Amber (Liu Yiyun) really spicy Thai pants!
As a handsome androgynous girl,
has encountered a lot of criticisms about her figure and gender along the way.
Recently, many people came to her social platform to add bad words to her.
complained that she has no breasts (cracked)
did not expect Amber to be not angry. Instead,
was inspired by this bad comment and filmed a very creative "looking for breasts vlog".
is full of creativity, it is difficult to repeat in a few words (hands off)
(If you want to watch it, you can watch the full video ↓ Anyway, it is very 🐂)
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But a few special points are still worth mentioning.
Amber asked passers-by loudly in the vlog, "Have you seen my breasts?" The act of
itself disenchants the "breast" ↓
Rather than hiding, the way
speaks out loudly can dispel men's gaze on her breasts.
The essence of "shame" is still a feeling from the heart of the person being humiliated.
When you face up to this kind of unreasonable humiliation and don't care from the bottom of your heart, the pleasure of the perpetrator will disappear.
In addition to the trial of Amber's chest,
they also pointed at Amber's tattoo ↓
Is this weird? On the one hand,
scolded her for being flat-chested and not a woman, implying that she was "a boy" inside and out; on the other hand,
disciplined her with strict standards for women, thinking that women with tattoos should not be touched.
In the eyes of these people,
"female" is not a biological sex, but a component composed of various external standards?
is really too rigid👊🏻
After reading it, you will feel that Amber's quality is great... How can
respond to this kind of human being with such a high EQ? 2
As a member of the smash hit Korean concept group f(x),
has been constantly attacked for her appearance and gender since her debut.
(Members: Song Qian, Shirley, Amber, Jung Soo Jung, Park Sun Yeon)
And this "neutral" image was not even chosen by her.
debuted as a concept group in the function group back then, and Amber was required to assume a neutral concept.
Therefore, she was perfectly created from appearance to temperament↓
Because her debut was too early,
Amber didn’t even figure out who she was and what she liked,
faced overwhelming doubts from the outside world, and she herself was dizzy,
But everyone just likes to help her make decisions based on her appearance↓
I’m afraid many people still think of her Must like girls, right?
(many people even think this is a compliment...)
does not know that Amber is a straight girl and has had many boyfriends.
believes that she likes girls through her appearance, which may really be a kind of trouble.
(In the live broadcast, she mentioned that her former appointment was because of "he")
She also explained countless times that she is really a girl (this sentence is so ridiculous),
"What did I do wrong? The difference is just the clothes." myself.
is quite distressed.
has been packaged by capital as a special look since she was a child, but because of this appearance, she has suffered countless attacks.
and even various variety shows and activities will use this as a gimmick to question her.
But she is obviously a victim.
In a certain program, the host kept using the three words "not sexy" to connotate f(x).
Song Qian stepped forward to make a rescue.
she said that she didn't think women were only sexy when they wore short skirts↓
. It can be seen that the stereotype of "women should be like xx" has hurt too many people. Quality” and “beauty”,
is essentially killing more possibilities for women.
Gender is still fluid, not to mention temperament and clothing,
we reject men being defined by extreme masculinity, and we should also tolerate and understand that women are not so feminine, right?
Recently, "Riding the Wind and Waves" ended, and Ella Chen Jiahua won the C position ▽
In fact, after she got married and had children, she shocked the mainland netizens.
is because her temperament and appearance have changed a lot compared with the "tomboy" back then.
can be regarded as "reborn".
When she just participated in "Riding the Wind and Waves",
once posted a copy saying that she "has never been this girly in 22 years of forming a group".
The comment area was flushed ↓
(Ella then changed it to "never been so sweet")
Although these comments seem a little sensitive at first glance,
this sensitivity just means that everyone agrees with the identity of a woman, and they are more and more concerned about the matter of "not being defined".
didn't want to criticize Ella, after all, she was only influenced by some past concepts. Like Amber,
acted as a tomboy in order to match the concept of neutrality when she was young. Later,
returned to her external identity as a "woman", and instantly became the focus of the media's big fuss.
is the media's exaggeration of her "reform" and it is difficult for me to correct it.
I also think of Li Yuchun who sang the theme song for the first season of "Riding the Wind and Waves" The gender discrimination against Li Yuchun↓
is not limited to "Brother Chun",
they also turned Li Yuchun into a naked man, and used orange petals to mock Li Yuchun's lack of sexual charm.
is a hundred times worse than the current ridicule of Ding Zhen and Cai Xukun, which is almost equivalent to mental humiliation.
But Li Yuchun didn't do anything wrong,
it's just that her image doesn't have enough qualities to be gazed upon, that's all.
Fortunately, Li Yuchun has survived. Not only has
survived, but she is still going uphill, and the more she lives, the more beautiful she becomes. What's more rare about
is that she has always been soberly aware of who she is in the whirlpool of public opinion.
has not changed her comfortable image because of these bad words.
also have Zhou Bichang and Zeng Yike in the same way.
have been bombarded to varying degrees because of their tomboy image since their debut in "Supergirl". But after so many years, they still maintain a slightly neutral appearance, which is their biggest feature. The
era is of course progressing. Although
girls in neutral dresses still cause some criticism,
is far less exaggerated than the voice of the past.
C debut Liu Yuxin did not encounter Li Yuchun's predicament back then ↓
Jiang Luxia who is regarded as a star is also praised as cute and handsome↓
Men and women are only biological sex, which cannot be simply defined by appearance, and
should not force everyone under the framework of "what should you do".
Yi Nengjing's son was frequently reported because of his dressing style,
but Yi Nengjing said-
"It is more important for those who love him to know who he is than the world knows who he is." After the path,
ta is ineligible to go left or right.
The current situation is probably...
Not only can women not be like men, they can't give others the opportunity to stare;
Women can't be too much like women, and treat their femininity as they like.
You want to be beautiful, and you can't break the beauty of this rule, otherwise you will be overstepping the rules.
Jiang Shuying accidentally showed her bare face, which caused a great uproar ▽
Everyone rushed to persuade her to wake up,
hoped that celebrities would recognize themselves, and learn from the air↓
said it was to relieve the anxiety of amateurs, but in fact it was suppressing "freedom without makeup" in disguise.
baby showed her feet some time ago and was severely complained ▽
said that her nails were long and disgusting,
but in fact she just did a French manicure...
didn't tell the truth,
even the ethos from hair to fake nails is also full of horror.
White Deer's teeth have been bitten for a long time▽
Although it is not delicate, but it is too much to describe it as "disgusting to death"↓
And when a feminine image is perfect enough,
some people will start to rub it again.
It's hard to imagine that Yang Mi's posing for a photo will be raised to the level of rubbing the edge and "disrespect" ▽
has been scolded for hunchback before, and now that his posture has improved, he will be flattered.
"Anyway, I don't think I respect painting very much",
"Draw well if you want to draw, wipe well if you want to wipe",
Would you like to hear what you are saying? ? ?
Nazha wearing fashionable pants will also be blasted by the Internet ▽
is not showing her underwear, but there is a fake underwear side outside↓
has attracted a group of reasonable people who want to spray but are embarrassed to say it,
"It's not her figure, but the look of the pants is not right" ↓
"Either reveal it, or don't reveal it" ↓
If you can’t appreciate it, reflect on your own aesthetics. If
is wrapped up in your cerebellum, just say it, and you’re still pretending (covering your face)
.
Rito Ikawa just posted a few sexy photos↓
instantly became a big sinner,
said she was advocating that women have downward freedom? ? ?
So you can see it,
"It's not that you can't...but you should..." "Although you can...but in fact..."
dare not reflect on major structural problems, only dare to talk nonsense in front of the girl's photo. The seemingly rational and sober sentence patterns of
are actually used to package the ideas and concepts that define and demean women. There is not much difference between
being called "like a man" and being called "a slut".
hopes that girls can break these prejudices and present more and more strange and even incomprehensible shapes.
can grow and expand freely. The last sentence of
Internet is full of strange things, the road to liberation of mind is very long...
