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A boy who really loves you will probably propose to you. They will think that this is what they should do as a man who loves you.
After watching "Study Trip of Love", I changed my previous views on He Youjun and Xi Mengyao. It turns out that love also exists in wealthy families. He Youjun really loves Xi Mengyao. It is not the love of a domineering CEO as we imagined, but it is very childish in many cases.
This is a huge contrast with himself, which further deepens everyone's interest in him: This rich young man, why is he different from what we thought? He is too cute. In the
program, He Youjun reiterated his proposal to Xi Mengyao in the past. He felt very frustrated because he felt that the proposal was not very good and he owed Xi Mengyao. He understood that a proposal should be one where a large group of friends are present and then there are surprises, which can make girls feel particularly happy. In order to give Xi Mengyao a perfect proposal, he also specially learned guitar and dance, and spent a lot of thought. However, he did not expect that his carefully prepared proposal would be a laughing stock in the eyes of outsiders.
Their proposal was held in a shopping mall in Shanghai. Some of He Youjun's friends flew back from abroad specifically for their proposal. Xi Mengyao was also unaware at the time. She was led to the mall by a friend, and then friends gave her roses one after another, and then they danced around her and made an invitation, "Princess, please come here."
Xi Mengyao was led step by step to the center of the stage.
He Youjun has always regarded Xi Mengyao as the goddess in his dreams. Xi Mengyao is very tall. He feels that he and Xi Mengyao are like princesses and Mario. He does not think that his height is anything, but that Mario has overcome all kinds of obstacles and finally He could be with his princess.
's proposal was also planned in this direction. It was very touching, and He Youjun also specially asked his family to help record a video to welcome Xi Mengyao into their big family. His younger sister, older sister, and older brother all recorded videos.
The seemingly untouchable mother-in-law Liang Anqi also said to her: "When you come to our family, I will treat you like my own biological daughter. Our big family welcomes you!"
Seeing this, Who wouldn't be moved?
How much does this man who loves you care? He likes you and wants to marry you. It’s not enough for him. His family must also welcome you. Only in this way will he feel that he has an explanation for you and you can marry with peace of mind. He, I believe he can give you happiness.
Xi Mengyao was also very moved at the time, and their proposal went very smoothly.
But when their proposal was amplified online, many netizens ridiculed it as "crude". Most of the scenes were decorated in pink, and Xi Mengyao also wore a pink skirt that was not that pretty, because everything was not fully prepared, and she did not consider that much when setting up the scene, which may not be in line with the aesthetics of netizens.
Everyone imagines how romantic and classy a marriage proposal from a wealthy family is, but they didn’t expect that He Youjun would come with such a pink face, which looked very tacky.
At that time, everyone was generally not optimistic about their love, and they mostly made fun of them.
But when it comes to love, there is no need to make everyone think you are happy. The most important thing is that you yourself are really happy. A pampered young man is willing to spend so much effort for the girl he loves, and even invites his family and friends, making a gesture of "we accept you and welcome you". This is not love. ,what is it then?
Any girl should be envious of Xi Mengyao. It doesn’t matter that her husband is rich and beautiful, and her mother-in-law is still so reasonable. When they get married, Xi Mengyao will not be criticized by her wealthy mother-in-law. Instead, she will be welcomed and doted on. Who wouldn't love such a man?
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My husband and I talked about the topic of "proposal", and he said that you girls just like romance. When the time comes for two people to get married, don't they just get married? Why do you have to put so much thought into proposing? Isn’t getting married a natural thing? Why bother? You must ask to get married.
I said, because only during marriage proposals and weddings can girls feel valued. Apart from that, the long journey of marriage is filled with trivial daily life. You say you love me, but you don’t even have this most basic thing. How can you say you love me? Don't you feel ashamed?
Talk about love, but what about your actions?
If you don’t even want to spend time on it, what kind of love is that?
Of course, this is just talk. After all, we are all ordinary people, and we are not as rich as He Youjun. Our sense of ritual can only be within our own capabilities. Is our proposal considered a proposal? In 2014, I went to Phuket with him. He bought a ring and then kneeled down on one knee while playing in the turquoise sea.
is a bit perfunctory and a bit simple.
This is something I have always been worried about.
There was also no wedding when we got married, because he was too poor at the time, and we were completely on our own. After buying the house, we had to renovate it, and then we had no money for a wedding. My relationship with him has been in love for so many years. To be honest, everything looks good, but there is no feeling of being "cherished".
Many times I don’t understand why I married him in the first place.
Have you ever lived a happy life? No, because I have given too much in marriage, and I will always be the one who gives the most. Maybe one day in the future, maybe one day I will have enough disappointment and we will separate.
That's how it is with relationships, you have to let me see that you love me, you have to let me feel that you love me, otherwise why should I do so much for you?
goes a bit far. It is also about He Youjun's proposal to Xi Mengyao, which reminds me of myself.
will still envy other girls, having a romantic proposal, having a surprise from a boy, no matter what, it is all a matter of thought, he is willing to do so many things for you, what is it if it is not love?
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