Halo, hello babies
Two days ago, there was a cutie who secretly privateed me, saying: What are the flirting skills between couples?
Since you asked the question honestly, I will answer it seriously.
If you regard feelings as food that needs to be cooked with heart, then flirting must be an indispensable seasoning. There are not many tricks, 3 tricks are enough.
First, eyes
Research has proved that making strong eye contact is the first step to make the other party secretephenylethylamine and quickly sprout love and interest.
So, if you want to flirt with a guy, you might as well tell him what you want to say with your eyes. How does
do this? The answer is - stare (not stare). When
uses this trick, there is one thing to pay special attention to, that is, you must ensure that your eyes look gentle and charming, instead of staring at each other with a pair of dead fish eyes in a daze, let alone staring fiercely he.
teaches everyone a three-point gazing method, that is, when the other party is talking, stare at the three points of the other party in turn. First the left eye, then the right eye, and then the lips.
cycled back and forth like this, staring at each other for three to five seconds, the eyes would naturally look affectionate.
Then if the other party finds your affectionate gaze on him, he also looks at you with affectionate eyes.
Second, small gestures
1, brush your hair
When dating, you can play with your hair around your fingertips from time to time, or you can naturally gather your hair behind your ears.
This seemingly casual movement is very attractive to boys, isn’t there a saying “Even if you make steel, you will be turned into soft fingers.”
2, looking up
For example, you You can listen to the boy carefully with your chin up, look up, and make eye contact with the boy. At this moment, it is easy for the boy to move his heart and have the urge to protect you.
Because the action of looking up, in a man's heart, it is a state of'surrender' to him. At this moment, a
man will feel that you belong to him completely, and his self-confidence and desire to conquer are greatly satisfied.
Moreover, looking at it from a 45-degree angle, your face will become smaller visually, still in a beautiful state, and even look more cute and cute, which is very conducive to arousing his desire for protection.
3, inadvertent touch
For example, when you cross the road, you inadvertently pull his arm; on a date, take a group photo as an excuse to get close to each other; the road is slippery, and you wear high heels In case of a situation, grab the boy's elbow and let the boy help you.
these are nice "natural touches".
through these "inadvertent" physical touches, will not be artificial, but also release a strong attraction to boys.
Third, language
Proper language provocation can quickly catalyze the relationship between you.
1, praise tricks
You must know that no one in this world does not like to be praised, especially men. Appropriate praise can make them full of confidence and move forward bravely.
What kind of compliment is their favorite, and can it warm up the relationship between you? Then we need to master certain skills.
compliments need to add some details.
If you want to compliment a guy, just say "Wow, you are so good.", "You are really smart." These may make him think that you are just flattering him, just a small talk.
But once you add some details in it, when you are talking, look into his eyes and say sincerely: "I asked many people to solve this problem before, but they couldn't solve it. I didn't expect you It’s amazing to be able to solve it and discover so many details.”
Then I guarantee that he must be throbbing in his heart.
2, "special" tricks
Everyone wants to be different, to be the special one. So let him feel, in your heart, that heBeing different from others will naturally make him re-examine the relationship between you.
So how do you make the other person feel that he is the "special" one in your heart? Here's a particularly handy little trick.
That is, when the other party makes a request to you, use "Generally I will not go...but if it is you, then I can."
For example: "Actually, I am more resistant to playing games like secret rooms , because I think it’s too scary, so I usually wouldn’t go there, but if you’re by my side, I think I’ll have the courage to go there.”
remember to be confident, open and gentle when saying this sentence There is a little shyness in the middle, believe me, when he hears this sentence, he will definitely feel like a deer in his heart.
In short, remember one thing, that is to use language to "provoke" men, but this kind of provocation must not be a random provocation of boys, but a measured probing of boys, more points will make you tired, One point less is not enough.
Alright, that’s all for today’s sharing.
I am Seven, a post-90s emotional expert, focusing on sharing more sex education knowledge, emotional knowledge, getting along with the sexes, and skills to improve love quotient. See you next time.
