The world is like a book, I prefer your sentence, I would like to be a comma and stay at your feet. But you have your own readers, and I am just a ferryman. We will all go ashore, there are thousands of miles of sunshine, and flowers bloom everywhere. ——Zhang Jiajia "The Ferryman"
feasting, champagne beer, thousands of souls, stagnated in front of various problems, unable to get in and out, therefore, a career was born as a ferryman.
Ferryman: strong empathy, keen observation, catch people lost in the mist in one hit, open the exit, and guide them to the new world.
Claire McFall's "The Ferryman", the understanding of the ferryman is like this: " I guide the soul through the wasteland, protect them from the evil hands. I tell them the truth, and then send them To where they are going".
It is true that the ferryman will be there. He may be a friend, a relative or a stranger, but he can’t save you. All he can do is send you to the shore and really let you go up. There is only one person, that is, yourself. . What the other side of looks like depends on where you want to go.
The smoke circulates on the other side, but some people are looking for me, it is only prosperous for three thousand, but some people flee to me. ---The book "The Ferryman"
like this, put aside the complicated work and housework, "ferry", smile and tear in the quiet. The
movie lasts for 2 hours. At the end, some people say that the accumulation of chicken soup feels too deliberate; someone at
says that there is no separation of primary and secondary, and it’s messy to watch; someone at
says, watching it again after many years, and some slowly understand The angle of the
station is different, and the content you see is also different. If this drama can give you desperate, a reason to re-emotional, know why he (she) left;
for you who are escaping, one walks out The reason for the emotional injury, bravely face the facts that have been separated;
gives you who are at a loss, a firm reason to love, any regrets, regrets, go to Pikachu;
then, this ferry has been successful .
1. Love hurt, the same is hurt, this pain is in your heart, you can't see it, but it will bleed. Adapted, because the article does not have the main character and supporting role, so all the characters come out. Not only that, this drama also carries Zhang Jiajia's more than ten years of life experience, which can be said to be full of sincerity.
love hurts, but also self-harm. During the filming process of , Wong Kar-wai would cry when he heard the voice on the spot. He said that in some scenes, Zhang Jiajia was too emotional to direct himself. Touching scenery hurts feelings, touching love hurts the body.
"The Lost Goodness" has a lyric "Some people can’t tell what’s good, but no one can replace it", which means that clearly sees you as fat as a pig, and I’m as thin as a monkey, but for For each other, they still worry about being snatched away.
So I loved him (her), but failed to make it to the end. From then on, every love has his (her) shadow.
How many people are ups and downs in love, the affection carried in love, or the sea is more appropriate, boundless and unfathomable. Those who can walk out on their own are all elves, and wandering for a long time, like walking in a swamp, is the norm.
No matter who you are, loving this thing is equal to everyone. You may love, be loved, be sad, and be abandoned. The division of
emotions, the dual return to zero in the spiritual world and the real world, is very difficult to bear at once. Some people feel helpless because of this and remain single all their lives. Some people have never been sincere and have no real heart. Some people have the deepest pain in their hearts. They are paranoid and crazy. Some people choose to end their lives.
The feeling at the moment of being broken in love, from the mind to the body, is true at that time, which means that a healthy person will say even after being broken in loveMy heart hurts and I am not deceiving.
is medically interpreted as "heartbreak syndrome" for broken love and heartache, which refers to the chest pain, suffocation, shortness of breath, etc. caused by people experiencing extreme grief or anger due to a major external event. Symptoms of heart disease. It does not mean that it will really be "broken." The patient's heart usually has no obvious organic disease, but the pain feels like a real heartbreak. If it persists and cannot be relieved, vasospasm will also cause cardiac arrest and sudden death.
Actually, there is another manifestation called "Post Traumatic Stress Disorder", or "PTSD" for short. Perhaps someone has seen such a situation, after a person has suffered a major blow, without any response, working and living like nothing happened, can be many years. Such people are often scolded as "cold-blooded", but they do not realize that this is a kind of self-protection after suffering a deep blow.
"PTSD", people who often watch the TVB detective series may be familiar with it. Clinically, this is a kind of avoidance and numbness in "PTSD". Because the blow is too great, the body activates its own protection system to protect the individual from collapse and madness, so spontaneously, long-term or persistently try to avoid events or situations related to traumatic experiences, refuse to participate in related activities, and avoid the location or location of trauma. People or things related to trauma, in severe cases, there will be selective amnesia, completely forgetting the details of things related to trauma. The game "Bar Golf" in the movie
, in a certain sense, is a way to relieve emotional impact. The rule of the game is that you must go from one bar to the second bar within ten minutes. The bar prepares various drinking challenges and various drinking methods of various countries. The challenge of completing a bar is to finish a hole, and the outcome of the game depends on the outcome of the game. Who made more holes. And the challenger is in a hole-by-hole challenge and has nine opportunities to replay emotions. Is it true love? Do you want to continue? Is it worth it? Is it really impossible without him? Is there nothing but love in life? Do you want to work hard? ……
Do you want to challenge?
2. In love, I am not afraid of desperateness, but I am afraid that after desperation, that person will not belong to you.
An author once said that at that moment, you finally discovered that the person you once loved had already bid farewell. That day, I have disappeared in this world. The love and longing in my heart are just the memorials I once had. I think some things can be forgotten, some things can be remembered, some things can be willing, and some things have been powerless. , I love you, this is my catastrophe.
The owner of the ferryman's bar, the gold medal ferryman Chen Mo, ferryed too many lost souls in this bar, and the one who was more difficult to settle was a girl named Xiaoyu. Xiaoyu's story can be interpreted with a song called "Let Me Stay by Your Side". This is the song that the once-popular campus singer Ma Li sang to Xiaoyu in a concert in the rain.
The boy's Xiaoyu and Young Horsepower had a concert. The concert was postponed due to heavy rain. There was only one audience in the whole concert. It was Xiaoyu who came as promised, and Horsepower did not break the contract. So I also became friends. For many years after this, horsepower has been a very important part of Xiaoyu. The end of the relationship between
horsepower heralds the beginning of the story of Xiaoyu and horsepower. Speaking of horsepower's love, this is another tragedy of companionship and loss.
Horsepower’s girlfriend is called Jiang Jie. In life, the two live together, and in business, Jiang Jie assists Horsepower’s singing career. One day in the 6th year and 4th month of the two people being together, Jiang Jie, who was in her thirties, rejected Ma Li’s proposal. From no car and no house, to now there is a car and a house, the two have been away for 6 years. many. In the past 6 years, music is still the protagonist of horsepower, but Jiang Jie has left from expecting marriage to despair.
At this time, the background music "Ten Years" sounded, and Ma Li also told of his first meeting with Jiang Jie. "On July 29, 2008, you wore a blue dress with a ponytail. That was the first time I saw you."
Wang Jiawei once said oneIn a paragraph, everyone will stick to their beliefs, which is a waste of time for others, but she thinks it is very important.
Jiang Jie persisted, but time does not treat others, she wants a stable life, the person who wants her life most is late. And Xiaoyu still insisted. So Ma Li appeared at the door of Xiaoyu's house six hours after being rejected by Jiang Jie.
Ten years are too long, everything may change, a lifetime is too short, one thing may not be done, the memory is always at the end, you can't give up, you can only embrace.
How many years have passed, Xiaoyu's enthusiasm for horsepower has not diminished, Chen Mo said, this is blind worship, and blind worship is like. But Xiaoyu was noncommittal.
Xiaoyu's wallet contains photos of Ma Li when he was young, and in the closet there is a leather jacket where Ma Li was singing when he was young. Because of the decadence of horsepower, Xiaoyu decided to be his ferryman. In order to help Ma Li find a reason to sing, with the sponsorship of the bar and all his savings, he helped Ma Li organize a concert at the Ferryman’s Bar. Ma Li once said to Xiaoyu: Time has always moved forward, there is no end, only intersection. Xiaoyu always remembers this sentence, and uses it as a benchmark to move forward hopefully. The concert of
was a success, and horsepower signed an international company. Back to the bar street to have a banquet to thank the bar owners who had helped him hold a concert, but accidentally met Jiang Jie and her current boyfriend Jack, who used to sponsor horsepower. Jack kept provoking, Xiaoyu and Chen Mo guarded the horsepower, Jiang Jie finally said what he had wanted to say in the past few years, Xiaoyu is the horsepower spare tire. People in love, no matter how slow they are, they will be sensitive to , intertwined for various reasons, the two opened the craziest game in the urban legend ---bar golf.
Many people are born to drink, Xiaoyu and Jiang Jie, Jiang Jie fights for alcohol, Xiaoyu fights for life. likes it a bit, just like the wind that once fell in the wheat field, only the person concerned understands it, and the world pretends that it didn't happen. Perhaps Xiaoyu also just knew that for horsepower, he could hold on to this point.
The eighth hole of the devil’s ladder, Chen Mo called it the way to destroy himself. Everyone has their reasons for this step, some because of persistence, some because of jealousy, some because of despair, Xiaoyu is Because of horsepower.
"Chen Mo, have you ever worked hard for others in your life?" Xiaoyu asked Chen Mo on the way to the ninth hole. Desperate, one life, which is so easy to say and fight hard, if it is not because of love, who is willing to take the risk, but also because of love, desperateness has become the last way to explain to yourself, giving yourself a reason to let go.
The wine of the ninth hole, its name is the answer, which is compared with the devil's ladder of the eighth hole. At the moment when he said desperately, Xiaoyu faced his heart and fell in love with an impossible person. For so many years, watching him fall in love, watch him lose, watch him become decadent, and help him rise. As far as Ma Li is concerned, she is just a ferryman who sends him to the other shore. The only thing she can do for Ma Li, she has done it and done it very successfully. She completed the ferry, ferryed the horse power, and ferryed in the process. Lost myself.
In love, it’s difficult that you love each other at the same time the other loves you. Most of the time, when you love him (her), he (she) likes you and when he (she) falls in love. When you are, you have left in despair. However, if you still meet him, do you choose to love or accompany you, in another capacity, never have a reason to be by his side?
3. It turns out that two people sit side by side and go away.
Golf ends the story of Xiaoyu, and the story of getting acquainted with Chen Mo and He Muzi because of drinking begins.
Everyone has his own knot in his heart, or the people around you, the person who accompanies you and listens to you, is also suffering in his heart, like Po Meng’s soup, the gurgling is not seen in the pot, and it never goes out , And turning on that switch is everything related to the person in my heart.Chen Mo's switch is everything related to He Muzi.
ferrying people is easy to ferry others, because you are sober, and ferrying yourself, time is just a choice, not necessarily useful. For Chen Mo, ten years is not enough anyway.
He Muzi, the gold bartender, no one can walk through a glass in her hand. When Chen Mo learned about this in his friend Lao Huna, he decided to challenge He Muzi. Naturally, attempted. Chen Mo has a cup a day, but one cup after another, day after day. The reason for persistence makes the word tomorrow be painted with a promising color.
Chen Mo said to He Muzi, the length of a night alone is meaningless. I like the name of this glass of wine "See you tomorrow", so I can look forward to every tomorrow, because every tomorrow I can see you .
Finally, Chen Mo will have He Muzi every tomorrow.
From then on, Chen Mo knows how the city looks like at two o'clock in the middle of the year;
knows that azaleas are blooming, He Muzi has the most beautiful expression on his face;
knows the heavy snow, He Muzi’s palm, he should protect temperature.
When she drank, Chen Mo also felt the speed of her heartbeat.
Chen Mo said, he can't forget that He Muzi's breathing in his ear is like a spring breeze saying, I love you.
Not all past events are good, and not all memories should be left behind. Ten years have passed since and He Muzi’s love. Ten years later, I set foot on the road of bar golf again. I received the photos I should have received ten years ago. Looking at the two people in the photos were fixed ten years ago. With a smile, Chen Mo finally admitted that he had never forgotten, and that what he thought of forgetting turned out to be his own self-righteousness.
"See you tomorrow" and what is tomorrow, every day with you is called tomorrow, if you are gone, there will be no tomorrow. He Muzi left, in the arms of Chen Mo, when the sun rose, Chen Mo also left, and his heart was gone with He Muzi's departure.
He Muzi is like all the beautiful things in the world, like the Milky Way, like the Aurora, you like it, but you can’t own it. Chen Mo understood, it turned out that two people sitting side by side together would also get separated. The photo of
, Chen Mo was placed in the "drift bottle" between him and He Muzi. It was actually a car. The car was filled with He Muzi's relics, including himself. He parked it at the nearest location to He Muzi. The place. At the same time, Chen Mo also put the past in this place, because he knew that they would meet again at the end of the road.
He Muzi: "Chen Mo, why do you like hot pot so much?"
Chen Mo: "Those who can eat hot pot together are all people in the same world. In fact, it doesn't matter what you eat. Who is the best sitting next to you? Importantly, I have always wanted to go to the horizon to take a look."
He Muzi: "Is it necessary to go there?"
Chen Mo: "It's closer to watching the sunrise, I want to take you to eat hot pot"
He Muzi: "If I can’t go, remember, help me add a pair of chopsticks"
Chen Mo: "No, you will be there wherever I go"
He Muzi: "Thank you, walk with me through this section. The sunrise is so beautiful, fortunately not dead Last night."
It’s hard to save a single image, and I am connected with you, and the shadow moves with you, between behavior. The intangible always follows the left and right, who knows the love of shadow and heart. I want to look at the king, but I am different from yin and yang. I only want to stay behind and accompany the night. ——The book "The Ferryman"
is written at the end, wishful thinking, you must be willing to bet and lose, and if you have no regrets in your heart, life is also a kind of satisfaction. After crying loudly, Xiaoyu never appeared again, while Chen Mo and the others continued to ferry more souls to the other shore in the ferryman's bar.
Gu Tu Tu, a person on the road of writing.
