“Being deeply stabbed from behind by the school”
html On January 2, Lin Ningrui, the wife of former well-known child star Hao Shaowen, published an article on social platforms titled “We were deceived by the false propaganda of Hangzhou Wycombe Abbey Experimental School.”Lin Ningrui complained in the article that her 8-year-old daughter Lin Xiaoke was bullied on campus at Wycombe Abbey Experimental School in Hangzhou. According to her, after learning that their daughter was bullied, Hao Shaowen and his wife practiced "anti-bullying" with their children at home. The child went to school as usual the next day, but she did not expect to be "victimized twice by the school." The
article stated that schools interview children in a two-on-one or even multiple-on-one manner, instilling wrong values and distorting facts, denying the victim’s personal feelings, and telling children that “this is a game between friends.” In the three interviews between parents and the school, the latter had a tough attitude, which gave Lin Ningrui a "deep sense of powerlessness." She said: "We have been stabbed deeply from behind by the school."
In Lin Ningrui's comment area, netizens launched a heated discussion. Some netizens expressed support for Lin Ningrui and were very angry at the school's inaction.
Some netizens believe that Lin Ningrui’s expression did not clearly explain the cause and effect, nor did he provide evidence that the child was bullied. It may be just one-sided imagination. Some netizens responded by saying that out of consideration for protecting the privacy of minors, parents would of course not disclose the details of bullying.
Public information shows that Wycombe Abbey Experimental School is located in Daicun Town, Xiaoshan District, Hangzhou City. It is a private private school with the school philosophy of "every child excels". The tuition fee for Lin Xiaoke’s primary school is as high as 190,000 yuan per academic year. Many parents are worried that it will be difficult to defend their rights if the children of public figures are bullied in such an "aristocratic school", let alone ordinary families like us.
Hao Shaowen: "Be your most stable supporter"
As a father, Hao Shaowen did not speak out publicly at the first time, which also made many netizens doubtful. On the evening of January 3, Hao Shaowen released a video explaining this. He mentioned that as a public figure, he not only has to bear the responsibilities of a father, but also the pressure of work. Since January 4th was Hao Shaowen's 34th birthday, the team had been busy with live broadcast planning and could not let half a year of team efforts go to waste because of their own personal matters. Therefore, they did not come forward to respond until the incident was fermented.
Hao Shaowen said in the video, "Today I don't want to be any public figure. I am just an ordinary person, the father of an 8-year-old girl." "This happened not in a day or two. During this time, I Frequently traveling to and from (school) to deal with it." He said that he wanted to take on the responsibility of a father: "I want my daughter to know that no matter how the world changes, I will still be behind you and be your most stable support. Protect you from wind and rain."
He also said: "We also believe that this world has its own justice. I am still here, and I will do all my efforts and all my strength to protect my family, my wife, and me. "Children."
In the childhood memories of many people born in the 1980s and 1990s, there will be a fat man wearing sunglasses. He is Hao Shaowen.
In 1994, the movie "Tornado" starring Lin Zhiying was released. Hao Shaowen and Shi Xiaolong were 3 and 5 years old respectively when they starred in the movie. The natural comedy attributes of this "human cub ceiling" made all the audiences laugh. Subsequently, the two starred in "New Wulongyuan", "Dragon in Shaolin" and "Ten Brothers", etc., forming a generation of light and shadow memories.
Hao Shaowen completely disappeared from the screen after entering middle school. He concentrated on his studies and was admitted to Tamkang University. In 2020, Hao Shaowen began to try live streaming to sell goods. At first, the results were not ideal, but he still insisted on a quiet and gentle way of selling goods. Starting in 2022, his popularity skyrocketed and he became a new star in selling goods.
In 2019, Hao Shaowen met and dated makeup artist Lin Ningrui, and they got married in 2022.
Lin Ningrui is married for the second time, and her daughter Lin Xiao is Hao Shaowen's stepdaughter. However, Hao Shaowen has always treated Lin Xiao as his own, and the family of three often posts warm photos of their life online.
However, during Hao Shaowen's live broadcast, some netizens ridiculed him, saying that he "helped others raise their daughters" and "acted as their wife's cash machine." Hao Shaowen publicly responded, "Classmate, you are not me, how do you know? ?You know so few things, you are not qualified to judge others. Love what you choose, choose what you love, that is enough."
In recent years, Hao Shaowen moved to Lin Ningrui because of his work Settled in Hangzhou. In 2021, Lin Xiaoke will enter Hangzhou Wycombe Abbey Experimental School. Hao Shaowen also posted a video vlog of sending his daughter to school. In the video, Hao Shaowen hugged his daughter and kept comforting her. The relationship between the two was very harmonious.
The father of the bullying party is suspected to be a "big internet celebrity"?
As the incident further developed, some netizens posted screenshots of what appeared to be Wycombe Abbey Primary School’s parent group. The screenshots showed that the father of the bully was suspected of being an internet celebrity with 30 million followers. Banned for violating platform content management regulations. However, the authenticity of the chat record cannot be determined at present.
At present, the Internet celebrity has not responded to the incident, but his sister responded in the live broadcast that the bullying incident reported online has nothing to do with her own children. She said, "My children are excellent in all aspects. Our parents have seen them grow up and are polite and civilized." "What does the school's affairs have to do with us?"
At present, the school involved is Hangzhou Wycombe Abbey There is no clear official response from the Experimental School. According to Jiupai News, a staff member of the school’s admissions office confirmed that Hao Shaowen’s daughter is a student of the school and said: “The matter of bullying has not been confirmed yet, and our school is still under investigation. During the process, the school will also give parents a very clear explanation." In addition, the relevant departments in Xiaoshan District, Hangzhou City responded to Jimu News and stated that they have called in school monitoring and the matter is still under further investigation.
What is the truth of the matter? We still have to wait patiently for the official investigation report. In recent years, campus bullying incidents have been repeated. On the one hand, it is difficult to define some "petty fights" and bullying behaviors; on the other hand, some bullying behaviors occur in secret. But there is one problem that cannot be ignored, that is, there are many school bullying disguised as "joking between friends." School should not be a battlefield for the strong and a nightmare for the weak. I hope all childhood and youth can be treated with warmth, and I hope every child can grow up healthily under the sun.
The content of the article is synthesized from China News Network, Rule of Law Times, Jiupai News, Shangguan News, Jimu News, Sina Weibo, etc.
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Hao Shaowen’s Quotations
1. I hope that I can run in my love every year.
2. Liking yourself is more important than liking the world.
3. Adults are more important than grades, and grades are not the only criterion for measuring children.
4. You must love something, just like the love of plants and trees for time.
5. Only by keeping moving forward can you find your own way.
6. Because you are content, you are closer to happiness.
7. Love has no skills, sincerity is the ultimate skill.
8. The noisier the outside world is, the calmer the inner voice is.
Editor: Niu Jiaona Cao Yaqin | Reviewer: Jin Hui Peng Xianghua