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The Magnolia Award at the Shanghai TV Festival was unveiled. The crew of "Flowers" can be said to have won the lottery, especially Hu Ge, who was awarded the title of Emperor of the Show twice. I especially remember that the last time Hu Ge won the title of TV Emperor was for his role as "Mei Changsu" in "Nirvana in Fire".
In comparison, Tang Yan seems a little regretful. Her role as Miss Wang is so brilliant, but she still ran with her. It was expected that
lost to Zhou Xun. After all, Hu Ge had already won the title of Shi Di. If Shi Hou was still from "Flowers", where would he leave others? Zhou Xun's performance in "Imperfect Victim" is still very good, but now she is controversial because of "Ruyi's Royal Love in the Palace", and Zhou Xun's reputation is no longer so good.
continued to talk about Tang Yan. Although she didn't win the queen, she is no longer something other 85 flowers can catch up with. Tang Yan still relied on "Miss Wang" to regain her own dock, and what is the key? Tang Yan is so beautiful. She is in very good condition every time she comes out. She never looks like a 40-year-old woman.
But there is one thing that makes me strange?
Tang Yan is so brilliant, Luo Jin's Weibo is a bit too calm, as if Tang Yan is not his wife, is he so avoidant? When "Flowers" was on the air, Luo Jin did not post any promotional Weibo about "Flowers". Even when Magnolia and Tang Yan accompanied him, Luo Jin did not make any sound.
Before, the two of them were so sweet;
now gives people the impression that their relationship is too dull.
Sun Jian all knows that Weibo supports Tang Yan: Acting, sincerity, can always impress people.
Including when "Flowers" was on the air, Sun Jian was also the first to jump out and say that Tang Yan was the best Ms. Wang. Liu Yifei also posted a blog to support Tang Yan, saying that she is the best Ms. Wang. But as for Luo Jin, no matter how great achievements Tang Yan has achieved, it has nothing to do with him. I know I shouldn't think too much, I just feel weird.
After my wife came back, she has achieved such great success in her career. Shouldn’t my husband be proud of and support her?
But, no. The Weibo posts of
and
have not interacted with each other for a long time.
I hope I am overthinking it. The two of them are so avoidant, maybe because they don’t want their private lives to be disturbed.
There is a hot search on Weibo: Every time Tang Yan comes out, Luo Jin is praised for .
Because Tang Yan is in such good condition, some netizens think that the reason why Tang Yan is in such good condition must be related to Luo Jin. It was Luo Jin who gave her a good marriage that made her in such good condition. But below this hot search, Tang Yan's fans have a lot of opinions. The general idea is that Tang Yan is in such good condition, what does it have to do with Luo Jin, and can she reject the so-called "spoiled wife remarks".
Did you see it? Everyone has opinions on Luo Jin.
A woman's good condition does not mean that a man is good. It is she who should be praised, not her partner. Don't love men too much. You will have a career and goals after marriage. Your parents will be by your side. You will have an optimistic attitude and you will naturally attract positive energy.
I also don’t like how some people attribute Tang Yan’s good condition to Luo Jin.
has little to do with Luo Jin.
Luo Jin has already avoided suspicion on Weibo and has never promoted his wife, so there is no need to take credit like this.
had a comment that was very informative, "I will never forget the things Tang Yan did when she was pregnant."
I searched online, and it seems that "Crane Huating" was popular at the time. As a married man, Luo Jin had an ambiguous relationship with Li Yitong for CP, which was a bit unkind. In addition, after being married for so many years, Luo Jin seems to have a lot of dramas, one after another. If it were the Gu family, there is a high probability that Luo Jin would not take on so many dramas. There is a statistical chart from enthusiastic netizens on
. You can take a look.
Looking at it this way, Luo Jin is really busy after marriage.
On the other hand, Tang Yan is not easy. Tang Yan disappeared for a while, and even fans were very unhappy.Fortunately, Tang Yan's "Miss Wang" has rekindled her career ambitions. Tang Yan's next step is quite exciting. She has a new drama "A Single Woman" written by Yi Shu.
Yi Shu girls have become quite popular in recent years, like Ma Yili, who became famous in the first half of her life; needless to say, Liu Yifei's "The Story of a Rose" is so popular. Tang Yan's Yi Shu Girl is going to work with Zhao Youting, and maybe she can create another hit drama.
"Single Woman" will most likely be filmed in Shanghai.
Tang Yan is still very family-oriented. The filming of "Flowers" with director Wong Kar-wai was all done in Shanghai. After finishing work, she could go home to spend time with her daughter.
Tang Yan once said in an interview:
Her sense of security comes from her mother teaching her since she was a child that girls should rely on themselves, be mentally independent, financially independent, and be able to do what they want. She has known that she has to rely on herself since she was very young. Xiao Wang said that she wanted to build her own dock, and she agreed very much. She knows what she is doing, is relatively independent mentally, and is very fulfilled every day. It is still something she loves, which is the source of security.
If you think about it carefully, a woman's good condition comes more from herself, not necessarily from a man.
There is also a picture made by fans on the Internet, which is "Rejecting the Spoiled Wife Theory".
"Tang Yan earned the money by herself, bought the house and car by herself, maintained her face with money by Tang Yan herself, trained her body through self-discipline, her mentality was adjusted and maintained by Tang Yan, and the children were raised by Tang Yan and her parents. , the sense of security comes from Tang Yan herself, the best gardener is Tang Yan herself. Tang Yan is getting better and better now because of her strong core! "
Tang Yan's fans really have great opinions on Luo Jin.
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There used to be a popular saying that a woman's face is the mirror of marriage. The good condition of a woman after marriage is mostly due to the man, because the man gave the woman a good marriage and raised her well.
I don't agree with this.
Because the things that women need to face in marriage are too complicated. A woman’s good state does not come from men, but mostly from herself. Only if she is financially independent, mentally independent, and has a good attitude can she have a happy life. A very good condition.
Some people said this to me a few years after I got married, saying that I could work at home when I settled down in Xiamen because I married a good husband, and my husband was very good at making money. I would also like to refute this. I did not rely on men. All the seemingly good life I have now is earned by myself.
I have never been idle since I got married, and then I caught up with the trend for a few years and made money. I haven't relied on him for any living expenses since I got married. Even now I am raising two children by myself. I bought the house and paid the down payment. He was only responsible for repaying the mortgage. Why is it that he is so good? It’s obviously me who is so good, okay?
Besides, I have never been a spoiled wife.
How strong women are nowadays. There has never been the concept of relying on men. It is no longer necessary for men to support their wives and children. But yes, there are a few men who can afford to support their wives and children on their own, but most of them have to rely on their wives to earn their own money.
So, stop attributing a woman’s good condition after marriage to men. It has nothing to do with them. It’s the woman herself who is great.
I also admire Tang Yan very much. She is in such good condition and she is the best gardener herself.
Because Luo Jin has never even done the most basic thing of helping to promote the drama.
Luo Jin can help promote other actors, but why is he so stingy with his wife's drama? That's all
wrote, I hope they are both okay. It doesn't matter if
is not good. Tang Yan is her best terminal and she will get better and better.
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Author: yibao, original emotional author, millions of emotional bloggers, marriage and family counselor, writes warm emotional things in this world through personal practice.
