"My Girl" is on the air again, this time 4 guests are invited, each with their own characteristics.
Actually, the program team is pretty good at choosing guests for this episode. It vividly expresses the pain of modern women, and every guest represents a kind of pain.
Yu Wenwen - Her parents are divorced. She seems to be very independent, but in fact her parents have their own lives and have nothing to do with her.
Zhu Wangwang (Li Jiaqi’s assistant) - Working in fast-paced Shanghai, the pressure brought by the workplace.
Lu Yuxiao - She has a loving family, but when she is in the entertainment industry, she has to bear some pressure from public opinion.
Liu Yan——My mother is a teacher, and she is considered to be a suppressive education at home. There were all kinds of rumors in the entertainment industry when I was working outside, but I survived every storm with strength.
Today we will tell the story of Liu Yan and her mother.
Liu Yan was born in Hengyang City in 1980 to a not-so-rich family. At that time, it was a special period of promoting family planning, and Liu Yan was the second child in the family.
The parents hesitated again and again, and finally the father decided to pay a fine of 250 yuan to give birth to the daughter. When she was a child, her family was not well off, but her father always responded to requests and pampered Liu Yan.
During junior high school, Liu Yan studied in Guangzhou and lived with her cousin. After graduating from middle school, Liu Yan worked as a nurse in the army. When I was working as a nurse at the age of 15 or 6, I saw all kinds of bodies. Professional knowledge told her that the difference between men and women was just different organs.
17-year-old Liu Yan participated in a model competition in Guangdong and later entered a radio station as a host. She gave up her career as a nurse and chose a career she loved. After
, Liu Yan participated in the selection of Hunan TV Station and became the host of Hunan Public Channel. Liu Yan did not forget to study while working and obtained a bachelor's degree in Chinese language and literature from Hunan Normal University.
Liu Yan thought that it would be good to live like this. But her mother's illness disrupted her peaceful life.
My mother has rectal cancer and needs money for surgery. Liu Yan wanted to improve her mother's medical conditions, so she participated in the Cat Man Host Competition. Because if you win, you can get a bonus of 10,000 yuan. Liu Yan wanted to get the bonus, but Liu Yan's ranking ended in seventh place.
In the end, Liu Yan pulled all the connections and collected the surgery fee. The cancer cells must have been moved by Liu Yan and were under control. At this time the whole family was relieved.
Opportunities always come to those who are prepared. Although he did not win the prize, Liu Yan was discovered. Beijing-based Enlight Media gave Liu Yan a contract. Because he was leaving home to go to Beijing, Liu Yan was a little hesitant.
In the end, her mother, who was lying in the hospital bed, supported her and allowed her to pursue her dreams in the world. My mother said: She has been talented in literature and art since she was a child, so don’t let her literary and artistic talents go to waste. The house
rented in Liuyan, Beijing, is the closest to the company. It is on standby 24 hours a day so that he can get to the company as soon as possible.
Liu Yan made her screen debut in 2007. Although it was a guest role, it was still her first film and television work.
In fact, life in Beijing was not easy for Liu Yan. Liu Yan, who was almost 30 years old, did her own makeup, rented beautiful clothes, and had no car or house. After hosting the press conference, he still had to fight for a taxi with fans.
At first, many directors disrespected her and scolded her for being a bad host. But thinking about my mother who was sick at home, I still endured it.
Later, I also discovered a problem with my body. There was a tumor in my chest.
It happened that "Men's Wear" magazine found Liu Yan at this time. Liu Yan wanted to leave some of the most beautiful looks for himself, so he took the magazine cover.
Later it was confirmed that the tumor was benign and there was no need to remove the breast. I was very happy. And these sexy magazine covers made Liu Yan visible to the public.
Liu Yan suddenly realized that her popularity came from her sexiness, so she took the sexy route.
Until the wedding in 2016, Liu Yan felt that she had to change her style.
Liu Yan and Bao Beier have been in the same company for more than ten years, and they are relatively familiar friends.
When Bao Beier got married, Liu Yan was the bridesmaid. Perhaps because of the alcohol, the groomsmen grabbed Liu Yan's hands and feet and prepared to throw her into the swimming pool.
At this time, Jia Ling came to the rescue, allowing Liu Yan to avoid being exposed. Jia Ling was like Liu Yan's life-saving straw, hugged tightly. When Jia Ling turned to look at Liu Yan, a piece of her chest was exposed. Jia Ling simply sat in front of Liu Yan to block all the cameras and wedding guests.
Jia Ling took out the red envelope and said, "Isn't this what red envelopes can solve?" to resolve the farce.
After the wedding, photos leaked and the groomsmen’s character was questioned.
Later, Bao Beier told the whole process of his wedding incident in an interview. He repeatedly emphasized that he and his groomsmen did not "molest" the bridesmaids.
And Bao Beier repeated that no reporters were invited to the wedding. The wedding was completely confidential, and someone secretly posted the popular video.
These words pushed Liu Yan to the forefront, causing Liu Yan to be criticized for "using other people's wedding hype to gain sympathy."
Liu Yan did not make any announcement for a long time, and later Liu Yan swore a poisonous oath on a program. The storm just stopped.
If it were anyone else, I'm afraid my heart would have collapsed. But Liu Yan thinks that as long as you are still in this circle, you must have your status.
Why is Liu Yan so strong? After watching the past programs that Liu Yan recorded with her parents, I realized that her appearance as an unbeatable Xiaoqiang was originally because of her family.
Before attending Bao Beier's wedding, Liu Yan participated in a variety show "Traveling with Parents".
During that trip, Liu Yan had a "pillow fight" with Sri Lankan players. After being hit on the head by a player, Liu Yan's face hit the wood he was climbing on.
Liu Yan was in so much pain that she couldn’t stop crying. Although the mother outside the scene was wearing sunglasses, she could already see the unhappiness and distress behind the sunglasses. My mother's idea was why the game was so heavy-handed, but she didn't say anything.
Mother called Liu Yan, be strong and sit up. Don't let her hit you again. sit up.
Although Liu Yan was in pain at this time, he still sat up strongly and started to fight back. When
later interviewed his mother, her mother said that Liu Yan was very desperate. I feel sorry for her, but she has had this boyish personality since she was a child, a character that refuses to admit defeat. Of course I will support her no matter what decision she makes.
After "Traveling with Parents", Liu Yan's father was found to be sick. It only took 5 months from the time the cause was discovered to the end of life.
Liu Yan said in the interview that my father was gone and I felt like the sky had fallen. I instantly felt like I had no home. Because my mother loves my brother more.
But her mother was very sad after hearing this. Her mother said that once Liu Yan dragged his suitcase and prepared to go home for dinner with a tired body. Already downstairs at home. He called again and said he was leaving, but he didn't even have time to take a sip of soup.
That day, my mother cooked the soup that Liu Yan liked to drink, and she thought it would be good to just take a sip. That will also relieve fatigue. But I'm afraid it's just to blame, "I've been boiling the soup for so long, why did I leave without drinking it?"
Mother really felt sorry for Liu Yan, and shed tears as she spoke.
But the taste changed when I opened it.
Liu Yan said that she envied Lu Yuxiao very much. Her mother always showed her love and gave her enough warmth.
But does Liu Yan’s mother really not love her?
Every time Liu Yan is in the hot search for "sexy", others will tell her mother. And Liu Yan's mother would tell others seriously that it was necessary for serious work.
When she saw Liu Yan wearing scantily clad clothes at home and about to go out, her mother would ask, "Wouldn't this be photographed?" Wear more clothes.
When she saw that Liu Yan was wearing tight clothes, her mother nodded. In fact, her mother was afraid that she would be seriously hurt by rumors again.
Liu Yan’s mother was on the hot search this time on the program "My Girl". Netizens said Liu Yan’s mother was too mean.
But before that, Liu Yan told her mother that she wanted to appear on the show together.
My mother said that I am getting old and my thinking is not as sharp as before. What should I do if I don’t speak well? Liu Yan comforted her mother and said it doesn't matter, just say whatever you want, be real and don't act like a teacher.
As expected, Liu Yan's mother was very direct, saying that Liu Yan had entered the industry for the elderly in a few years. That's right, Liu Yan is 43 years old this year. When she is over 50, do you still call her a little girl? Mother just said what others were thinking.
But such directness made Yu Wenwen and Wu Xin beside them a little worried.
is mean, suppressive education, and can also be said to be verbal violence.
Liu Yan’s mother wanted to perform better on the show to bring glory to her daughter. But as soon as he opened his mouth, everyone felt suffocated.
When her mother said that Liu Yan ate so much ice, she actually meant that Liu Yan had a bad stomach and could not eat so much ice. But what we saw was a look of disgust.
Many people say that they actually have a "Mother Liu Yan" around them.
If you think about it carefully, parents born in the 50s and 60s only needed to eat enough when they were young. When the children born in the 50s and 60s became parents for the first time, they used a model called suppressive education.
Because they want their children to be more resilient and better than others. I use what I call a good model to educate children. In fact, this model makes "love" invisible. But the "love" behind it is no less encouraging.
may even be misunderstood by children, affecting family harmony.
Later, these children who were educated in a suppressive manner became parents. They knew the pain of being suppressed, so they changed their policies and started encouraging education, just like Lu Yuxiao's family.
Of course, it is also the first time for parents to be other people’s parents, and they are also crossing the river by feeling the stones. But parents always think that the hardships they have endured cannot be passed on to their children.
Whether it is repressive education or encouraging education, there is actually a word "love" hidden behind it.
But "love" actually deserves "gentle treatment".
Author of this article | Editor in charge of Blank
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