Poster News Reporter Wen Luyi Chief Correspondent Zhang Haizhen reported in Dexing, Jiangxi
December 28, 2023, for Chen Zhixian, a native of Dexing, Jiangxi, should have been the same as the previous 15 years, just another reunion between Chen Zhixian and Yu Li (pseudonym) A wedding anniversary. However, due to three paternity test reports, this day became the day for the divorce lawsuit between Chen Zhixian and Yu Li to begin.
"Family scandal"
Chen Zhixian's experience is well known to many people in Dexing. Many elderly locals believe that this is a disgraceful "family scandal". Chen Zhixian's public statement is difficult to understand.
"It's not something I did wrong, so why should I be afraid? I don't feel ashamed either. They often say that family ugliness should not be publicized. I even lost my family, I have nothing, and I still care about family ugliness that should not be publicized." Chen Zhixian said .
Chen Zhixian
This marriage once brought happiness to the Chen family. In 2007, 30-year-old Chen Zhixian met Yu Li (pseudonym) through a matchmaker. Chen Zhixian recalled that Yu Li had no makeup at that time and looked like a simple rural girl. During the nearly one year of dating, Chen Zhixian drove a concrete mixer truck in Hangzhou. Yu Li had no job and went to his place for ten and a half days every month. On December 28, 2007, the two got married.
Yu Li was pregnant before she got married. From 2008 to 2018, three daughters were born. Chen Zhixian's family situation is ordinary. His two sisters are already married and his parents are both in poor health. After getting married, Chen Zhixian returned to his hometown of Dexing to earn money by driving a semi-trailer, hoping to save money to build a new house and buy a car. He doesn't have to pay for food and drink while driving, and his monthly salary is almost unchanged and is given to Yu Li. Chen Zhixian believes that the relationship between the couple has not been alienated because of his long distance travel. He runs long distances and comes home every three to five days. Even if he lives in two places, he still makes video calls with Yu Li every day. When Yu Li has guests to entertain at home and during busy farming seasons, Chen Zhixian will go over to help.
Before this incident, Chen Zhixian had always felt that Yu Li was also caring about running the family. In the three years between the birth of her eldest daughter and the birth of her second daughter, Yu Li took care of her children at home. After her second daughter was born, Yu Li drove to a brick factory near her home for half a year to deliver bricks. In 2017, Yu Li worked as a cashier in a restaurant in Dexing City for nearly a year. That year, Chen Zhixian started to build a new house and asked Yu Li if her family had any savings. Yu Li said that the two children at home had a lot of expenses and had no savings. Chen Zhixian did not think anything was wrong and borrowed 200,000 to build the house.
Until now, Chen Zhixian has not recalled that Yu Li had any abnormalities in those years. "She has no social circle. I have never heard of any classmates or friends asking her to go shopping or have dinner together. It is normal for colleagues to have dinner together at work." When I was at home, besides being at home, she also went to her parents' home across the river, which was less than two kilometers away. Usually when I heard her talking on the phone, she was talking to relatives."
The change occurred in the second half of 2021, and Yu Li began to communicate with "Quzhou "Boss" Wu Moumou went to Quzhou to run a project. Chen Zhixian was also in Quzhou at the time and saw Yu Li driving the man's car several times.
On the sixth day of the Lunar New Year in 2022, Yu Li told Chen Zhixian that he must pick her up if something happened at the construction site. "Which construction site will start construction on the sixth day of the Lunar New Year?" Chen Zhixian became more and more skeptical. Five or six days later, when Yu Li returned home, Chen Zhixian turned on the anti-theft locating function of her mobile phone while she was sleeping and bound her mobile phone number.
One day in March 2022, Chen Zhixian contacted Yu Li many times without success, and found through location that Yu Li's mobile phone was in a hotel in Quzhou. It was raining that day. Chen Zhixian lay in bed and thought for a long time, and finally decided to drive to the hotel. When he arrived at the hotel, he saw Wu Moumou's car parked. Chen Zhixian stayed in his car all night. He thought about asking his second sister who lived locally to bring someone to Yu Li, but he gave up after thinking about his three children.
At about 9 o'clock the next day, Yu Li walked out of the hotel elevator with another man and returned a room card. Chen Zhixian was very angry and went up and slapped each of them.In an interview with Top News, Yu Li said that there was no cheating between herself and the "Quzhou boss" mentioned by Chen Zhixian. She had only known Wu for more than a year, and before she went to Quzhou, she stayed at Chen Zhixian's sister's house and stayed in a hotel that day. It was because my sister locked the door of her house that she stayed in a hotel for one night.
A few days after the "hotel incident", Yu Li did not return to Chen's house. A few days later, Chen Zhixian brought his classmates and friends to Yu Li's family and told her family what happened in the hotel.
"Their family members said that cheating was normal. No one blamed Yu Li. They just advised me to live a good life for the sake of my children." Chen Zhixian said. Although he could not suppress his anger at that time, he was still worried about his three children and did not think about divorce. As long as Yu Li returned to the family, Yu Li also agreed to live with him and no longer go out to work on projects. In order for Yu Li to take over the work at the construction site, Chen Zhixian also cashed out 25,000 yuan from his Alipay to Yu Li.
However, in the following days, the two had physical conflicts again. Chen Zhixian saw a financial institution receipt on the mobile phone given to his wife, which showed that his wife had borrowed a loan behind his back. The total loan amount was more than 328,000 yuan, and the monthly repayment amount was more than 10,000 yuan. Yu Li did not disclose the reason for the loan to Chen Zhixian.
Therefore, on March 24, 2022, a physical conflict occurred when Chen Zhixian and Yu Li met. According to upstream news reports, people who witnessed the conflict between the two said that the couple quarreled first, and Yu Li grabbed the key on Chen Zhixian's waist. Chen Zhixian knocked Yu Li to the ground and pressed him down with his foot. After the conflict, Chen Zhixian left and Yu Li was hospitalized. Chen Zhixian told the Poster News reporter that after he found out that Yu Li had taken the loan behind his back, he slapped her twice. This was the second time he slapped Yu Li. From that day on, he never saw Yu Li again. After
, Chen Zhixian decided to take his youngest daughter for a paternity test.
On April 26, 2022, Chen Zhixian learned that his youngest daughter was not his biological child. "I almost went crazy." Chen Zhixian immediately ran to Yu Li's parents' house, where Yu Li's mother and sister were at home. Here Chen Zhixian had a conflict with Yu Li's mother, and Yu Li's mother was injured, which was identified as minor injury level two. Chen Zhixian was criminally dealt with on suspicion of intentional injury and was later released on bail pending trial. After the bail period expired, the prosecutor made a decision not to prosecute.
After that, Chen Zhixian conducted paternity tests on his other two daughters and found that they were not his biological children.
Yu Li’s mother said that she brought up Yu Li’s three children. Yu Li was too honest. She was pushed and injured by Chen Zhixian and spent 50,000 to 60,000 yuan in treatment fees, but he only paid 20,000 yuan. Yu Li got married the first year, and returned to her parents' home after giving birth the next year. She did not dare to go to the Chen family again, saying that the Chen family would not provide food. She paid more than 10,000 yuan to build a house for the Chen family, but the house ended up going to Chen Zhixian's sister. Now Yu Li is working outside, earning only 3,000 yuan a month, and has three children to raise.
Regarding the relationship between Chen and Yu, Chen Zhixian’s mother had a different statement, “They have been married for 16 years and have never had a quarrel before.” After Chen and Yu had a conflict in March 2022, Chen Zhixian’s village began to send people to People participated in the communication, but Yu Li was not at home during many communication times. Chen Zhixian built a new building in 2017 and arranged rooms for his daughters with soundproof double-glazed windows. Villagers in the village where Chen's family lives recalled that before Chen Zhixian's father had a cerebral infarction, he often saw the old man riding his bicycle to take his granddaughters to school.
After the identification results came out in May 2022, the granddaughters moved to their grandmother’s house.
"Trial"
The child is gone, but the anger at his wife's betrayal is still stuck in Chen Zhixian's heart. Before deciding to sue, Chen Zhixian tried to vent his anger in various ways.
He wanted to find out who the child's biological father was, but Yu Li didn't answer the phone, so he called most of Yu Li's relatives to tell them what happened. In May 2022, he told the local media about his "cuckold" life. This exposure allowed Yu Li to "return to the Chen family" briefly, and also brought new harm.
The administrative penalty decision of the Dexing City Public Security Bureau shows that at about 0:30 on May 28, 2022, at the site of the self-built house on the roadside of the Huaqiao Infrastructure Construction Team in Dexing City, Wu Moumou and Chen Zhixian’s wife Yu Li were not present. After the relationship between the man and woman was discovered by Chen Zhixian, in order to retaliate against Chen Zhixian, Wu Moumou and Yu Li used yellow and green electrical tape to place two 36-ring flash thunder at the threshold of Chen Zhixian's residence; they also used a sky cannon and fireworks to place at the door of Chen Zhixian's residence. On the back bathroom window, mosquito coils were used to delay the detonation, causing damage to the bathroom window of Chen Zhixian's residence and staining the glass of the living room window. According to the price determination by Dexing City Development and Reform Service Center, the value of the loss was 582.92 yuan.
The mutual harm between the two parties seemed to have no end, so in August 2023, Chen Zhixian, who collapsed, found an attorney and decided to use legal weapons to seek justice for himself. On December 28, his divorce case with Yu Li and the personality rights dispute case with the "third party" Wu Moumou were opened in the Dexing City People's Court respectively.
Yang Anming, Chen Zhixian’s attorney, revealed that Chen Zhixian’s first request is divorce, the second is the issue of child custody, and the third is the division of marital property. "In addition, this case is a fraudulent support. According to the law, the woman needs to return the man's support for so many years, including education and medical expenses. Because it is so old, we spent a lot of energy to collect it. Finally, there is compensation for mental damage. This matter gives Chen Zhixian caused great harm." Yang Anming said.
In fact, Chen Zhixian’s biggest demand is to pursue Yu Li’s criminal responsibility, such as sentencing Yu Li for bigamy. "But it's difficult based on the existing evidence." Yang Anming said.
This court session is more like a "trial" for Chen Zhixian, "Because I have embarrassed my parents, and I have made my parents unable to hold their heads up in the whole village."
Chen Zhixian's father is 80 years old this year. , the mother is also in her 70s, and she was also very hurt during the whole process, but she did not dare to show it because she was concerned about Chen Zhixian's feelings. Chen Zhixian's old father missed his granddaughter and could only secretly run to the school gate and wait to see the child, while his mother went behind Chen Zhixian's back and tidied up her granddaughter's room, which had long been unoccupied, over and over again.
"I am a useless 'father', an unfilial son, and I have failed myself. After this court session, I want to start a new life and provide for them and their elders well," said Chen Zhixian.
For more than a year after learning that his daughters were not his biological children, Chen Zhixian was "trapped" both physically and mentally.
Trapped in the issue of being released on bail pending trial, Chen Zhixian has never been able to leave Dexing. "It was not until May 16 this year that I was able to go out after a no-prosecution decision was made."
Even if he could leave, Chen Zhixian had no intention of working. He lay at home all day long, drank and smoked. He couldn't sleep without drinking. He stayed in his room for 22 hours a day without going out. At one point, he even wrote a suicide note. At the beginning, Chen Zhixian wanted to support his family by bringing goods through live broadcast, but it was not satisfactory. "Many people in the live broadcast room always said that I was cheating money, and reported that I was selling miserably to induce everyone to donate. I did it for a few days in early August last year. Live broadcast to bring goods, and then I have been simply live broadcasting."
The word "let go" has become a sensitive word for Chen Zhixian. Once relatives, friends, and netizens persuaded Chen Zhixian to put down his grudges and move forward, he felt short of breath, numb all over, and even Don't want to say anything.
Chen Zhixian became emotional when he saw the questions about his "preferring sons over daughters", "must have his wife give birth to a son" and "domestic violence". He repeatedly explained that after 16 years of marriage, he only beat Yu Li when he found out that she had cheated on her and took out a loan behind his back. He also did not favor sons over daughters. "At that time, it was still the one-child policy. If sons were favored over daughters, I would not let her take over her second daughter." Born."
On December 28, the Dexing City People's Court issued a document: The first instance of the divorce dispute case between plaintiff Chen Moumou and defendant Yu Mou was opened. Because the case involves personal privacy, in accordance with Article 137 of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China, the court adopted a closed hearing method. During the trial of the case, the court fully protected the litigation rights of the parties in accordance with the law.
Poster News reporter learned that neither Yu Li nor Wu Moumou attended the court hearing, and no attorney appeared in court.During the court hearing, Yu Li submitted relevant materials in advance involving the issue of child support.
Traces of firecrackers in Chen Zhixian’s home
Now more than a year has passed, and a large piece of dark black traces left by firecrackers can still be seen on a piece of double-glazed glass in the living room of Chen Zhixian’s home. The shattered glass window in the toilet was simply used by the Chen family with paper Paste. The damage this marriage has done to them is as profound and obvious as the traces of these firecrackers.
