helped take care of things and sent his mother off together.
Later, Leslie Cheung became ill, and Tang Hede took him around to seek medical advice.
Every time Leslie Cheung found it painful to take medicine, Tang Hede would patiently comfort him like coaxing a child, "It's not painful, be good..."
Unfortunately, he still failed to keep his lover.
In 2003, Leslie Cheung couldn't bear the torture of the disease and jumped from a high building.
From 1982 to 2003, two people who had been in love for more than 20 years were separated from each other.
In Leslie Cheung's obituary, Tang Hede ranked first in the relatives column as "beloved". Their 20-year relationship was unanimously respected by relatives and friends.
Tang Hede grew old almost overnight and personally took care of his lover's death.
At the funeral, he was supported and showed up. He no longer had his usual calmness and grace. He cried out with tears in his eyes, "Azai, don't leave..."
It was extremely moving. Losing Leslie Cheung hurt his heart more than anyone else.
This was the beginning of his more than 20 years of loneliness and longing.
After the funeral, Leslie Cheung's ashes were not buried. There are several theories about this. Some people say that because Tang Hede was too reluctant to give up, he kept keeping his brother's ashes in their old residence.
There is another saying that Leslie Cheung’s wish during his lifetime was to be buried in a place without any religious influence, but there was no cemetery in Hong Kong that met the requirements, so he kept it at home.
After Leslie Cheung passed away, Tang Hede stayed at their old residence, and occasionally the media photographed him.
He lives alone.
's lonely figure floated in the night like a shadow.
Looking through his social account, it is full of memories of his lost lover:
"Spring is great, if you are still here."
"There is this scene on the ceiling at night, and I can't turn off the projector in my heart."
" The bond between life and death is broad, and I will tell you that I will grow old together with you."
I can't bear to read it.
He has passed away, and life needs to look forward.
In 2010, Tang Hede, who had been waiting alone for 8 years, moved out of the residence where he and Leslie Cheung lived.
Counting the time, he has moved away for more than ten years.
The claim that he and his new love lived in Leslie Cheung’s former residence are purely rumors.
On the 10th anniversary of Leslie Cheung's death, Tang Hede wrote his thoughts: "Ten years of life and death are so vast, without thinking about it, it is unforgettable. The water passes by like this, and I don't give up day and night. Life is impermanent, but love is eternal. Let us "Continue to love Leslie Cheung."
Some people say that it is shameful for Tang Hede to be in love with others while being in love.
Others say that Tang Hede should not spend Leslie Cheung's legacy on newcomers.
But the fact is that Tang Hede is 65 years old. He spent a long time in the past dealing with the grief of losing his lover and getting rid of his memories.
It is his basic right as a human being to continue living and find a new partner.
During his lifetime, Leslie Cheung had handed over all his property to Tang Hede for management. Due to emotions and reasons, Tang Hede had every reason to obtain and freely control this part of the inheritance.
Moreover, as an amateur, he has no obligation to report to any fans whether he is in love or getting married and having children.
Rather than saying that Tang Hede pretends to be affectionate and makes people hateful, it is better to say that Tang Hede, a real ordinary person, cannot satisfy the fans' perfect "affectionate" fantasy.
Because if you love someone deeply, you don’t need to sacrifice the rest of your life.
He is free.
Author of this article | Ju Xixi
Editor | Blue Orange
Planning | Blue Orange
