The fifth season of "I Want to Sing with You" brought a huge surprise to many viewers born in the 1980s as soon as it aired: Xu Meijing, who was once comparable to Faye Wong, gave a gentle voice; what followed was anger, Because some of the backing singers hired by the program team are just fake and can't even remember the lyrics.
Frankly speaking, when 49-year-old Xu Meijing first appeared, even old fans would hesitate for a moment: Is this her?
Compared with the original Xu Meijing, who had a literary and artistic atmosphere and a pure and sad singing voice, her eyebrows and eyes are still the same now, but her face is obviously a bit bloated.
then thought about her condition, taking psychotropic drugs may lead to weight gain, and felt even more distressed.
Xu Meijing’s career peak was only 7 years old
The world without you is desolate, and longing spreads quietly - Xu Meijing’s "Spread"
Xu Meijing made her debut on the show, singing one of her masterpieces "Allure", It is the painstaking work of the famous lyricist Huang Weiwen. In the years when Xu Meijing disappeared, in order to prevent the pearl from being dusted, he once asked Eason Chan to cover it in his concert.
Perhaps because it is a Cantonese song, or perhaps because young fans are not familiar with this song, anyway, the two audience members Xu Meijing found at random sang "Car Accident Scene"; one of them didn't even know the lyrics, and his eyes rolled. To the teleprompter, Li Yuchun caught him on the spot.
In the subsequent segment where 130 fans sang together, some could not remember the lyrics, some were out of tune, some were dragging their beats, and some were backing up dancers... In the barrage, fans expressed their distress to Xu Meijing. It was not ugly. It turns out that several "fans" obviously came to the show to "brush their faces."
But these are an encouragement and comfort to Xu Meijing, who has not been on stage for a long time. She has expressed her gratitude to the program team and fans many times.
"Behind the Bar", "Happiness and Guilty", "Sunshine Always After the Storm", "Regret", "Moonlight in the City", "Knowing It", "Allure", "Spread", "Put You in My Heart" ...Xu Meijing There are countless masterpieces, but many people may not have imagined that her career peak was only 7 years old, and during these 7 years, she was entangled with a man named "Chen Jiaming" for the rest of her life.
In addition to marriage, everything else can give you
You think that in order to appreciate life, you have to love a few more times. Rather than let you wither in my arms, I would rather you make mistakes and regret - Xu Meijing "Regret"
Chen Jiaming is the composer and producer , is extremely talented. Anita Mui's "Love You Thousands of Times in My Life", Mo Qixian's "Too Foolish", Jeff Chang's "Too Much"... were all written by him.
He and Xu Meijing had the same birthday, and were 10 years apart. The first time the two met was full of drama.
The only photo of Xu Meijing and Chen Jiaming
Xu Meijing was participating in a singing competition, humming a song and changing clothes in the background. Chen Jiaming, who was passing by, was attracted by the singing and pushed the door in. Xu Meijing, who was changing clothes, was very embarrassed and at a loss. Chen Jiaming walked over and helped her zip up her back. He also said "I will never find a voice as beautiful as yours in Singapore" before turning and leaving.
As soon as Jin Feng Yu Lu met, they lost their lives.
Since then, Chen Jiaming has given all his most satisfying works to Xu Meijing. Other singers are just other people to him. This also helped Hui Meijing to become a popular singer. When she broke into the Hong Kong music scene in 1997, her album broke records and dominated the charts for three consecutive weeks. She was dubbed the "Queen Killer". Many people even praised her as being as good as Faye Wong. Higher and lower.
Xu Meijing was also obsessed with Chen Jiaming. Even if Li Zongsheng flew to Singapore on behalf of the Rolling Stones to "poach someone," Xu Meijing replied: "I like to cooperate with Chen Jiaming, and I will only cooperate with him. He will Accept other people's opinions, and understand my music style and market taste."
was unable to cooperate with Xu Meijing, which made Li Zongsheng worried for many years. In 2015, Li Zongsheng organized a music festival and invited Xu Meijing to sing many masterpieces, fulfilling his long-cherished wish.
If Xu Meijing had switched to Li Zongsheng's sect, she might have become a "singing queen" as famous as Faye Wong, but there is no "if" in everything.
Everyone knows about the relationship between Chen Jiaming and Xu Meijing, but Chen Jiaming has always been unwilling to divorce because love is not his life and fortune, let alone his first choice.
But he just refused to express his position clearly and let go. Instead, he pulled Xu Meijing in an ambiguous way.
On the inside page of Xu Meijing's first album "Knowing", Chen Jiaming wrote: "Meijing's innate neuroticism teaches people to love and cherish her. Her voice is like a pair of hands, gently grasping Your person makes people want to cry."
In the song "Regret", he wrote: Rather than let you wither in my arms, I would rather you make mistakes and regret them. You think that in order to appreciate life, you have to love more times.
The second love hurts more
I thought you gave me a glimmer of hope, but when I stretched out my hand, it was just a cold iron window. If reality makes people sadder, let me continue to dream in my memories - Xu Meijing's "Iron Window"
What really made Xu Meijing give up was that Chen Jiaming and her personal assistant Huang Fengyi had a "dark knot" under her eyes. After the incident was exposed, Huang Fengyi could not bear the psychological pressure and public criticism and chose to end her life.
In 2001, Xu Meijing was 27 years old. She made up her mind to leave Chen Jiaming and went to Taiwan, China, to develop alone. There, she met Yuen Yiu-fa, a then-little-known Hong Kong singer.
Yuan Yaofa just debuted that year and became famous with the idol TV series "Goodbye Firefly". He also sang the theme song "Dear Where Are You".
Far away in a foreign land, one is sleepless and the other is rootless. Xu Meijing and Yuan Yaofa have known each other for almost three years, and finally agreed to his pursuit during a trip to Italy.
What Xu Meijing didn't expect was that Yuan Yaofa, who had always been so considerate to her, had changed his face in less than 2 years.
In 2005, Yuan Yaofa was put into hiding for offending the company's senior management. At this time, Xu Meijing discovered that she was pregnant. When she told her boyfriend the news ecstatically, the other party clearly told her to abort her, and later even beat her violently. .
When Chen Jiaming was disheartened, Chen Jiaming contacted Xu Meijing again and asked her to return to him. He also lied that he was "successfully divorced."
Unforgettable old love and exhausted physically and mentally, Xu Meijing returned to Chen Jiaming, only to find that Chen Jiaming was not divorced at all. His real purpose of bringing Xu Meijing back was to hope that the talented Xu Meijing could once again help her complete a certain Music album.
She had no children, and her two boyfriends, one domestic violence and one cheating, completely destroyed Xu Meijing's psychological defense. In June 2006, Xu Meijing "made a big fuss in the hotel" and was taken away by the police on the grounds of "suspected mental disorder" , was later confirmed by doctors to be suffering from schizophrenia.
But only half a year later, in December 2006, she attended Singapore's music awards ceremony "Red Star Awards" as an award guest, officially "coming back".
In 2007, Xu Meijing released two new songs on her birthday: "Stay" and "Unknown Place".
From 2008 to 2019, Xu Meijing never released an album and mostly participated in some activities as a guest.
In May 2019, Xu Meijing held a concert in Nanjing. Chen Jiaming was the music director of the concert. At the end of the concert, Xu Meijing said: " I have been sick for a while and I have loved a lot. Thank you Teacher Chen Jiaming" .
But a few months later, Xu Meijing was singing and singing on the street. A sign was erected next to her that read "The family forced her to be sent to a mental hospital to seize her property. She wanted to sever ties with her family and Chen Jiaming." ".
The top singer of the generation has fallen to this, which is very sad. From 2008 to 2019, it is impossible to know what hardships Xu Meijing went through. Since 2019, Xu Meijing has almost disappeared from public view.
Li Yuchun: Sister Meijing is immersed in her own magnetic field
The sunshine is always after the wind and rain, please believe that there is a rainbow, accept the wind and rain, I will always be by your side - Xu Meijing "The sunshine is always after the wind and rain"
in " On the stage of "I Want to Sing with You", Xu Meijing sang Li Yuchun's "That Time", which had a unique flavor.
As a fan, Li Yuchun said: Sister Meijing has a feeling that is difficult to describe, which will completely attract your attention. She is very peaceful, as if the outside world is always flowing, but she is immersed in her own magnetic field and is not disturbed.
Liu Wei’s words represent the voices of many fans. He said to Xu Meijing: Health and happiness are the most important! If you are still happy when you are singing, then keep singing; if you want to enjoy life, people who like you will support you, even if it is our regret.
Xu Meijing promised to make more appearances, but she still did not forget to mention Chen Jiaming: When I heard Li Yuchun's "At That Time", I said to teacher Chen Jiaming, "I really want to record this song." Chen Jiaming told me that Ask Yu Chun.
Listening to her relaxed tone, it seemed that she was still in touch with Chen Jiaming. All she could say was "Poor people must be hateful" . She spent the rest of her life for such an unworthy man.
If you love someone too deeply, your heart will be drunk; if you hate someone for too long, your heart will be broken.
The ending of Xu Meijing and Chen Jiaming has already been written in "Put You in My Heart": I thought you would pamper me all my life, but I was too greedy and naive, and I never saw the hesitant look in your eyes.
