Jimu News Commentator Wu Shuangjian
Recently, at a matchmaking event held in Bozhou, Anhui, the "Bozhou Wangpo" persuaded a young man to hold hands to conceive a girl, which triggered heated discussions among netizens. In response to this, "Kaifeng Queen Mother" Zhao Mei responded: That host is full of nonsense. How can you say that? Whose girl can say in public that she is three months pregnant before being married. (According to the New Yellow River Client report on May 5)
In that blind date show, the host asked the young man, if it is acceptable to divorce without children, why can't it be accepted if she is three months pregnant? "Bozhou Wangpo" also said that men must be responsible first, so don't mind this issue. She even shouted to the audience, please give this handsome guy some courage, please? The bizarre remarks shocked netizens’ views.
Afterwards, staff from relevant dating agencies responded: "Wang Po" means that if a boy falls in love with a girl, he must take responsibility. Everyone has understood it wrong, and there is no need to take responsibility if they don't take it seriously. This explanation is also not clear and cannot convince the public.
Currently, Kaifeng Wang Po’s blind date program has become popular, not only popularizing a scenic spot, but also popularizing a city. Under such circumstances, "Wang Po Matchmaking" has sprung up like mushrooms all over the country. I have to emphasize that the reason why netizens like Kaifeng's "Wang Po Matchmaking" is because the program is very down-to-earth. "Wang Po" Zhao Mei also said that there is absolutely no script. Therefore, everyone feels it is authentic and credible.
On the other hand, marriage and love are now a big problem for some men and women. They also hope that through real-life dating platforms, they can successfully find their significant other and start a new life journey, instead of just watching the excitement. For dating shows, integrity is golden and you cannot use tricks to deceive people.
Needless to say, there was a saying in the past that "you don't believe the matchmaker's mouth". This is because the matchmaker only talks about good things, and her words are garish and misleading. She treats matchmaking as a business. As for whether the two are a good match, whether they will be a good match in the future. Happiness is none of their business. Now, when we advocate freedom of marriage and emotional marriage, whether we are matchmakers or intermediaries, we should seek truth from facts and let both men and women make their own decisions and not engage in moral kidnapping.
Being a matchmaker has a bottom line, and being a marriage and love agency also has a threshold. Some netizens believe that Bozhou Wang Po's matchmaking is highly scripted. First, when the woman came on stage, how could she reveal that she was three months pregnant? It is obviously unreasonable; secondly, a woman divorced without a child and a woman pregnant with someone else's child for three months are essentially the same thing. It is nonsense to say that the man is not responsible; thirdly, the host and the "Wang Po" sang and sang together, Judging from the comprehensive performance before and after, it is like acting in a script.
As a public display program, first of all, the three views must be correct. Even if there is no script, a woman who got pregnant out of wedlock really went on a blind date, and she had the courage to reveal that she got pregnant out of wedlock. For the host and the queen, they really cannot force the match, but must respect the man's choice. It is human nature for a man to say "no", and the child is not his, so why should he be responsible?
This reminds us that there should be certain regulations for similar blind date programs in various places. If the dating show itself is an entertainment program and is performed according to a script, the public should be truthfully informed. If it is an offline blind date event, then there should be certain requirements for the participants. You should have a certain understanding of whether the people on the blind date are married, and whether there are Internet celebrities deliberately trying to gain traffic. If it grows wild and muddy, it will inevitably lead to controversy.
Of course, regardless of whether there is a script or not, the host cannot talk nonsense for the sake of traffic or live show effect, and at the same time, he must be critical of behaviors that violate social order and good customs.
(Source: Jimu News)
