Recently, "The Story of Rose " starring Liu Yifei , Tong Dawei , Lin Gengxin , Wan Qian , Huo Jianhua , Peng Guanying , etc. is currently on the air.
Because of the emotional entanglement between Huang Yimei and the elite man Zhuang Guodong and the poor boy Fang Xiewen in the play, it triggered a heated discussion on the Internet.
Especially Zhuang Guodong, played by Peng Guanying, abandons Huang Yimei to pursue a career abroad, and then comes back to chase his wife after five years;
Fang Xiewen, played by Lin Gengxin, is a white rabbit before marriage, a twenty-four filial boyfriend, and the plot of changing his face after marriage is even more This caused a lot of curses from the audience. Even the actor Zhang Xinyu posted a short essay to comment. Many netizens even went to Lin Gengxin's comment area to criticize Fang Xiewen's character.
"The Story of Rose" is an urban emotional drama directed by Wang Jun. The drama is adapted from Yi Shu's novel of the same name and tells the emotional experiences of the heroine Huang Yimei at different stages. Among them, the marriage story of Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen has attracted widespread attention. Many netizens also said that they should divorce as soon as possible and look forward to the emergence of their soul mate played by Huo Jianhua.
From the family background and appearance, no matter what the audience thinks, Zhuang Guodong, an elite man, is the most suitable for Huang Yimei. Even Huang Zhenhua, played by his uncle Tong Dawei, is assisting behind the scenes, trying to help Zhuang Guodong win Huang Yimei back.
But in the end, Huang Yimei gave up her first love, Zhuang Guodong, an elite returned from overseas, and married Fang Xiewen, a poor boy with no money.
only understood the reason for Huang Yimei's choice after watching Fang Xiewen's actions.
Zhuang Guodong vs Fang Xiewen, no matter how smart the elite man is, he can't win against the disguise of a poor boy.
Long-term love and step by step, which one is more terrifying?
Zhuang Guodong is a typical elite man who has returned from overseas. His shrewdness may allow him to do many things with ease, but in love, this shrewdness sometimes becomes a kind of distance.
His career and social circle may make Huang Yimei find it difficult to integrate, just like Huang Yimei could not integrate into the circle of Zhuang Guodong and her mother at the French cocktail party.
Zhuang Guodong first fell in love with Huang Yimei at a cocktail party and saw her in the crowd at a glance. Later in their relationship, through the intersection of work, Zhuang Guodong and Huang Yimei had more opportunities to come into contact. Although
fell in love with each other, they didn't say it clearly. They were like two evenly matched opponents, secretly competing and testing each other. In the end, they couldn't hold it in any longer and were on the verge of breaking out.
In the end, the two of them were deeply affectionate when they were together. They were both talented and beautiful, making others envious. This process of getting along is very natural, and it also makes the audience enjoy watching the process of their love.
However, Zhuang Guodong is a typical tall, rich and handsome man with outstanding appearance and enviable social status. He is smart and capable, has a successful career, and is an ideal partner in the eyes of many people. But for Huang Yimei, he may have been too dazzling, which made her feel a little uneasy and unable to grasp the relationship.
When Huang Yimei expressed that she wanted to take Zhuang Guodong to meet her parents, Zhuang Guodong subconsciously avoided and refused, and chose to work in France without consulting Huang Yimei in advance, and then refused to communicate and used cold violence, which made this emotionally stable, free and enthusiastic woman The girl went crazy and searched for him frantically, even destroying his home at all costs.
In contrast, Fang Xiewen appears as a poor boy. He does not have Zhuang Guodong's wealth and status, but he has a simple and sincere temperament. He launched a passionate and persistent pursuit of Huang Yimei, making Huang Yimei feel needed and valued. This disguised sense of solidity made Huang Yimei mistakenly believe at a certain moment that this was the ordinary happiness she longed for.
However, Fang Xiewen's "ordinaryness" showed her a life that was controllable. Even when she finally learned how Fang Xiewen approached her step by step, she just lay on the sofa to express shock and did not choose to stay away. he.Arrogant, she enjoys the admiration and pursuit from Fang Xiewen. After she was hurt by Zhuang Guodong, she happened to meet Fang Xiewen who stayed by her side and was even willing to give up his career for her.
Is this a kind of escape or a kind of psychological comfort.
Fang Xiewen took every step of the way, from falling in love at first sight with the new student to working in a cafe to get close to her, to paying high rent to keep Huang Yimei. He is a usually frugal young man, but he spent all his energy pursuing Huang Yimei.
He accompanied Huang Yimei to the art exhibition. Huang Yimei enjoyed the process of viewing the paintings leisurely, while Fang Xiewen worked hard to take notes. He was trying hard to catch up with her aesthetics and integrate into her circle. While chatting with Huang's mother, he pretended to be poor and miserable, creating an image of himself as a positive and promising young man.
If it weren't for Lin Gengxin's good acting and his popularity with the audience, in reality, the audience would probably think of him as a scheming man seeking superiority and be scolded miserably. His series of actions are also terrifying and scheming. So deep, even Huang Yimei herself said, "I don't even know when she will be sold by him."
Faced with the choice of love and career, the "rational and proud" Zhuang Guodong was once again defeated by the "retreating to advance" Fang Xiewen
Huang Yimei and these two men were faced with the choice of a foreign country and a different place, faced with the challenges of love and career. choice.
Zhuang Guodong decisively chooses his career. He believes that this is the most important thing for him at this stage. He does not want to be like his parents, whose marriage and life failed because of career problems. But this is unbearable for Huang Yimei, who has been self-centered since childhood.
When Huang Yimei endured the pain of foreign love and gave up her career to find Zhuang Guodong abroad, she was once again left alone. However, Zhuang's mother asked her son to keep in touch with his ex-girlfriend, without caring about her feelings. After this series of operations, Huang Yimei's enthusiasm was extinguished little by little.
And Fang Xiewen’s approach is really a superior move.
When he went to Beijing to meet his parents, Fang Xiewen made a grand statement, saying that he would give up his career, follow Huang Yimei back to Beijing, and find a stable job in a state-owned enterprise. This approach of retreating into advancement worked very well for Huang Yimei. After all, it was in sharp contrast to Zhuang Guodong who gave up on himself to pursue his career.
The more Fang Xiewen kept making concessions for Huang Yimei, the more Huang Yimei chose to stay in Shanghai for him, and spent all her savings to support his business, and was willing to live in a rented house and eat cheap food. Meals.
This move is to retreat in order to advance. It really kills Zhuang Guodong instantly.
Huang Yimei did not choose Zhuang Guodong because Zhuang Guodong's future planning put Huang Yimei last.
Fang Xiewen put Huang Yimei first in all his efforts. Even when taking wedding photos, he asked and confirmed Huang Yimei's decision, giving Huang Yimei the greatest respect and wholehearted love, which gave her great security. sense of belonging and belonging.
So when Zhuang Guodong chose to go to the Northeast to prevent them from getting married, Huang Yimei generously introduced Fang Xiewen to him as her husband even though she had not yet obtained the certificate. In the eyes of many people, this kind of approach may be more about anger and demonstration. Huang Yimei wants to prove that she can live a good life without Zhuang Guodong.
For Huang Yimei, who is more "scumbag", Zhuang Guodong or Fang Xiewen?
Huang Yimei is a girl from a scholarly family. She is brave, confident, dares to love and hate. In the play, she experienced four relationships, among which her marriage to Fang Xiewen was an important turning point in her life.
Fang Xiewen is Huang Yimei's senior. He is down-to-earth and progressive, and falls in love with Huang Yimei at first sight. Under his pursuit, Huang Yimei was moved by his sincerity and finally decided to marry him.
However, life after marriage is not as beautiful as Huang Yimei imagined. The powerful mother-in-law monitors her all the time, and the tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is self-evident. However, Fang Xiewen showed cowardice and incompetence in handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which disappointed Huang Yimei.
In addition, after Fang Xiewen gradually became successful in her career, she became more controlling. He did not allow Huang Yimei to go out to work, did not allow her to return to Beijing, and even forced her to have a second child. This series of operations made Huang Yimei feel that she had lost herself.
Although Zhuang Guodong hurt Huang Yimei's feelings, it was easy to get together and break up after all. However, her marriage to Fang Xiewen made Huang Yimei change from the proud daughter of heaven in the eyes of everyone to a slovenly one. She was trapped at home all day long, guarding A housewife with a husband and children loses her freedom and her former glory.
This series of processes allowed the audience to witness the withering process of the rose. At this point, Fang Xiewen was the more "scumbag".
Does Huang Yimei really love Fang Xiewen? If you don't love her, why marry him?
Liu Yifei said that Huang Yimei is lonely most of the time.
"People are born lonely." In "The Story of Roses", Huang Yimei is really a living example.
Zhuang Guodong loves Huang Yimei, but he abandons her without hesitation in the face of career, and even thinks that she will wait for him;
Fang Xiewen loves Huang Yimei, but does not believe that Huang Yimei loves him. His inferiority complex and desire for control make his relationship with Huang Yimei difficult. The relationship has become beyond recognition and devastated;
brother and Su Su love Huang Yimei, but when she chooses to marry Fang Xiewen, they can only respect her choice, even if they know that it may involve anger, after all, everyone has to take care of their own life Choose to be responsible;
Parents love Huang Yimei, but scholars educate their children and provide all conditions to allow her to develop as freely as possible. Her father knows that her boyfriend is too perfect and not real enough, like he is pretending, but he still doesn't Tell Huang Yimei to respect all her choices.
To say that Huang Yimei really loves Fang Xiewen is probably not entirely accurate. Her feelings for Fang Xiewen are more like a choice at a specific moment than pure love.
After experiencing the emotional ups and downs with Zhuang Guodong, Huang Yimei may have a new understanding of love. She longed for stability and peace, and Fang Xiewen happened to appear when she needed such a person the most.
Fang Xiewen behaved very sincerely when pursuing Huang Yimei. He expressed his love for Huang Yimei with practical actions, making Huang Yimei feel that he was someone she could trust for life. In addition, after experiencing her relationship with Zhuang Guodong, she longed to find someone who truly loved her and understood her and live an ordinary life. Fang Xiewen's down-to-earth and progressive attitude made her feel that he was a person who could give her happiness.
Huang Yimei's artistic influence since she was a child has filled her with utopian fantasies about love and the future. Because of her abundant material conditions, she only wants to pursue spiritual enjoyment.
She longs to find someone with whom she appreciates and understands each other. When Fang Xiewen pursued Huang Yimei, he acted very romantic, making Huang Yimei feel that he was a person who could bring her happiness.
And Fang Xiewen's change of attitude after marriage made her start to question her choice.
Fang Xiewen, who changed his face after marriage, was scolded by netizens. Was he wrong?
She was so sincere when she was chasing roses, but she changed after getting married.
secretly helped Rose to resign, "Your job has no official establishment", questioned and belittled her value;
communicated with her mother-in-law in her hometown dialect at home, said bad things about her, and bullied Huang Yimei because she didn't understand;
saw Huang Yimei buying flowers, She also wondered if it was a gift from someone else;
was afraid that she would run away with the money in her hand, so she listened to her mother's advice and borrowed all the remaining money for the rose on the pretext of paying the down payment;
saw that Huang Yimei had taken many certificates at home. In preparation for her comeback, she was even more unhappy and even secretly refused her job;
forced Huang Yimei to give birth to a son and did not allow her to return to Beijing to see her brother, wanting to keep her trapped in a small place.
Fang Xiewen said that Huang Yimei was selfish, but Huang Yimei retorted. Fang Xiewen still felt that all the money he earned was spent on his family, and Huang Yimei was not satisfied.
Fang Xiewen's inferiority complex and machismo emerged after marriage.Especially before receiving the certificate, he had seen the excellence of his ex-boyfriend Zhuang Guodong, and he had a clear image of his imaginary enemy in his heart.
Although Fang Xiewen appeared confident and charming before marriage, after marriage he may gradually realize the gap between himself and Huang Yimei, both in terms of family background and personal ability.
This sense of inferiority made him try to gain a sense of security by controlling Huang Yimei, limiting her social and career development to prevent her from coming into contact with better men, thereby reducing her ability to leave him.
He believed that men should have the dominant role in the family, while women should be responsible for taking care of the family and children.
Although Fang Xiewen's character has been criticized by the audience, at least he is single-minded emotionally. His first love is Huang Yimei. Although his family is poor, he still has a sense of responsibility for his family.
If he was wrong, it was probably because he chose an unattainable wife. He had exhausted all his efforts to catch up with Huang Yimei's starting line, and with such an excellent ex-boyfriend Zhuang Guodong as a reference, He tried his best to buy a big house and did everything he could to expand the size of the company, all in order to make Huang Yimei feel that her choice was the right one.
But he forgot what Su Gengsheng said back then, "When Rose chooses him, he has no competitors."
People's hearts are like this. Faced with such an excellent wife, excellent father-in-law, mother-in-law, brother-in-law and future sister-in-law, Fang Xiewen's inferiority complex is increasing day by day. Even if he frantically improves himself and makes himself excellent, he still cannot overcome his inferiority complex and give. Huang Yimei trusts and respects her.
Life is like a reverse road, and I am also a pedestrian.
Huang Yimei has intelligence, a wealthy family, and high artistic attainments, but she is alone in love. She experienced the feelings of every stage of life, whether it was the happiness of love, the joy of being a mother for the first time, or the sadness of divorce...
She is excellent and sober. When she finds that love is not what it was back then, she can decisively break up with Zhuang Guodong. After discovering that her marriage had deteriorated, she decisively chose to divorce Fang Xiewen and find her own value.
She enjoys every man and every thing she meets from then on, and hopes that she can better enjoy the splendid and passionate life of rose.
