The popular " The Story of a Rose " has entered the climax of marital conflict, and a special article must be dedicated to talk about it in detail.
Huang Yimei (played by Liu Yifei ) Tongzhuang Guodong's love was in turmoil and finally abandoned. From the initial love at first sight, to the instant love, to the inseparable love, they staged 27 famous kissing scenes in 4 episodes, but in the end they still lost to the foreign country. Distance and class differences.
After being broken up, Huang Yimei was devastated. After resigning, she went to Fudan University to study psychology alone, and met the attentive and flattering Fang Xiewen (played by Lin Gengxin).
Fang Xiewen is the legendary "small town problem solver" . Whether it is about going to school or pursuing a girl, he is thoughtful and meticulous. He goes to art exhibitions, passes umbrellas, pays rent, and gets closer step by step, and finally relies on a game. The "hero saves the beauty" who works in a restaurant successfully captures Rose's heart.
And the lonely and tangled Rose just needs a relationship to fill the gap of losing Zhuang Guodong. Fang Xiewen went along with the flow and developed from roommate to boyfriend.
Next, there is a wonderful and bloody family dispute.
1. Huang Yimei: Innocence and innocence hurt by love
The roses in Yi Shu’s original novel are always full of feminine charm. Whether it was Zhou Shihui, Zhuang Guodong, Fang Xiewen, or later Fu Jiamin, they all fell in love with roses at first sight, and their glances immediately stirred up a burning fire in their hearts.
When Fu Jiamin met Rose, she was already 30 years old and had an 8-year-old daughter. But Jia Min is exactly the same as Zhou Shihui. He is also distraught, devastated, and goes to the fortune teller in a distressed manner.
The old man judged the rose like this:
There is a kind of woman, any man will consider her as a confidante, but in fact she has no distractions in her heart, she is pure and innocent. This is Miss Huang Rose. Don't be sentimental.
Therefore, Huang Yimei is not passionate and fickle, or crazy and self-destructive. She is just a passionate person. She will never leave her when she falls in love. If she doesn't fall in love, she will say goodbye without leaving any room for herself.
However, in Tong Fang Xiewen's relationship and marriage, her sincerity was not only not respected, but was also repeatedly exploited.
In order to catch up with Rose, Fang Xiewen put a lot of effort into it, silently courting her in various ways, and secretly paid 20,000 yuan in rent for Rose, just for the sake of being in love.
So no matter how beautiful the girl is, she can’t resist dog licking (No, it’s a warm man who carefully provides emotional value) .
But once you get married, especially if you are pregnant with a child. The inferiority and intolerance in Phoenix man Xiewen's heart began to show up step by step.
2. Fang Xiewen: A comprehensive plan to hide evil intentions?
Emotional offensives like Fang Xiewen's are actually very deceptive, and ordinary girls find it difficult to resist.
On the surface, he shows meticulous care, bravery to protect flowers, and meticulous and thoughtful arrangements. Only those who are free, experienced and "human-savvy" can see his true colors.
In Huang Yimei's home, Huang's father had this doubt. He felt that this young man Fang Xiewen was good at everything, but his perfection was a bit false, as if he was catering to Rose and everyone around him.
This kind of pandering is not true love, but more like a well-planned trap.
Sure enough, when the two got married in their hometown and became pregnant with a child, Fang Xiewen's mother came to Shanghai to take care of Rose, and conflicts in the small family began to ensue.
First of all, it was Fang Xiewen’s strength. Rose was weak during pregnancy and occasionally fainted from fatigue. Fang Xiewen went directly to her workplace and took the initiative to resign for Rose. Directly cutting off Rose's independent income.
Then, Fang Xiewen’s mother behaved in all kinds of weird ways. She protected her son everywhere and couldn’t stand Rose’s daily behavior, including but not limited to dressing fashionably, spending money generously, liking flowers, and being independent and strong.
When the three of them were eating, they had to support their son all the time. Feeling unhappy, they immediately communicated with their son in dialect and pushed away Rose; The TV plays with the mobile phone, without any regard for Rose's personal space;
Rose is depressed and helpless, and can only go to the streets alone to relax and breathe, and is suspected and complained by her mother-in-law.
Outside the delivery room, because he was reluctant to spend money on painkillers, his brother Huang Zhenhua had a big fight with Fang’s mother.
After giving birth to a child, Fang’s mother sometimes despised Rose for being delicate and incompetent, and sometimes despised her for not having enough breast milk; she whispered in her son’s ears all day long and clamored to go back to her hometown.
As a result, Rose's parents came to take care of their daughter. When they really asked her to go back to her hometown, she felt sad and unwilling to leave. She just wanted to stay close to her son. A fictional character like
is the perfect combination of an evil mother-in-law. Naturally, it can arouse strong empathy from the audience, especially female audiences.
And Fang Xiewen also behaved extremely cowardly.
Because he had a head-to-head confrontation with Zhuang Guodong, he was always worried about him. He always felt that both Mei Mei and his parents disliked him. He also said that "people who have eaten French food can eat it but don't like to eat at roadside stalls."
Is it appropriate to describe a wife who has given birth to a child in this way?
He can neither control nor care about his mother. He is like a grinding core spinning in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. He lacks responsibility and wisdom and will most likely bring the blame on himself in the end.
3. Marriage View: Equality and Mutual Assistance Founder Way
In the original work, Fang Xiewen is described as a mediocre and incompetent "Economic Man" , Rose Married He seemed to be just trying to heal the pain of breaking up with Zhuang Guodong and make a living for himself. a child.
When her daughter was 8 years old, Rose decisively divorced Fang Xiewen. The book writes about Fang Xiewen at that time:
He was fat, unkempt, stupid, and slow. He couldn't even make sense in ordinary social dialogues. Among the exquisite and clear people in the Huang family, there was no place for him. He probably understood this very well, so he gave up even more. He kept wiping his sweat with a wrinkled handkerchief and wore an American suit made of smooth artificial fiber material.
Fang Xiewen's suit collar is still very wide, and his tie is randomly tied, which is four inches wide. The tops of his leather shoes are worn out, and the elastic bands of his socks are loosened.
In the series, not only Fang Xiewen's identity and experience were completely subverted, but his image was also transformed.
The current Lin Gengxin is obviously more charming and more pleasing to the eye than Fang Xiewen in the book.
However, from the perspective of character and sense of responsibility, Lin Gengxin’s version is a narrow-minded Phoenix man who has various problems in dealing with emotional relationships and family structure.
And what kind of true evil intentions are hidden behind his diligent catering will probably only be revealed in the next few episodes. Fang Xiewen in the original work is more like a victim of a failed marriage. He had no intention of hurting Rose.
In fact, from the current relationship and marriage relationships in the series, Huang Yimei is with Zhuang Guodong and Tongfang Xiewen; Zhou Shihui is with Guan Zhizhi; Huang Zhenhua is with Su Gengsheng; Jiang Xueqiong is with the wealthy businessman husband, and Huang Yimei's parents. You can observe a variety of emotional samples, and those who are interested should be able to find a marriage model that suits them. The emotional samples in the
episode will be left to my subsequent code analysis.
The fundamental thing is that the two people should maintain equal personality status. It is best to respect and love each other and help each other. And it's best to show your true state from the beginning instead of deliberately beautifying and suppressing it. Because after all, pretending cannot last long. When the true nature is exposed and the relationship becomes bad, it will bring more pain to the marriage and the children.
Rose and Fang Xiewen divorced and broke up, which was the end of the first paragraph of the original work. Then came the love-hate entanglement between brothers Fu Jiaming and Fu Jiamin and Rose, and Huo Jianhua made a brilliant debut; in the follow-up, there were also supporting roles such as "Near Year" He Xi and his fiancée Mimi.And how will the relationship between Huang Zhenhua and Su Gengsheng be deduced?
Continue to watch the drama, wait for the truth to be revealed!
